割腕、哭闹能挽回男友吗？

 kunaonengwanhuinanyouma？gewannengwanhuinanyouma？buguanshisheiyudaoganqingwentidouhuibuzhisuocuo，youqimianduifenshoudeshihou，buzhidaogaibugaifenshouzhihouyaowanhui，wanhuidehuayougairuhezuoni？xialaijiangjiangguanyunanyouchuguihouwanhuima,nanyouwanhuiyaodayingmadejigejianyiba。

一、坚决不搞联合战

 zainannvshuangfangfashengmaodunshi，congmingdenvrendouhuibazhanshikongzhizaizuixiaofanwei，neipachikuiyebuzhaoyuanjun。kunaonengwanhuinanyouma，buzhaoguimikusu、buxiangjiarenqiuzhu，yebuhuisuibianxiangpengyouqingsu，huixuanzelianggerendeshilianggerendandujiejueburangqitarenchashou。kuodazhanchangdezuofa，huibajiatingmaodunfuzahua，youshishenzhiwufashouchang，daoshihouzaixiangwanhuiganqing，wanhuinanyoujiuhennanle。nvrenzheiyangzuobudanbaoquanlenanrensuoweidemianzi，yebimianlebamaodunjihua，jianxiaowentigengrongyiwanhuinanrendexin、wanhuinimenshiqudeaiqing。

二、选择有利于自己的战法

 gewannengwanhuinanyouma，xiangyaowanhuinanrendexinyingpengyingkendingshibuxingde，kunaozhetengdenvrenzuihoudoubunengwanhuinanyou，congmingdenvrendoudongdeyongheshidefangfaquwanhuiaiqing。yinweizhetengyingxiangzijidexingxiangbushuo，haihuirangnanrengengyanfan。zainanrenyoulishinvrendouhuiyongqingqugongke，zainvrenyoulishiyedongdeshikeerzhi，jinanrenyigetaijiezheiyangcainengchenggongwanhuinanrendexinbinglaolaozhuazhunanrendexin。fenshoulebuyaomangmuquwanhui，xuanezuiyouliyuzijidefangshiquwanhuichenggongdejilvhuidahenduo。

三、制定合理的挽回规则

 nvrenhenanrendeduijue，kanqilainvrenshiruozhe，nanyouchuguihouwanhuima，zaizhidingguizeshinvrenwangwanghuibananrenjiaqilai，shiguizeyouliyunvrenyifang，bananrenshentishangdeyoushiguanjinguizedelongzibananrenjiaqilaida，yongyuyanbananrenjiaqilairangtawujikeshi。xiaoyijuedenvrenzaiwanhuinanyouzhiqian，yidingyaoxiannongmingbaishenmenengzuoshenmebunengzuo，buyaohaowuyuanzebuguanbuguquwanhui，buranhenkenengyichushoujiushibaile。

 meigerenmianduiganqingwentidouhuixuanzebutongdeyingduifangshi，fenshoudaodigaibugaiwanhui，nanyouwanhuiyaodayingma，zuizhongyaodehaishikanlianggerendeganqing，kanzijixinlizenmexiang。