夫妻婚后冷战，摧毁中年婚姻的其实是这个

 dajiazongganjuehunyinshenghuoyutanlianaibukeyihunweiyitan，tanlianaishiquanguocheng，hunyinshenghuoshijieguo，congzouruhunyinshenghuodeneiyikegangkaishi，tanlianaijiujieshule。jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？worenwei，hunyinshenghuoshigenjutanlianaide，hunyinshenghuoyaosidiaotanlianaidetangyi，qupinweishenghuozhongdewuweizachen。hunyinshenghuoyutanlianaibingbumaodun，keyihunyinshenghuoguochengtanlianaideqinggan，caisuanshizhenshidexingfukuaile。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？

 xingfumeimanhunyin，shisuoyourenxinlidewubangtuo，jiejinledahuoerquanbudereqinghejiqing。jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？danshibianhuadaolaitaikuai，bansuizheshijiandeliushi，shiguangdeqinshi，henduorendehunyinshenghuoquebianchengyitansishui，fanbuqiyidianyilian。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？

 yishizhuxingbenbianshipingpingdandande，kedahuoeryouaobuzhupingpingdandan，yishizhuxingyuefakuzaowuwei，hunyinshenghuojiuyuefeichangrongyichuxiannanti。zheishiyigeshifenshijiyoupubiandeqingkuang，jinqireyingde《ruguosuiyuekehuitou》，jiushifenyingheyishizhuxing。

 《ruguosuiyuekehuitou》zhengbuju，xushulesangeshiyechenggongquehunyinshibaidenansheng，huxiangjilihuxiangxiefuzhegangkaishigenghaodeshenghuo。erguanzhongmenduizhengbujujiaodadeganshou，bianshitiejinshenghuo，henshiji。

 zaiqiuzhiyudeposhixia，xiaojingyequkanguozhengbuju，lianxujujinjinweiraozhesangejiazhongdehunyinpoliejinxing。youqishijindongbanyandebaizhiyong，yeshiyikaishijiubei“bizhe”lihunle。

 qudelihunzhengshuhou，baizhiyongwenjingya，jiejinershiniandehunyinshenghuo，yiqiandouhaohaodide，weihehuranjiuxuyaoliyini？jianxintashixuduo zaoyuhunyinpoliedenansheng，douzuixiangyaozhidaodenanti。

 duia，yiqiandoufengchuiyudaxiangsuileneimeduonian，yanjianzhexianghudouzaoyitaruzhonglaonian，pianyaoyaozaizheigeshihouqinshenjinglihunyinshenghuodehuatielu。

 jingyajiqixinsuandigaozhibaizhiyong，tayayigan，tashenxinpibei，baizhiyongde“jiatinglengbaoli”rangtaduihunyinshenghuoshiquzixinxin。jingyabixushouhou，bixuguanai，kebaizhiyongquezhidianjizhewan。xinlideqipanzhihuandelengdanyuji，xianglaimeiyounajianvxingnengjiena。

 buzhishijingyahebaizhiyong，lingyiduifuqiyezhengqinshenjinglizheneiyangdezhuangkuang。zuoweidaxuejiaoshidelantianyuruheyexiangbudao，zishendelaopojinghebiedenanshengyouyitui，haibeitadaigeduizhe。

 lantianyuxinlishinaonude，tajiangquanbudeyiwudoutuijilelaopo，naizhizailaopobiaoshudeqingkuangxia，tahaiganjuelaoposhizaizhaojiekoutuiwei。

 guqiebushuolaoposhifouzaijizijidebuzhengquezhaojiekou，dandancongtaneiju：“benlaishiliangrendejia，kewoganjueshizhongshiwoyigeren。”dahuoerjiunenglejie，tazaizheiliduanlengdanyoupingpingdandandehunyinshenghuoli，guodeyouduomedeweiqu。

 wulunshibaizhiyong，huanshilantianyu，tamenyemeiyoulejiedaozishenzaihunyinshenghuolidebiyaoxing，yixinzhituguozishenxiangyaodeshenghuo。shenghuoshiyigerende，kehunyinshenghuoshiliangrende，hunhoushenghuojiugailiangrenhaohaoshenghuo。

 haijideyiweisixiangjiashuoguo：“hunyinshenghuodequdechenggongzaiyuliangren，eryigerenjiukeyishitabuchenggong。”jiatingbaolilihundezhengquefangfayounaxie？jiaruhunyinshenghuolizishizhizhongzhishinvrenzainulizaiqinfen，zaowandoushizoudaozuihou。hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？lengbaolifenshouzenmechuli？

 hunyinshenghuobushiyigerendeshi，sheidouqidaihunyinshenghuonengcongyierzhong，danshixuduo zhongnianfuqidehunyinshenghuo，quebeilengdanjibaile。《ruguosuiyuekehuitou》zhengbuju，jiujizhongtixianlerendaosishi，cuihuiyiduanhunyinshenghuode，shinanxingdelengdan。

 congjiqingdaolengdan，congreqingdaopingpingdandan，shimeiduizhongnianfuqibixuqinshenjinglidekan，jiazhong“jiatinglengbaoli”yeshixuduozhongnianfuqidexiankuang。

 yexuhenduorenzishendoumeifanyinghuilai，jiujianglengdandailaileshenpangle。beilengdanmimanzhedehunyinshenghuo，shinvxingzuihaipa，zuiyaoxiangtaochude。

男生的冷淡会加快情感外流

 fufuyaozhangqixiangsuibuyi，youyuzaiyishizhuxingdequanguochengzhong，liangrendeqingganhuizhujianfashenggaibian，xuduo fufulaidaozhonglaonianjibenshangzaoyibianweizhenqing。

 qingganbianhuashiyigeyouzhangdequanguocheng，kejiaruliangrenzhongjianzhishenglengdanshi，qingganbianhuixunsuxiaochu。lengdanmimanzhequanbujiazhong，huirangnvxingzaochengjiaolvqingxu，yuelaiyuehaipa，zhangjiuyiwang，nvxinghuichedibenkui。

 nanshengdouhuichizenvxingfashengbianhua，yuelaiyuemanbujiangli，yuelaiyuebianhuanwuchang。kenvxingdezheizhongzhuanbian，quanshizainanshenglengdandeposhixiazaochengde，suoyishuorendaosishi，cuihuiyiduanhunyinshenghuode，shinanxingdelengdan。

 yiduanhunyinshenghuozhangqixingbeilengdanlongzhaozhe，zhishenzaiqizhongderendoushiganjueyayigan，naizhihuixiangsheqizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。xianglaimeiyousheixiangyaozheibanyazhizhuyishizhuxing，zhiyoujiqinghereqing，caikeyiranghunyinshenghuogengweixingfumeiman。

男生的冷淡会让女性奔溃

 suoyourendeyizhilidoubijiaoyouxian，zheiyeshiweishenmenvrenhurantiaoxuansheqideyuangu。zaibaizhiyonglaikan，jingyashijinxieniancaichengshoubulede，keshijishangshijiniandehunyinshenghuoquanshizaijileixinhan，shiwangzangoule，nvxingxinhenlei，yejiuyaoxianglikai。

 nanshengrenweilaidaozhonglaonianjiuwuxuquweihubaoyanghunyinshenghuo，lengdanyebuhuidaozhishenmewenti，danshishishang，nanshengdelengdanhuirangnvxingzaibenkui，genghuirangnvxingjuedeshiluo。

 neixinbingbushiyitianliangde，zhangqihuozainanshengdelengdanxia，zaihuoredexinyehuibeiwanquanlengdong。rendaosishi，cuihuiyiduanhunyinshenghuode，bianshinanshengdelengdan。

 wulunlaidaonaxienianling，nanshengdoubuyinggaiyonglengdanlaikandainvxing。buguidingniweinvxingdaiquruhedereqing，zhiguidingnibierangnvxingjuedeshiluo。

 hunyinshenghuobushiyigerendeshi，bixufufulianggerenxianghuqushouwei。hunyinshenghuobuyongfenbugushen，danyebukeyilengdanyuji，rendaosishi，cuihuiyiduanhunyinshenghuode，shinanxingdelengdan。

 《ruguosuiyuekehuitou》yingshedeshijishangjiushimuqianxuduo zhongnianfuqidexiankuang，ershijiyeyaobidianshijigengcanren、gengbijiaoyanzhongyixie。guoduozhongnianfuqiguozheyoumingwushideyishizhuxing，guoduozhongnianfuqibeilengdansuocuican。

 lengdanshihunyinshenghuojiaodadeduishou，wulunxianghuyeyoubuaile，doubuyinggaiyonglengdanlaisunhai。shouweihunyinshenghuobingmeiyouxiangxiangzhongneimajiannan，nvxingzaihunyinshenghuolideguidingdoumeiyouneimagao。

 hunhoulengzhanzenmeban？yigerendejiameiyouwennuan，bingliangdefangjianmeiyourouqingsishui，nanshengbierangnvxingyigerenyingduigudan，yebiezaihunyinshenghuoliquezhenzhangshijian。renzhenqushouweihunyinshenghuo，haohaodihelingyibangoutongjiaoliu，jiacaihuigengwennuan。