ruhequanlaogongchuguidenanren,zaihunyinli,danglaogongfashengjingshenshangdechuguidemiaotoushi,henduolaopohuijuedeshouzuwucuo,buzhidaozenmekandai。zheishi,yiweidiyoukuyounao、chizebingbunengjiejuewenti,fanerhuijiazhongfuqizhijiandefenqi,jiakuaihunyinshenghuodeliekai。neiyang,yingduilaogongjingshenshangdechugui,zenyangtongguosijuhua,jiheliquanzutadebuguixingwei,yenengrangtayishidaocuowu,zhenxinshiyihuigaini?xialiesijuhua,yexunenggoubangzhunishixianzheiyimubiao。
一、立即刺破,打破僵局

yingduilaogongjingshenshangdechugui,diyibujiushiyaodapotadechenmowuyan,shitawufazaijixuzhuangben。
yekeyizhijieshuo:“womingbainixinlizhuangzheshei,yemingbainiweihezhujianduiyuwolengdan。nirenweizhiyaolengluowo,jiukeyijiejueyiqiewentima?”zheihuawanruyizhenjianxue,lijitongpoletadejingshenjiasuo,shitazaiyewufatuolixianshi。
ruhequanlaogongchuguidenanren,yongzheizhongfangshi,womenbujinbiaodaduilaogonggerenxingweidelijie,haianshizhetahuibiwentideshixiaoxing,shitapobudeyizhengshizijidebuzhengque。
二、严肃认真警示,划分道德底线
xiamian,womenxuyaoyansurenzhenjingshilaogong,rangtazhidaotamendexingweizaoyichupengdaolenidedixian。
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三、设定时限,下通碟
weilenengranglaogongwanquanduanjueyudisanfangdebuzhengchangguanxi,nikeyishedingyigeshixian,weitaxiatongdie。
nikeyizheiyangshuo:“zaijiniyigexingqideshizhang,qingliganjingzheixiebuganbujingzhijiandeguanxi。jiarunihaishineiyang,neimewomenjiuzhinenghepingfenshou。niruguozhenaishanglebieren,buyuanhewoguoqule,wonengchengquanni。kewojueduibuyunxuhunyinshenghuofashengpanbian,jinguanwoaizheni,kewoyouzhiqi,jiaruniduanbule,duantaizang,shiwoxuanzelikaideqipo,juebujiuchanbuqing。”zheihuazhangxianlenihuodayusatuo,jinguannishenaizhelaogong,danshiniyouzhezijidezizunyudaodedixian,bunengzaipanbianyanqianweiquqiuquan。

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