安慰女朋友的话有什么

　　zuoweinvpengyou，womenjingchangyudaonvpengyoushengqideqingkuang，youshihouwomenbuzhidaogaizenmebancainengrangtakaixin。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，womenxuyaocongduogejiaodujinxingfenxi，anweinvpengyoudehua？congerzhaodaozuiheshidefangfalaianweishengqidenvpengyou。

　　1.倾听她的感受

　　dangtadenvpengyoushengqishi，taxuyaodeshiyigenengqingtingtaganshouderen。yinci，womenyinggaixianlengjingxialai，renzhentingtashuohua，buyaodaduantadehua，yebuyaoqingyifourentadeganshou。tashuowanhou，womenkeyijiandandihuida“wolijienideganshou”，rangtajuedewomenguanxinta，rangtazhidaowomenguanxintadeganshou。

　　2.道歉并承认错误

　　dangwonvpengyoushengqideyuanyinshiwomendecuowushi，womenyinggaijishidaoqian，chengrenwomendecuowu。zaidaoqianshi，womenyinggaizhenchengdidaoqian，erbushijiandandishuo“duibuqi”。tongshi，womenyinggaichengrenwomendecuowu，bingquebaowomenbuhuizaifancuowu。zheikeyirangwomendenvpengyouganshoudaowomendezhencheng，congerjianshaotadefennu。

　　3.给她足够的空间

　　youshinvpengyoushengqideyuanyinbushiwomendecuo，ershiqitayuanyin。zaizheigeshihou，womenxuyaojitazugoudekongjianrangtalengjingxialai。zaizheigeguochengzhong，womenkeyijitafaduanxinhuodadianhua，xunwentazuijindeqingkuang，bingguanxinta。danshi，womenbuyinggaizongshicuicutajuedingshenmeshihouhewomenjiaoliu。

　　4.给她一个惊喜

　　dangwomendenvpengyoushengqishi，womenkeyijitayigejingxi，rangtaganshoudaowomendeai。liru，womenkeyijitayishuhuahuoyifenliwu，huozhedaitaquyigetayizhixiangqudedifang。anweinvpengyoudehua，zheikeyirangtaganshoudaowomendeguanxinheai，congerjianshaotadefennu。

　　5.和她一起解决问题

　　youshinvpengyoushengqishiyinweitayudaoleyixiewenti，womenkeyihetayiqijiejue。womenkeyijitayixieyouyongdejianyi，huozhebangzhutazhaodaojiejuewentidefangfa。zaizheigeguochengzhong，womenyinggaizunzhongtadejueding，zhichitadejueding。zheihuirangtajuedewomenshitadezhichizhe，congerjianshaotadefennu。