shenmeshihunyinlengbaoli?yuelaiyueduo“jujuejiatingbaoli”suizhejiaoyudepuji,yuelaiyueduoderenyishidaozijizhengzaizaoshoujiatingbaoli,renmengengjiaguanzhushentibaoli,zheijiushiwomenchangshuodelengbaoli。diaochaxianshi,70%yishangderenzaihunyinshenghuozhongjingliguolengbaoli,wufarenshoulengmodehunyinjingli。neime,shenmeshilengbaolidehunyinshenghuoni?
一、什么是冷暴力婚姻生活
shenmeshilengbaolihunyinshenghuo,shizhifuqizaigongtongshenghuozhong,yudaohunyinmaodun,liangrenbuyouxiaogoutong,yebutongguooudabaolilaichuliwenti,ershixuanzeyanyugongji,jingshenlengmo,shenzhijingjikongzhi,kouliugerencaichan,jujuerichangkaizhi。zheishiyizhongjingshennvedai,tamenbushitongguoquantoushanghaiduifang,ershiyongjingshenzhemoshanghaiduifangdexin,rangduifangmanmanfangqidouzheng,zhinengfucongqiangzhe,buzaijijileguandeshenghuo,feichangguanxinbierendeyanjing,bingtaiguanxinbanlvdeqingxu。
二、婚姻冷暴力大致分为两类
1.有意冷暴力
youxierenzhidaolengbaoliduihunyindeweihai,shituyonglengbaolilaishixiantamendemubiao,youxierenhunhou,wangjileyubanlvtonggangongkudeshenqing,xiangbaituoqizi,xiangzhuiqiuwaimiangengyouxiyinlidenvren。jialideqizibuyuanyifangqiyuelaiyuehaodewuzhishenghuo,yebuyuanyijihaiziposuidejiating,yebuyuanyirangnanrenweisuoyuwei,suibianpaoqiziji,wangjihunyindeshiyan,wangjilianggerentianmidekaishi。
zhangfuguyihushiqizi,qizishituxiufufuqiguanxi,zhangfutichudequedian,jijijiuzheng,nulixunqiufuqizhijiandegongtongyuyan,nulirongruzhangfuderenjiquanzi,tamengaibianleshiniandefaxing,xiangyaozhengjiuzhangfudexin。dannanrenzhongjiugaibianle,zhengchangxiabanhou,ningyuanxuanzejiaban,yebuyuananshihuijia,zongshiguyicuoguoyuqizixiangchudeshijian,zongshimangliuheleifuyandeqizi,zongshizhengqujiabandejihui。
xianran,wojuedewoqizidasuanxiufuzheiduanguanxi,dantaguyibimian,hulveta,jishitadeqizihenshangxin,tamenrengranhencanren。qizixinlihentongku,danbunengshuo,zhangfuzhangqibuheqizishuohua,buchengdanjiatingzeren,shenzhigongkaiyuchuguiduixiangdelianxi。tabuzaiguanxinzhouweiderenduizijidekanfa,zhishixianghewaimiandenvrenzaiyiqi,jiatingbuxiangyao,haizibuxiangyao,zhishixianghenvrenlihun。zhiyaoyigenvrenbuzaiqianshulihunxieyi,yigenanrenjiubuhuifangqiyitian,wulunshifouyoulihunxieyi,tadexindoubuhuifangzaijiatingshang。
2.无意中的冷暴力
budebushuo,youxienanrentianshengjiuxihuanyonglengbaolilaijiejuewenti。mianduifuqizhijiandemaodun,tamenbuyuanyigoutong,ershiduozaizijideshijieli。jishitamenyouyigeanjingdeshike,tamenyeyuanyizaizheiyikezhuiqiuheping。zhongsuozhouzhi,zhiyoujiejuemaodun,womencainenghuodezhangqidexinlingpingjing。tamenbuzhidaotamendehuibishiyizhonglengkudebaoli。tamenzhizunxunzijimuqiandeganshou,qianyishidixuanzeyuqizijinxinglengbaoli,zheishuyuwuyidelengbaoli。
youyugerenchengzhang,zheixierenbujinshanyuduiqizishiyonglengbaoli,erqieshanyuduifumuhuoqitaqinyoushiyonglengbaoli。tamenyouhuayaoshuo,buyuanyiyutarenjiaoliu。zaizhemozijidetongshi,tamenyezaizhemobieren。tamenmeiyoushiyonggoutonglaijiejuewentidexiguan。tamenzhihuixuanzebuqumianduitasihuzhiyaotamenbuqumianduita,maodunjiubuhuijixukuoda,wentijiuhuixiaoshi。
zheizhongnanrendexinggehenyouzhi。dangtazaihunyinshenghuozhongyudaozhongdashijianshi,tawufachengdanzeren。xiangfan,taxuyaonvrendaitou。yuzheiyangdenanrenxiangchuzhinengguoshushideshenghuo。ruguotamenzaihunyinzhongyudaoyidiancuozhe,tamenhuilijisuojinzijideanquanqu,jiuxiangyizhiweisuodewugui。hezheiyangdenanrenxiangchuhenlei,yinweitamenmeiyouyishidaozijishizaiyonglengbaolishanghaibieren。tamendeneixinyehenmaodun。tamenxiangheqizijiaoliu,dantamenbunengshuochuzijidexinlihua。tamenzhemoziji,zhemoaizijideren。
shenmeshihunyinlengbaoli?ruguonixiangjiejuezheizhonglengbaoli,nibunengrangduifangzaiyoumaodundeshihoumiandui。xiangfan,dangduifangchuyushushizhuangtaishi,manmandakaiduifangdexinqiao,rangduifangtuluxinsheng。
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