老公一直冷战怎么办？怎么减少冷战的频率？

 laogongailengzhanzenmeban?zenmejianshaolengzhandepinlv？duiyuxiguanxinglengbaolidezhangfu，zuoweiqizidegairuhechuli。zheijiulaijiniyixiejianyi。

老公爱冷战怎么办

 1、duiyuxiguanxinglengzhandenanren，niyiweidequzhudongqiuhe，shihuigandaohenleide。ruguonimingxianjitataijiexia，laogongdoumeiyouhuanheguanxideyisi，neijiujuedeshidangderenyiren。duiyuzheizhongxiguanxinglengzhan，yidingyaorangtaxuehuizhudongchengrencuowu。

 2、ruguolaogonglengzhandeyuanyinduoshiyinweinibujiangdaoli，neizhudong“furuan”bingbushibuxing。fuqiguorizide，chaojiazaisuonanmian，lengzhanyehenzhengchang，zhiyaowonenggouzhudongdapozheizhongqifen，xiangxinlaogongyebuhuiheyigenvrenjinjinjijiao。danyaozhuyideshi，zailengzhanguohou，yidingyaogoutongbicidexiangfa，fangzhilengzhandezaicifasheng。

 3、sheicuosheijiushouxianchengrencuowu。zheisihushiyizhongduizhenlidejianchi，keshihunyinshenghuozhong，shifoumeiyijianshiyexuyaojinjinjijiaosheiduisheicuoni?helaogonglengzhanzenmeban?yaomezhudongdapojiangchidejumian，yaomejiuyindaolaogongdapolengzhandeqifen。danyaozhuyideshi，hehaozhihou，helaogongbaochiyigebulengzhanyuedingshifenyoubiyao。

如何减少老公冷战的发生

设立一个发泄日

 ji：niduiwoyoushenmebuman，pingshiyaorenzhu，dankeyiliudaozheiyitianjinqingshuo，wobaozhengbuhaizuibushengqi，xiergongtingditourenzui，dangranzheiyitian，zaiduifangfaxiedeshihou，niyidingyaozuodaobufanbo、bubianjie，tongshisheshenchudixiangyixiang，duifangshuodeyoumeiyoudaolini?woyihoushibushikeyishaojiadiaozhenghegaijinni?

必要的坦诚沟通

 meicilengzhanyouhehaozhihou，yidingyaoxuanyigeshijianhaohaogoutongyici。youyidianniyaomingbaideshi，duifangxiangnibiaodadebuman，yidingbushitaguyidehuozheshizhuangchulaide，yidingshitazhenshideganshoushirucitacaihuirucifaxie，suoyi，yidingbuyaochenjinzaizijideweiquli，ershiyaoxiangbanfaqutihui、jienaduifangdeganshou，suoweifuqijiandeyouxiaogoutong，bushizhenglunduicuo、shifei，shuofuduifangrentongnideyijian，ershi：niyaotongguozheicigoutong，tihui、jienaduifangdeganshou：wo，qinaide，wozhongyudongdele，yuanlainixinlishizheimexiangde，yuanlainizuikanzhongdeshizheixie，yuanlaiworangnizheimebukaixin，haode，tingnide!

 haode，wohuigaizhengde!haode，woaini!dangnizhenzhenglejiedaoduifangdeganshou，nizijideweiqujiuhuidanhua、shiran，tongshiyejiuyoulegaibiandedongli，erduifang，huizainidelijiehejienali，anjingxialai，juedexinlishufu、shutanlexuduo，tongshiyezaixuexizenmeyangqutihuilijienideganshou，fuqizhijiancaihuixingchengyigeliangxingdehudong。

制定一些有意思的小规则

 biru，ruguozheicilengzhanshiwoxianqianjiu、furuan，neimexiayicijiushini。biru：womenchaojiadeshihou，ruguowoshangqianbaozhuni，neiwomenjiudouyaobizui、tingzhi。buzunshoujilvderenchufa，chufazuowei“hunyinshenghuojibenjianshegupiaojijin”，yongyuzuoweiquanjiarenlvyou、jixianghusongliwudejingfeiyusuan。

多传递赞扬和认同

 rutongnichangshuo，nidezhangfuchukaiailengbaolizheiyiwentiyiwai，shijishangcunyouzhehenduoyoushi，liruchangchangdaiyijiarenchulaiquwan、jiazhongdehuaxiaoquanshitafukuannideqianrangnizijicunzhe……zhenduitadezheizhongyoushi，nishilisuodangrandizaixiangshou，huanshiyehuixiangtabiaoshunidexiexiehexingyunni?dangnicongweicengbiaoshuguo，neimayouzennengguailingyifangconglaimeiyoujiguoniyaoxiangdebiaoshuni?jizhe：fuqijian，lingyifangkandainidefangfa，tongchangjiushinizishenjiaode。

 yaoxiangzaicihunyinshenghuohaiyaoyouyifangjijizhanchuqubaituolengbaolidejushi，jiarusheidoubuyuanfushu，neimanankandefenweihaihuijixuzaici，shijianjiule，fufudeganqingdanle，meiyoule，neimahunyinshenghuoyehuiliekai!meiyoujizhideairen，yebuhuiyoujizhidehunyinshenghuo，fuqijiandexuduofenqi，jiaruhuayixiesixu、dongyidongnaoziquchuli，zhibudinghainengbianchengfuqijiandelequni。