聆听技术和有自己的主见是和女孩子怎么聊天的关键。

zenmeliaotian？guanjianduihuazhonggaozhidajia，jiaotandeguanjianshilingyifanglejielejienideqingyibingjishifankui。henvshengjiaotandezhongyaoyeshizheiban，zailiaotianzhongzenmeliaotianzhaohuati？zuizhongyaodeshigoutongjiaoliugaoxingerqiechangshun，xuduonannvliaotiandouhuiganliao，shifennankan，wangbiangongxiangerdianjiaotandeguanjianhuanjie。xiamianjiaonizailiaotianzhongzenmeliaomeizi。

1、倾听技术性

zaihenvshengdegoutongjiaoliushiyaoqingting，qingtingjishuxingshihenvshengjiaotandezhongyao!yaoshilingyifangfayan，zenmeliaotian？zenmefayan？nixuyaorangnvhaiganjuenihenrenzhendizaiting，texiangzhangwota。yaokaoqingtingjishuxingranglingyifangjuedeshushihegaoxing。ciwai，yaoshanyuyongmuguangqugoutongjiaoliu，muguanghendangrandiquhelingyifangchupeng，dengdaishijianbubiguozhang，dayue2~sanmiao，ciwaihainenggouzaijiashidudezishi，liruqingdudediandiantoutishi。

jiarunvhaizhongzhilehuatitaolun，nanhaiyaozenmeliaotianzhaohuati？nanhaierxianliaodeqingkuangxiayaojijiyixie，duoyidianjiji，caikeyirangxianliaogengqiangdekaizhanxialai。jijidezhongyaoyeshiyaorangnvshengyouyidingdeyijianfankui，xianliaozhongtianjiazanyanghefengqu，duoguanzhutatiexinta，neiyangnvshengdangranhenxihuanyunixianliao。

2.有自身的想法

zenmeliaomeizi？xuduonanhaizizaiyuenvhaichuquyongcandeqingkuangxia，doushiwennvshengchisha，zheiyifeichanghaohenshenshi。keshidangnvshengfanjienixiangchishenme，tamenyaoshuo:“wodoukeyi”“wosuiyi”“dounenggou”。shijishangzheigeshihounvhaigengxiwangnilijidiancan，youzishendexiangfahexihao，jiaowangqilaihuigengshushi。

shuncongdezishiyoushihoubingbuhuirangnvhaiganjuehenshufu，nvhaizaidiyiciyouhuideqingkuangxiahuanshijiaoweimiantiande，qidainanhaizinenghexinyouhui。gengkongbudeshijiangmeizhujianchongfenfahuidaowanmei，bianshiliankaizhanqinmiwujiangerenxingweideqingkuangxiabixuxianwenminglimaozhengxunnvhaiyuanyi。“wonenglanideshouma?”“wonengqinwenma”tianya，nirangnvshengzenmehuiying，shidefangfabianshilijizuo。

bawozheilianggefangmianhenvshengjiaotandezhongyao，jiniqingqingsongsongxianliaobuganliao。qingsongjiaonixuehuizenmeliaomeizi。