ruguolingyibanhezijifenshou,tongshibaohuni,nijiubunengzaizheigeshihoulianxiduifang。lianxifangshilaheiwanhuimijueshishenme?ruguonibeiheikegongji,xiangzhongxinlianxiduifang,qishihenrongyi,erqienibubihuataiduodeqian。
zhuyaodewentishi,jiusuanzailianxi,ruguobuzhidaoweishenmebeihei,zuihouyewanhuibulezheiduanganqing,zongzhijiushibuzhidaoweishenmebeihei,jiubunengyouzhenduixingdejiejuewenti。duiyubeiheihoudewanhuijiqiao,yaoxiangjiejuezheigekunjing,chenggongwanhuiduifang,shouxianyaogaoqingchuweishenmebeihei,zaizhenduixingdejiejuewenti。meitianfenshoudeqinglvhenduo,weishenmeyouderenbuzuoheiduifangdeshi,youderenxuanzeheiduifangni?yibanqingkuangxia,laheideyuanyinzhuyaoyouyixiajidian:
1.gangfenshoudeshihoumeiyoulahei,houlailaheishiyinweinimenzhijiandegoutongyouwenti。
2.beiheimeiyouwanquanduanjueguanxi。
3.nigangfenshou,duifangjiulaheini。
shouxianzhaochuzijibeilaheideyuanyin,ranhougenjuzijideshijiqingkuanglaipanduan,keyigenjuyixiasizhongcaozuofangfayingyongbeilaheihoudehuifujiqiao。
1.满足对方需求
youderenzhisuoyihuxianglahei,chuncuishiweileduqi,zheigeshihouniyaoxuehuifenxishijiqingkuang,ruguonimenzhiqianxiangchudehentianmi,meiyouyinweiyixiexiaoshijileihenduomaodun,jiufenshoule,shuangfangdouyouqingxu,neiduifangjiushixiwangnizhudonghehao。suoyiniyaozhaoduifangzhenzhengdexuqiudian,zaiqumanzuduifangdexuqiu,zheiyangnimendeguanxiziranerranjiu。
2.唯一性的传达
ruguoduifangshiyigehenrongyitaobideren,nijiubunengbazijizhuangtaihaodeyimianzhanxianchulai,zheiyanghuiduitazaochenghendadeciji,rangtajuedenibuxuyaota,tajiuhuijuedezijimeiyong,shenzhihaixiangzheni,zheiyangtajiuhuigenniduanlian,rangnizaiyejianbudaotale。
yudaozheiyangderen,beilaheihoudewanhuijiqiaojiushiniyaoxiangtachuandatashinideweiyi,rangtazhidaonixinlizuizaihuderenqishijiushita。yaobiaoxianchuduitadebaorongheyoushan,nimenzhijiandeguanxincaihuihexie。
3.面对现实
jiarulingyifangyouyuyanjuanlenidejiuchanbuqingerbanilahei,neimaniyejiuxuyaozuohaodachijiuzhandezhunbei,youyutazaoyizhunbeijinile。xianxuehaojieshoutichufenshoudeshishi,xianxiangqingxidajiazhongjiancunzaidenanti,neiyangcaikeyiyouxiaodejiejuekunnan。jiarunimeiyoujienadajiazhongjiandeshencengcimaodun,tayejiubuhuizhenshihuiguotou。
4.长计议控制情绪
ruguotahaishixihuanni,laheizhishiweilebizijilikaini,zheigeshihouniyaoxianrangduifanglengjingxialai。yinweiduifanghaishihenjidongde,zheigeshihounizaijitashijiayali,niyemeifajingxiaxinlailishunwenti。zanshibulianxi,rangduifangyouzugoudegerenkongjian,nenghaohaolengjing。
zheishilianxifangshilaheiwanhuimijue,dangnimendouxianglengjingmianduizheiduanganqing。
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