什么是冷暴力？婚姻中的冷暴力是如何形成的

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hunyinshenghuozhongjianjiatinglengbaolidezaochengguanjianyuanguyouerdian：xingqing、lianggerenzhongjiandexiangchumoshi。

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 biru：zailianggerendejiaowangzhongmeiyicidezhengchaoquanshinanxingchengrencuowu，suihouzaiyounanxingquhongnvxinggaoxing，dahuoerjianghuiganjuezheimeiyoushenmenantishiba？

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 zaizheilidiernianpengdaonantishidejiejuefanganbianshixianghugoutongjiaoliu，changchangdegoutongjiaoliushi“mosha”lianggerenzhongjianfenqishide“wuqizhuangbei”，erqiezaixintaizhuangtaishangyidingbubixianghuzhijianzaochengcuowuguannian。

 liruxiang：“woduitachengrencuowuneishifoujiuyiweizhewozhihoujiutaibuqitoule？”youliru：“tayijianshidixiatou，tashifoupawole？zhihouwoshuoshenmebianshinaxie”？

 lengbaolihunyindeyuanyinyounaxie？qianwanbieyouneiyangdeniantou，youyulianggerenzhongjiandecuowuguannianyidanzaochengerqiemeiyouhuodehelidejiejue，neizheiyicuowuguannianbianhuiyizhichengcaixialai，jiyoukenengzaiduzaochengqitacuowuguannianjinershilianggerenzhongjiandeguanlianchuxianliefengjineryinqijiatinglengbaolidechuxian。