老公出轨回家该如何相处

　　laogongchuguihuijiagairuhexiangchu，zaihunyinli，laogongchuguizheiyeshiduilaopojiaodadechongjizhiyi。xirideenaifuqi，rujintongchuangyimeng，duiyuzheiyangdekunjing，henduolaopobeitong，yiyuzheng。neiyang，danglaogongchuguishi，laopoyinggairuheyingduini?wenzhongweininpaiyoujienan，bangzhunininzaoribaituokunjing。

　　一、接受现实，保持冷静

　　dangfaxianzhangfuchuguishi，shouxianpingjingxialai，yingyongjieshouxianshi。buyaotaiguoyubulizhi，rangxintaimengbileshuangyan，bimianzuochubuzhengquejuece，daozhibukewanhuidedaijia。

　　zheishi，zhenduilaogongdewaiyu，lengjingfenxi，tachuguidegenbenyuanyin，linweibuluan。kenengdeyuanyinbaohanbicigoutongbudaowei、qianquegongtongaihao、shenghuodeyalideng。genjuquanmianlejieyuangu，nenggougengyouzhenduixingdichuliwenti。

　　《sunzibingfa》liyouyijumingyan：“yunchouweiwo，baizhanbaisheng。”

　　zhangwolaogongchuguideyuanyin，shijiejuewentidiyibu。jinyouquanmianlejiebicizhijiandemaodunhewentideguanjianyaosu，cainengyingduijiongjing，xunzhaoduice。

　　faxiandewenti，kezhibuzhubulizhichushoudajia，zhihuishijushijinyibuehua，wujiyushi。yebuyaoweizhizhuangkuangbeishangbuyi，youkuyounao，zhinengxiaohaoshijian，yaobaochiqingxinghelizhi。

　　“huoxu，congnidaitoudainaodiqingrenfalaosaotongkuliutishi，nidelaogonghexiaosanyijingyinnicaichan。”zheishiyibudianshijuzhongdejingdiantaici，juedehencanren，yinci，yaotidaodanliangyingzhan，weizijideganqingjinxingzhengduozhan。

　　二、密切沟通，寻求解决方案

　　laogongchuguihuijiagairuhexiangchu，duilaogongdewaiyuyuangu，shenzhongkaolv，laopojiuyongyouzijidexiaojiujiu，bixuhezhangfukaizhanzhenchengdejiaoliu。shuangfangyaoyiqimianduinanti，xunqiujiejuefangan。zaijiaoliuzhong，yaobaochilixinghelixing，jinliangjianshaoqingxuhuabiaoshu。biyaoshikeyihezhangfuyiqicanjiahunyinzixunhuoxinliliaofa，yixunzhaogenghaodejiejuefangshi。

　　yaobenzhe《zengguangxianwen》zhong“yiheweigui，renweigao”deguhuazuoweichulifangfa。

　　zaijiaoliuzhong，biciyaodongdeqianrangyubaorong。genjumiqiegoutong，xunzhaowentidezhengjiesuoshu，gongtongshangdingjiejuefangfa。zheiyangbujinnenggouhuanjiemaodun，hainengzengjinshuangfangdeganqing。

　　三、改变自我，开启新生活

　　zaikefulelaogongchuguidewentihou，laopobixuzhuyizijidechengzhanghefazhan。nengtongguoxuexijineng、canyuxiuxianhuodong、fazhanxingquaihaodengfangshilaitishengzijidejiazhi。

　　laopoyaoxuehuifangxiayiwangdeshangtong，yonggandequmianduijianglai。rangzijigengjiazixinyudandu，weijiatingtigongxindeshengjiyuxiwang。

　　wentianxiangshuo：“renshengzigusheiwusi，liuqudanxinzhaohanqing。”

　　yingduilaogongchuguidejiongjing，laopoxuyoujianqiangdeyizhiheyongqi，xuyoubaituokunjingdeqipo，buyaotaiguoyukuijiu，gaibianxianzhuang，jianxinziji，yidingnengwanhuizhangfudexin。