花镇：女朋友说无聊应该怎么回

　　zaiyiduanguanxizhong，xianghugoutonghelijieshifeichangzhongyaode。raner，youshinvpengyouxinliyouxieshiqingbuxiangshuo，zheijinanhaidailailehendademafan。nanhaimengaizenmeban？nvpengyoushuowuliaoyinggaizenmehui？benwenjiangcongduogejiaodufenxizheigewenti。

　　一、耐心倾听

　　shouxian，nanhaiyinggaibaochizugoudenaixin，naixindiqingtingnvpengyoudehua。dangtadenvpengyouyuanyishuohuashi，jitazugoudeshijianhekongjianlaibiaodatadeguanxinhelijie。ruguonidenvpengyoubuxiangshuohua，baochinaixin，bimianjianchi。yinweiyoushihou，zhiyouzaiziwozhiyuzhihou，renmencainengzhenzhengmianduizheigewenti。

　　二、仔细观察

　　qici，nanhaiyinggaiyouzixideguancha。tongguoguanchanvpengyoudeweibiaoqing、yanxing、gongzuoheshenghuozhuangtai，womenkeyituiduanchunvpengyoukenengchuxiandewenti。dangnvpengyoufashengzhongyaobianhuashi，nanhaiyingzhudongguanxinhexunwen，bimiancuoguohuangjinzhiyuqi。

　　三、表现出自己的关怀

　　nanhaixuyaozhudongbiaoxianchuguanxinhetitie。dangnvpengyouqingxubuwendingshi，keyijitawennuandeyongbaoheguli；nvpengyoushengbingshikeyizhaogutahejiawu；taxuyaodeshihoukeyihuanjieyixieyalihefannao。nvpengyoushuowuliaoyinggaizenmehui，zheiyanghuiyouxiaozengqiangnvyoudeqingxuanquanganhexinrengan，rangtazaixinlifangsong，gengyoukenenghenanshengjiaotan。

　　四、倡导积极心态

　　nanhaihaikeyichangdaojijileguandetaidu，gulinvpengyoujijimianduishenghuozhongdewenti。takeyibangzhunvpengyouzhuanyizhuyili，zuoyixienengjitadailaikuailehemanzudeshiqing，bingbangzhutajinkuaibaituoqingxudiluo。tongshi，zaichuliwentishi，tichangjijidejiejuefangan，gongtongtaolunjiejuefangan，xianghuzhichihebangzhu。