面对冷暴力婚姻，你学会这8招，婚姻才会开始“回暖”

 henduorendoushineiyangjuede，tanlianaideqingkuangxiacaixuyaolangman，zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？wanhunyaoshiliangrenpingdanrushuiguoshenghuojiuhaole，nalaineimeduohuashaode，budanfeihuoliyeyaoyibikaixiao。shijishangliangrenyiguorelian，reqingtunqu，tarulepuputongtongjianyidehunhoushenghuo，meiriyuyouyanjiangcuxiangchu，yishizhuxinghuiyulaiyuwuqiwei，fuqijianzaisuonanmianyouhenduodiediezhuangzhuang，zhishaoyouyugezhonggeyangsuosuizaocheng liyidebujiqishu，hunyinshenghuoshibixuyunyingde，xingfukuaileyeshiliangrenyiqinulidejieguo。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？yexudajiadeshenghuoshuipingbugao，suiyihuaxiaoyidianyidianqian，bixuhaohaoaizijihaojifenzhong，danhunhoushenghuodepinzhiquebingbuyushenghuoshuipingzhengbi。youxierenshuo，lanmanshifurencaiwandeyouxi，putongbaixingyaoshiananwenwenguoshenghuojiukeyile。shijishang，ganqingmeiyougaoai，lanmandoubufenqiongfu，lanmanyoushibingbuyidingguoduodeqiancai，erzhibixuhuaxiaoyixiesixu，bixurenzhen！lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？

zaihunyinshenghuozhong，nijiarumingbaizheizhongjiliang，buyongpofeiyishizhuxingyeguodenenglanmanjiqi！

一、熟悉的地方沒有景色

 bulunshizaitanlianaijieduan，huanshizaihunyinshenghuozhong，shiqingjiaruweichiyichengbubian，bianhuizaochengpibei，zaimeilidejingsemeitianjiandaoyehuisangshixingquaihao，zheijiushishijuedeshenmeipilao。yiner，yaoxiangrichangshenghuoyoureqing、weichixinxian、weichilanman，jiuxuyaozuoyixiehepingshibuyiyangdeshier。

 jiarudaoxianzaicaixing，nilianrenxiabanlenijihuyemeiyouqujiedaota，neimachangshiqujietayici，haijideyaoqiaowushengxi，jitayigeyiwaijingxi。jiarudajiafangzidechenshesheji、sediaozaoyihenduonianmeiyouhuanyiguo，hebuhetayiqibadajiadefangjiangaizaogengxingaizao。

 dajianenggou zaicishejifanganyixiafangjianneidebaifang，huobawuzipenchengxindesediao，rangyishizhuxingdeziranhuanjinggenggaiyixia，dajiadeqingxuyehuihuanranxin。shuxidedifangmeiyoujingse，jiaruonimeiridounengzuochuyixierangtafajuedexiaogenggai，dajiadehunyinshenghuoxingfuganyekeyimingxiantigao。

二、每日与另一方传递快乐

 zaidajiadepingshijiaowangzhong，bulunshiyoushihoujiandaodegaoxiaoxiaopinwenzhangneirong，huanshibierenfaguolaidequweixinxineirong，naizhishiyimalubiantingshuodedeyulebagua，yaoshishiyouqudewupin，nidounenggouhelingyifangyiqigongxiang。jianjiandi，jiaoliuhuishidajialiangrendehuatitaolunyulaiyuduo，yishizhuxingyehuiyouyudajiadegongxiangergengweiqingqingsongsongkaixin。

 meitianwanshanglinshuiqian，ninengjitajiangyixienizijixiaideduangushi，huoshijitacaiyixiemimian，hainenggoulianggerenyiqizuozaishafashang，kanyibuxiaodianying，neiyangyeshiyizhongxiaoxiaolanman。

三、每日给另一方一些关爱

 zaoyujiatingbaolizenmeban？zaihunyinshenghuozhong，youshi，lanmanbianshibuzhibujuedeguanai，bianshishenpangdediandiandiandidi。huoxushizaochenweitachongdeyibeizhuniunai，huoxushitakouganshiweitaduanqudeyibeibaikaishui，huoxushiweitaxihaoyigepingguo，youhuoshishizaochentazhengkaiyanjingqingkuangxiadeyiju“zaoshanghao”，shuijueqiandeyiju“wananhaomeng”；youyexushilianggerenyongcanshi，niweitayongcandedongzuo，canhoulianggerenshouwanshoudechuanxingzheixie，meirijilingyifangyixieguanbei，shijianzhangle，quanbudeguanaidoushileijichengaidexiguan。lengzhankaishidebiaozhishishenme？lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？

四、要尽可能给她-些夸赞

 hunyinshenghuozhongdeliangrenzaiyiqishijianjiule，yanzhongneixinyexudouzhishengyulingyifangdequexian，bianhuiduilingyifangdeyoushizhiruowangwen。xuduoqingkuangxia，yaoxiangrangyishizhuxingyibukuzao，jiuxuyaoxuehaojinkenengjilingyifangyixiexiekuazan，zhongjiusuoyourendouxiaibierendezanyang。

 yaojishichulihekuazanlingyifangdeyoushi，lingyifangcaihuiganjuenigaoduzhongshita、shangxita，ziran，zanyangyaochuangjianzaichengxinchengyidejibenzhizhong。yeyoubianshizanyangbubiguoduliji，yaocongcebianquzanyang，neiyangtajiburongyinankan，haihuijixufeichanggaoxing。

五、塑造相互的个人爱好

 dajiazaicongyezishendegerenaihaoshi，qingxuzuishifangyali，yezuiyukuai。yinci，nihebu“shunshuituizhou”，suzaoyutatongyangdegerenaihao。xianghudexihao，huitishengdajiaxianghudehuatitaolun，tigaodajiadegoutongjiaoliu，huirangdajiadeyishizhuxingtishengxuduokuaile。danggaoyiduanluoyitiandekuzaofaweigongzuozhong，dajiadexinshendouhenpijuan，jiarucikeliangrenkeyiyiqidaowaibiansansanxinhuoyidawangqiu，budanpijuanhuiyisaoerguang，bingqieliangrendeqingganyehuimanmantiwen。

aiqingjiushi2gezhiquxiangtouderenzouzaileyiqi，suihoulianggerenyouyiqinulidezouxialai。

六、培养一个烂漫的小习惯

 youduifufu，zaishenglexiaohaiyihou，goutongjiaoliuzhujianjiangdi，qingganyeyulaiyuqianque，qingshanggaodenvrenguannianlaidaohunyinshenghuozhongdeweiji，bianguidinglaogongpeiyangyigexiaoxiguan，neibianshimeiribaotayifenzhong。zuichu，laogongjinjinmanbuzaihu、fuyansaize，zhihouzhujianxinyouyidingdedong，zuizhongjuranyuelaiyuexinxinxiangxi、yiyouweijin，yuanxianzheiyilanmandexiaoxiguandejiaoda gongxiaobianshiranglianggerenxuehaoxianghuaixi，meiwangjizaipingdandeshenghuolijilingyifangdiandadong。

 peiyangyigelanmandexiaoxiguan，nenggou shimeiriyifenzhongdexiangyong，nenggou shizaochendeju“zaoshanghao”，youhuoshishilinshuiqiandeyigeqingwen，zongeryanzhi，bubihushiwuzuqingzhongdexiaoxiguan，meiyoutamen，dajiadehunhoushenghuohuiyuelaiyuekuzao。

七、尝试表白情书或便笺条给她

 ninengxiefengnongqingmiyidebiaobaixinjita，gaozhitaniduitadeguanzhu、yilaiheganxie，tahaowuyiwenhuitixindiaodandishouzang。niyenenggou xieyixiebianjiantiao，jiazaitachangchangpengchudediqu，rutachangchangkandeshuli、dianbingxiangli、juzili、qianjialideng，shangbianxieshangyixiewenroutianmidehua，takanguoyihou，quebaohuijingxiwanfen。

八、为她养只小宠物

 dangnidetabudichuxiaochongwu，niyenenggou hetayiqiyangzhixiaochongwu，yizhixiaomaomihuoyizhixiaogoudounenggou，ninengfajue，dajiadehunyinshenghuoyouyuchongwuerzengjialexuduokuaile。

 xiangxiangyixianeiyangdejiemian：neitianwanshangshangbandeqingkuangxia，dajiatuozhepijuandequticongwaibianhuijia，dajiajiadexiaogougougandaodajiadeyanqian，yaozhetaorenxihuandexiaoweiba，yongqinjindemuguangwangzhedajia，dajiahaihuijixujingshenpibeima？kexueyanjiuzhengshi，weiyangxiaochongwunenggou helidijiangdirendexinfangan，jianxinzaichongwudeshouhouxia，dajiadeyishizhuxingyedinghuigengyoukuaile。

 xiaojie：lengbaolihunyindechulifangfayounaxie？nvxingdouxiailanman。zaiganqingzhong、hunyinshenghuozhong，jiarunenggesanchawudijiushengchanzhizaoyixiexiaolanman，xiaojingxi，neimahunyinshenghuozhongdehenduopingpingdandanyukuzaofaweihuiyuelaiyuedi，hunyinshenghuohuiweichizhereqingyumeili。yexunideshenghuopinzhibugao，keshinihuanshinenggou huahuoliyusixuquranghunyinshenghuoguodefengfuduocai，rangtaxiguanxingnidelanman，xiangyounimeirichanshengdeyiwaijingxi。lanmanshihunhoushenghuozhongbukehuoquedediaojipin，nengranglianggerendeganqinggengweiduozhongduoyang。