挽回男友有可能吗？

 lianggerenfenshouzhihou，niyaodedaodishishenme？zheigekansihenjiandandewenti，nizaiwanhuizhiqiandaodiyoumeiyourenzhensikaoguo？huozheshuo，nizaikaishiwanhuideshihou，youmeiyouxiangguowanhuinanyouyoukenengma，wanhuinanyounengzhudongma，wanhuiqiannanyouheshima，zhendekeyinenggou wanhuiqiannanyou mazheixiezhongduodeyihuoma？haishishuozijiyizhizaizouyibukanyibu。

yincizaiwanhuidezuichujieduan，nizijiyidingyaoxinzhongyouyigedadekuangjiayufangxiang，zheijiuheniwansaicheyouxiyiyang。

henduorenzhaodaoxiangwanhuizijinanyoudeshihou，yibaneryan，yixiazheiliangzhongxintaizuiweichangjian。

yishiduiyushifoukeyichenggongwanhuidebuxinren。

ershiduiyuzijishifouyinggaiquweilewanhuizuochunagefangxiangdenulibuqueding

 henduoshihounvshengwanhuinanshenghenanshengquwanhuinvshengshibuyiyangde，yinweinanshengwangwangkeyibiaodadegengjiazhijie，ernvshengruguobiaodawanhuidesuqiuguoyuzhijiedehua，henrongyishidezijizailianaiguanxizhizhongchuyudiwei，zheiyangduiyuliangxingguanxixiangchushifeichangbulide。

其实归根结底，为什么很多女生在遇到感情问题的时候会比男生更加疑惑呢？其实说到底就是因为他们从没有规划过自己的情感，而且在感情之中，虽说女生或许会享受更多的权力，但是实际上在恋爱关系之中主动方是男性，相对的，这段关系之中的引导者也是男性。往往女性在感情之中考虑的比男生更少。也就是这一点使得女生想去挽回，却不知道从哪里下手。那么，挽回男友有可能吗？

 zaiqingganzheitiaolushangshizhongchuyuzouyibukanyibudezhuangtai，bujinruci，gengyoushenzhe，lianzijizaiqingganzhizhongbieshuozouxianghechule，lianshenjuhechudoubuqingchu，zhendenenggouwanhuiqiannanyouma？

一、明确自己的价值

 wanhuiqiannanyouheshima？qishilianaizhizhongdemeigerendouyaoduiziwojinxingshenshi，jiuyaojinxingshenkedeziwofansi，zaifansizhongchengrenzijidecuowubuzu，congerqingchudirenshidaoliangrenyijingfenshoudeshishi，jiyushuangfangyidingdeshijianjinxinglengjingdesikao，congshixianziwodeqingganxiufu，bimianjinyibuehualiangrenguanxi，shixianliangrenguanxidewending。

 lianaizhiyouqianbanniankaoyandeshiaiqing，chaoguobanniankaoyandedoushixiangchunengli。zheigexiangchunenglibaokuohenduo，ruhehuajiemaodundenengli。ruguokongzhiqingxudenengli。ruguozhangkongduifangxuqiudenenglidengdengdeng。suoyiyaowanhuishouxianyaotongtourenxing，lejienanxing，qicijiushixuehuixiangchudezheixielinglingsansandenengli。yidanjiayulezheixie，qishibieshuowanhui，daduoshunanrenqishiyedougaodeding。keyidazhishuoyixiayinweimaodunerchaojia，suodaozhifenshoudeqingkuangruhewanhui。

 suoyijiranxuanzelewanhui，neijiubuyaoweilewanhuierwanhui。 zheiyanghaowuyiyi，weilegengzhihuideziji，quyoufangfaheshouduandewanhui，gengnengyouyigehaojieguo 。henduorenshuo，lianaiyaokaozhenxinshiyi，zheizhongshouduanfangfayaobude， zheijuhuameicuo， danshiruguonibenshenshigerenpinjia，qingshanggaoderen，neizhenxinnannengkegui。 ruguozheiliangdianyouyidianchuxianlexiexuwenti， youbuxiangzaibansuibanshengdehunlianlushangzaigentou，neibuxuexishimeikenengde。

二、提升自我价值

 wanhuinanyounengzhudongma？dangrankeyi！danshizaizheizhiqiangengduodeshiyigexuexiyuziwotishengdejieduan。zaiwanhuinanpengyoudeshihou，jiandingxinnianyuzhongxinfangzaizijishenshangzheiliangdiandoushifeichangbiyaode！jiranjuedingyaohetazouxiaqu，yaoquwanhuita，neimejiuyaojianchi，erbushibantufangqi。dangranhaiyaokongzhihaozijidefumianqingxu，yinweiwanhuibenjiushiyigejiannandeguocheng，pengdingzishizaizuonanmiande，bazijideqiwangdudiaodi，zheiyangzaiduifangneilishoudaodeweiquzaibuhuiyingxiangdaonijiexialaidexingwei。

 wanhuidangzhongdexintaizhan，chenggongwanhuiguoderendouzhidao，ruguonimeibanfawanquancaitouduifangdexintai，xiangyaozhidaomeijuhuadeyituyijizuochuzuizhengquedehuiying，neizheiyangdewanhuiwanquanlangfeishijian，mouheduifangdexintai，bingqierangduifangqiuerbude，eryoukaixinzide，shiyizhongmenlu，yeshiyizhongjishu。yinciyuqibaneimeduodejinglitourudaocaiceduifangdemeiyijuhuadeyituzhishang，burulaolaoshishideyibuyibutishengziji，jiangzhongxinfangzaizijishenshang。

三、建立感情平衡

 ganqingzhizhongyongyuanlibukaipinghengzheilianggezi。napazhiqianbupingheng，zaizheicizaicijianlilianjieyuguanxideshihouyidingyaochuyuyigepinghengdewendingguanxi。

 qingganlianjiedejianli，hendachengdushangjiuxuyaojianliliangrendegongtonghuati，ergongtonghuatidejianlijiuxuyaoliangrenyougongtongdexingquaihaodepeiyang，nanrenjiuyaozaijiexialaidejiaowangzhongyaobawonvrendexingquaihao，duimouxieshiwuteshudexiai，congergenjuzishentiaojianjinxingxiangyingdexingqupeiyang，jianliqigengduoliangrendegongtonghuatimanmanshixianqingganshenhua，dadaozuizhongwanhuimude。

 henduorendaolezheigejieduanzongshikeqiuhuodeduifangneigekendingdehuida，danwangwangzheishihou，yueshiyankandaolezhuanzhedian，qishiyueshiyaowenzhu，xingbailizhebanjiushi，wangwanghenduorenyeshizaikaojinzhongdiandeshihourongyigongkuiyikui。

 yinci，wanhuiguochengzhizhongdeguanxiguodu，jibenshangdouxuyaojingguoyige，polie——pengyou——qinmipengyou——wanhuichenggongdejingli。

 jianlixindexiangchufazhanfangxiang。zhiqianruguoguoyuyilaiduifang，huozhexihuanzhizeduifang。huozhexiaoxinyanaifapiqi。neizaicijiechudeshihou，yidingbunengyouyidiansihuifurandejixiang。jianliqihezhiqiandayoubutongdezhuangtai，bingqielianghaochengxianjiduifang，haishizuiyouxiaoguode。zheibudenandushiguochengzhongde，jishinianxingchengdexingge，hennangaibian，suoyiyaoshiketixingzijibuyaozhongdaofuzhe。

 tangruozaixianshanglianggerendezhuangtaiyijingkeyihuifudaoshangshuzhibiao，neimejiexialaijiukeyijinxingzuihouyibudeqinggangongzhenzhuanyixianxiale。zaixiagejieduanguochengzhizhong，zuizhuyaodeziranerranjiushituponimenzhijiandeguanxipingzhangle。