女人“出轨”一次，男人会选择原谅吗？聪明处理女朋友出轨方法是？

zhenduixianxianzaishehuieryan，hunyinshenghuozhongcunyouwaiyudezhuangkuangzaoyibuhuizaishishaxiyiweichangdeshierle，ruhecongmingchulinvpengyouchugui？keshihunyinshenghuozhongfufubicibuguannayifangfashengwaiyudeshier，haowuyiwenquanshijilingyibanchanshengjueqingdesunhai，naizhizuizhongzaochenghunyinshenghuodefensui。nvyouchuguilenengyuanliangma？

zhenduinanshengdewaiyu，juedaduoshunvxinghenyoukenenghuiyouyuxiaohaihuoshiyixieqitadeyuangutiaoxuanqukuanrongzheigenanren，zhongjiunanrenshijiazhongdezhuxingu，gezhonggeyangshenghuoshangdeyixieshierdoubixunanshenglaidanfu，nvxingweilegenghaodizheizhonghenyoukenengbianhuitiaoxuanrangbu。

keshiruguonvrenfashenglewaiyu，bingqiezhichanshengyiciwaiyu，nanshengkeyikuanrongnvxingma？rangwomenyiqitaolunyixiazheisangenanrenshizenmejiangdeba！

1.孙先生:难以释怀，毫无疑问离异

woshiyigeyouqizhongqingyideyigeren，jiaruaiyigerenhuisixintadidequai，wulunshiwanhunyiqianhuoshiwanhunyihou，jirannitiaoxuanlehezheiyinvxingyiqizouruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian，jiuxuyaoduitachengdan。

ruhecongmingchulinvpengyouchugui？cengjingdewoyeduizishendexifuerquebaoguo，jiaruzhihoudajiahunyinshenghuozhongfashenglepanbiandeshier，neimahaowuyiwenbingbushiwo。jiarunimeiqupanbianwo，wohaowuyiwenburongyizuochuneiyangdeshier。

gangjielehundenei2nian，dajiashifendexiangai，tayechangchangshuozuowodexinniangshiyouqixingfukuailedeshier，danshishijianzhangle，tayizhihuimomingqimiaodenaopiqi，zhixulveweirangtabukaixindeshiqing，tajiuduiyuwonaopiqi，meiyiciwozhiyoukuanweita，danshitabugaoxing，lianjianghuayebugenwoshuohua。

woyebuzhidaonaerfashenglenanti，zhizhiyouyiciwofanyuetadeshoujishangcaizhidaotahelingyigenanrenweichiaimeiguanxideguanlian。

neiyitiantabashoujijihaizidayouxi，yigerenzaichufangzuofan，woyuxiaohailiudaowofangli，xiaohaiwanyouxideqingkuangxiayouyuyixiewupinbuqingchuruhequnong，jiuyaowojitamennongyixia，zaiwonongdequanguochengzhong，cikehuranshoudaoleyitiaoduanxiaoxi，shineigerenfalaide。

wojiangshoujishangnaguolaikanlekantaheneiyigenandeweixinliaotianjilu，dabufentamenmeiridoushizaixianliao，quanshizheixieniqingwoxihuandeneileiyuju，zhihouwojiangshoujishangjiaojixifukan，ciketacaizhidaozhizaoyibaobulebaohuo，renkeheneiyigenandejingliyici，keshixiangwobaozhengzhiwaiyuguoyici。

tingjiantajiangdezheizhonghua，woqueshijuededaoshangxinnanguo，woneimeaita，tayaoxiangnaxiewodoushihuijita，taqueneiyangduiyuwo，woqueshinanyirenshoutadewaiyu，yinweiwobutaikenengbaozhengyuanliang，jinguantakukuwanliu，keshiwoqueshinanyirenshou，zaozhijinri，aicuoleren，bujiuyihouwoyehetalihunle，youyuwoxinlizheiyirougedashizhongdouwangjile。

2.刘先生：做的再多都还叛变，我宽容不上她。

wolaopobiwodasisui，neishihouwomenlianggeshixuechedeqingkuangxialejiede，zhihoujianjiandideliangrenliaoshutoujiuzaochengleqinggan，zuizhongjiehunle。

jielehunzhihou，woyemailaiche，zhongjiuzhihouyongyouxiaohaibianjieyidian，hetawanhunyiqianwoquanshizaiyidigongzuozhong，youyujielehunle，weilegenghaodizhaoliaodaojiazhong，woyeteyizaijializhoubianzhaoleyifengongzuozhong，meiriwoyenulizhengqian，weilegenghaodibianshikeyirangrichangshenghuoguodexingfukuaileyidian。

youyuwogongzuo，yelihenzaojiuxiabanla，xiabanlezhihouwoyebangzhujihaizifudaozuoye，dabufenxiaohaimeiridexuexipeixunquanshiwoyigerenzaichengdan，youyuwodelaopopingchangxiaijiaqiangduanlian，meiwantazailinjudewuzijiaqiangduanlian，woyezailingyigewuzijihaizifudaozuoye，dabufenmeiriderichangshenghuoquanshineiyang。

 jinguanwoyoushigongzuozhonghuijiafeichanglei，keshiweilegenghaodizheiyijiaduozhifuyidianyebuzaihu，meirikanjianxifuhexiaohaixingfudemoyangyinweiwojuedehenkaixin。

benrenweineiyangderichangshenghuoyizhihuibuduanzhe，danshizhihouxifuquechulegui，zheishiwoqianwanmeiyouxiangqide，youyuneishihoutajiaqiangduanlian，youyizhenzishidaofujingongyuanqumanpao，neiyitianchiguowancantajiuduiwoshuoyaochulaimanpao，suihouwoyeyigerenzaijiazhidaoxiaohaigongzuo。

neiwantahenwancaihuijia，yinciwobujingyidecongloudixiakanyixiatashifouyouhuijiadeqingkuangxia，fajueyiliangchekaidaoloudixia，wodelaopocongchelichulaile，suihouhaiyouyigenansheng，tamenmeiyouduojiangnaxie，liangrenxianghuzhijianshuoshengzaijian，suihouwodelaopojiushangloutile。

zhihouwodangzuoshenmeshiqingmeiyouchanshengyiyang，wentajinyeruhepaoneimezhangqia，tajiang：shide，woshuonizouhuijiadema？tajiangshideya，hepingchangyiyang，cikewomingbaitaduiwoshuolehuang。

zhihoujinbuzhuwoyizaixunwen，tacaijiangchushuoshihua，shuotameiyoumanpao，zhishiheyigenanrenzaiyouhui，keshitaxiangwobaozhengmeiyoufashengxingguanxi，keshizheiyihewaiyuyoushenmebutong。

neishihouwonanyixiangxintazuochuneiyangdeshier，jinguanmeiyouzuochufangmadeshier，yinweiwonanyirenshoutaneiyangzuo，woyizhiyiweitaqumanpaole，erwohaishahuhuzaijialijihaizifudaozuoye，rengzaidengtahuijia。

shuoxieshenmewohainanyishihuaita，woyijingzuodegouhaola，zidayongyouxiaohaizhihou，meiridaiwa，fudaozuoyequanshiwoyigeren，taquehuoshineiyang，woqueshibuqingchunaerchulenanti，suoyiwoqueshiduitasilexinle，lijihetamingquetichuleliyi。

3.杨先生：我能宽容，给她一次机会

huoxuwojiangchuneiyangdehua，haowuyiwenhenduorenhuiganjuewoyigedalaoyemenneimemeiyouqiantu，tanbaishuowolaopodequeshenbeiwochuguile，bingqieyinweiwotiaoxuankuanrongleta，youyutaqueshibaozhenglehuiguo，bingqierujindajiaguodeyefeichangxingfu。

dajialiangrenhunyinshenghuoyiluzouhuilaizhendeburongyi，cengjingdewoduitabutaihao，meiyoubaozhengyigezhangfudemoyang，woshijiachede，changchanghuiheyixiepenyouzaiyiqiyinjiuxianliao。nvyouchuguilenengyuanliangma？

meiyicihewanjiuhuijiazhihou，woyehuimaxifu，naizhiyouhaojihuidongshounenglidaguota，keshiwodelaopozuizhongdoutiaoxuankuanronglewo，wojianxinjuedaduoshunvxingpengdaoneiyangdeshier，henyoukenengneixinqueshinanyishihuai，yezuobudao。

wolaopoqingyuanliangwohaojihui，ertashenbeiwochanshengwaiyu，haowuyiwenyifangmianshiyouyuwodeyuangu，yemeiyoujitadaliangdeguanzhuhedaliangdeai，yincizaochengtaneiyangzuo。

dangwomingbaitachuguiyihou，wofandaohenlizhi，yinweiwomeiyouduitazema，jinjinxinliganjuejiqidekuijiu，wodelaoposhuo：tahewozaiyiqitihuibushangaishishenme，tayeduiwoshuo，tazhiwaiyuguoyici。

nvyouchuguilenengyuanliangma？zhihouwoxuanzekuanrongleta，xiwangtazhihoukeyihaohaodide，yinweiwohaohaodide，woxiangtaquebaozhihouhuihaohaoaita，tazuizhongyuanyile，rujindajialiangrenguodefeichangxingfu。

shijishang，jiarulaopochanshengwaiyu，duiyigenanreneryanyanlidajishishifendade，bulunshiyouyushishenmeyuanyin，zheisunhaihenyoukenengshizhongdoumeifazhiyu，jibiannanshengzuizhongtiaoxuankuanrongnvxing，neizaitamenxinlingshenchuderougedayeshizhongdoumeifajiechu。

ruhecongmingchulinvpengyouchugui？nanshenghuimeishimeikebatajizaixinzhong，gesanchawudouhenyoukenenghuixiangdao，zheileitongchushipingchangrenmeifaxianxiangxiangde，yinciwulunruhe，nvxingjiaruqueshiainansheng，jiububizuochusunhainanshengdeshier，jiarunibuxihuanjiufangkaishou，danbubiqusunhai，buyaogufuneigerenjinideai。