什么是冷暴力？面对冷暴力，夫妻应该怎么做才可以

 jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？jiatinglengbaoli，bianshiyizhongbaoli，bingbushigerenxingweibaoli，zhishizhuyaobiaoxianweilengmo、hushi、zongrong、shengshuhebuwenbuwendexintai，daozhibierenjingshenshizhishanghexintaizhuangtaishangzaoshouqinhaihesunhai，shiyizhongjingshenshizhilingnvehecanhai。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？

 jiatinglengbaoliguanjianyouerzhongzhuangkuang；jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？yishijiatinglengbaoli，ershizhichanglengbaoli，shishishangquanshiyizhongjingshenshizhilingnve。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？

拿婚姻关系而言!

fuqijianzhangqijiaowang，yaoxiangmeimanhunyinjiatinghexieyaokaoqingganlaiweichi，danqingganbingbingbushipingkongerlai。

“要觉得才多情”！

erhunyinjingyingshidefangfabianshi“goutongjiaoliu、lejie、kuanrong”。

 goutongjiaoliushirenherenzhijian、renherenqunzhongjianneixinyuqinggandechuansongheyijianfankuidequanguocheng，erqiuguanniandachengyizhiheqinggandeshunchang。

zaiwomen"lingting"houcaikeyigengqiangdeyijianfankui，neiyangdegoutongjiaoliucaihuishunchang，yaoburanzongshibiancheng"goutong"。

 juyoutiexinlingyifangdexin，yeshiyouzaipengdaofenqishi，baozhenglijidegoutongjiaoliuhekuanrongdezhudongxinghezijuexing，zhinengneiyangcaikeyibafenqihuaxiao，caikeyibaxianghudejiedipingbi！

ruomeifazuodao，zhiyouzhengshinihuanshibugouailingyifang，zhengshizheifenaishiyizhongzisizilideai，zigaozidadeai。

 goutongjiaoliu——shichuliqingganwentidediyibasuochi，yeshizuizhongyaodesuochizhiyi，tanenggou chulixuduofufuhuolianrenjiandenanti。

 zuodezijibukucunjiyabujianmobumanbaobutongchu，dakaixinfeishideganshoulingyifang，yizhinantideliangjihuagenkucunjiyarumo，zuodaoxinlingxiangtong。qingganshenghuocaihuigengweihemu。

zhangwojibenshangmeiyiduifuqihuolianrenjiandoushiyoubuyiyangshuipingdejiatinglengbaoli。

 “shilengshire”“naxiejianmo”“naxienibudongwo”“naxieyaowojingyijing”“wojuedeyigedaihuier”“wohaofanbieliwo”zheixie，zheileitiaoxuanduobinantidezongshirangqingganlengdaowanmei，jiyulingyifangsunhai。shenmeshilengbaoli？lengzhanshishenmeyisi？

 jiatingbaolilihunzenmechuli？zhangqidejingshenshizhicanhai，biranzoubuxialai，liyihetichufenshoushibidingde，jishibuliyi，dajiadehunhoushenghuoyehuichuzaishenglingtutandeqingkuang，lingrenmeifachengdan，zuizhongbeibifeng，haibushiyigeren，zhishiliangrenfengdecuican。

wojuededaolisheidoudong，zhilejiemeiyouxingdongyiqiedoushibaifei！

 yiweidishuozishendoudong，zishendougaoqingchu，danmeiyouyiqiexingdonghenuli，neimajieguoyehuiyoulenidesuojianjisuoxiangganguai，duidajiadeqingganbingmeiyouyiqiedexiezhuhegongxiao。

 guanjiansuozaibenshenjiejinsuonengsuogaoqingchudedadaoli，benshenmingbairuhequyunyinghaohunyinshenghuodefangfa，qieqieshishidenulixingdongheqinfen。

 meiyousheixiangyaozaihunyinshenghuozhonghuozheqingganzhongchengdanlingyifangwuyindejiatinglengbaoli，congmouzhongchengdushangeryan，jiatinglengbaolideren，shijishangrengetezhishiyouquexiande，huoshishishuoxingqingshiyouquexian，zheileiren，jiarufeidejizheileirenyigebiaoshi，neibianshi“zisizili、xiaojiaziqi”dexiangzhengxingjiaose。

长期性处在这类情况下，总是造成二种結果:

yingyongjiatinglengbaolidebiechubinglai；

beijiatinglengbaoliderencuicanfeng；

zongeryanzhijiatinglengbaolizaihunyinshenghuozhong，pohuailiyidianyebuxunyuwaiyugenpanbian。

 bijiaoyanzhongde，jianghuihuidaozhilingyifangdejingshencuoluan，biezhuyikouqi，duzheyikouqi，zuozhezishenxintaizhuangtaishanggenrengetezhishangdecanhai。

liangrenlaidaoyiqishiyuanfen，chulifuqijiandenantijuebushikaojiatinglengbaolijiunengchulide。

情感是互相的。

 nixuyaolingyifangdeguanzhuheaixideqingkuangxia，yiyanglingyifangyeshibixulaiyuanyunideguanzhuaixide，meiyouyiqieyigerenshizhixiangyaonuli，buqidaihuodeshouyide。

yiyang，fenqiyeshihuxiangde。

 yiweidezhituzhezishendetihui，ganjuezishenbiequ，zishenmeiyoucuo，keshinikeyigaoqingchu，fenqiyeshihuxiangde，butaikenengyigerenyekeyijihuamaodunde，youyinbiyouguode。

xuehaohuanweisikaoyixia，jiarulingyifangyeduizijizuoyiyangdeshier，zishenyeshibushinenggou jiena。

shenmeshilengbaoli？haohaodisikaoxiazishen，xianghuzhijianqianjiu，huxianglijiecaisuanshifuqizhijianzhangqidejiaowangjiqiao！！！