“家丑不可外扬”其实是家庭暴力的慢性毒药！

 “jiachoubukewaiyang”qishishijiatingbaolidemanxingduyao！woguo35%dejiazhongcunyouzhejiabao，daibiaoyoufeichangduoderenjinjinhunyinshenghuozaibiaomiandeguangxianlianglizhong，tamenweiquqiuquan，jiazhongkuwaibianxiao。neima，daodishisharangjiatingbaolizheibanfengkuangni?womenlaikankanyuanyinshishenme？

其一，封建社会传统式意识的作用

 shuwangbianzhiyanbuhui，juxianjieduanwoguoguoqingeryan，renquanyishihuanshiguangfantiandande。zuiqiangzheqiyaruoxiaobianchengdajiaxingtaiyishizhongguangfannenggou jienarenkedeguilvxing。zaiyigehunyinjiatingzhong，dangbierenzhuandeqianduoyixie，zaihunyinshenghuozhongdeyingxiangliguanjianyixie，qizijibianhuipengzhang，bierenbianhuifuheqianrang。jinerguzhifeilixingxingweidikuadaqicimouyirendegongxiao，bingburenweizaijialijiawulaodong，daiwa，henianshudebierenyeshijiazhongdenulizhe。feichangfeichangrongyizaochengyiyantang，jinerchanshengzhonghuachuantongguannianzhongshifenbijiaoyanzhongde“junquan”guannian。

 shijishangzheishiyigewanzheng，zaibudadeqingkuangxia，renmenxuduozubeijiuzheiyanghuilaide，babamamayeshineiyangwenhuajiaoyuzishenxiaohaide。nvrenyaosancongside，nanrenshiyijiazhizhu。cileizhuangkuangsuiranzaijinjinianlaiyouyidingdeyousuogaishan，danzaiwoguoxianeryijianyeyoufeichangyiduanyouzhangdeluyaozou。

其二，心浮气躁社会发展里的心浮气躁个人行为

 jiabaodezaochengshijishangherenmensuozaideshehuixianzhuangyeshiyongyoutingdaguanliande。dianjizhedangdairenquandouyuelaiyuexinfuqizaole，xinfuqizaowomenyiqiganbujisisuo，gengganbujigoutongjiaoliu，yiqiechaozhezongtimubiaohesulvjiandinglixiangxinnian，yaojijianggaoxiaolv，zhangjiuyiwang，xintaiguochengjiuguangfannanyishenxinjiankang，meiyoulianghaodexintai，shaoyoubushunxin，bianhuixinfuqizao。danchuziyubenrendeqingmianheshuobailede“wenmingxingwei”，zheileixintaishangdebumanyiyoubukeyisuiyiduiwaikaifangrenxuanxie，yincishoudangqihaidebianshihunyinshenghuozhongzheixiejiaolieshiderenle。

其三，家丑不可外扬观念的影响

 dangdiyicijiatingbaolizaochengdeqingkuangxia，shoubaofangyidingyaojiandingbuyi，yidingyaoqiangshi，yidingyaojitamenyidiansediaokanyixia，naizhijiusuanshishengsilijie，debatajinongpale，shitahenbunengguazouzishenneizhioudadeshou……fanguolai，jiaruzheidiyicimeiyoujiejuehaodehua，neimayoudiyicijiuyidinghuiyoudierci，jiatingbaolibianhuibianchengyizhongxiguanxing。yinci，wangbiancongbuzantongduijiatingbaolideqianrang。erdahuoeryibanchangshuode“jiachoubukewaiyang”yeshijiatingbaolidemanxingduyao，zaiweihuzuochang，zaijiaosuoqizhashoubaozhe。

其四，社会发展炎凉和人情冷漠给了家庭暴力于土壤层

 shitaideyanliangherenqingshigudelengdan，zaoyibianchengxiandaishehuigaosufazhanqushidefuchanwu。renherenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliushaole，quanyizhengchaoduole，jianghuitouguodewupinshaole，sizhoudehunningtujiegouduole。renmenjiurutongyishizhuxingzaiyigegeduziyirenfengbishidekuangzili，jiajiahuhuguanmenbihu，lijiabutanliujiadeshi，gebilinjuzaiyiqizhulehenduonian，quejingchangburenshi。conger，bianhuiweijiatingbaolidezaochengzaojiuleturangceng，zongzhizaihunyinjiatinglidunang，shuaigeshenme，dageshenmeyangderen，doumeiyourentingdao，tingjianleyewurenguan，guanleyexianghuburenshi，yagenbuaimianzideshier。congzheileishijiyiyishangeryan，shibaozhebianmeileshehuifazhanzuolinyoushedejianguan，gengmeileqingmianshangdegulv。

其五，质证难和有关依法治理的落后

 meimeijiabaochuxian，bianzonghuiyouyixiequanweizhuanjiachuqujianghua，chushiyixiejiejuejiatingbaolidefangshi 。dantianshangshizhongzhanlanbudebuchengren，quanweizhuanjiamendehuaqueshihenshishazi，tamenrangshoubaozhequjingbaohezhaofunvlianhehui，jieguojingyuanhefunvlianhehuiderendoudaizhu“xiaorong”laila，zhishouhuajiaodihebierentanledabantian，quewanquanmeiquanlidongbierenyixia。fanershizheizhonggongzhirenyuanduoguanxianshiderenyizou，shoubaozhehuizhaolaigengweicantongdebaoli。yinci，dajiazaiwenquanweizhuanjia，neiyangdeshiergaizenmeban?tamenyaowozhizheng，woshenshangdeshangyebukeyibianchengbaifenzhibaidezhijiezhengju。shuodaozheierwangbianzhendeshihenqinao，nilianguifanhefalvfaguiyemeiyouzhiding，nirangbierenruhezhizhenga?