无论是爱情还是婚姻，如何学会放弃一段婚姻

 ruheyudaomeihaodeaiqing？zaimangmangrenhaizhongzhaodaota(ta)shiyizhongyuanfen，womenyinggaizhenxizheilaizhibuyideyuanfen。aiqingbushixunzhaowanmeideren，ershixuehuiyongwanmeideyanguangquxinshangbuwanmeideren。ruhexuehuifangqiyiduanhunyin？

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 zaixianshishenghuozhong，nijingchanghuitingdaohenduoyoududejitang。liru，wulunnijiajishei，nidouhuihouhuimeiyouwanmeidejiejuhexingfu。zheizhongpengyouhequanzibixuyuanli。

yiduanmeihaodeaiqinghuohunyin，zhishaoyaojinglizheisancifangqi，dongdexuanze，caihuixingfu。

放弃对伴侣的幻想

nainaichangshuo，haodehunyinjiushifangqiyixiedongxi，buguanshishijianhaishifuchu。

 lianggerencongxiangshi、xiangshi、xiangcheng，douhuijinglibutongdefengfengyuyu，shuohuaqingshengxiyu，zhengchaobuxiu。zaijiaoliudeguochengzhong，buyaoqingyixiangxinbaixuegongzhudeshenhua。shishishang，suoyouzhangqidefuqiguanxidoubixujingliguolikaibicidexiangfa。youshihou，ruguonijuedezheiyitianbunengzaichixuxiaqu，neijiuqushuijue。dangnidiertianxinglaishi，nihuifaxianzuotiandeshiqingbushiyijianshi，nihuitouguoyuncengkandaolantian。

 zheigeshijieshangmeiyouwanmeidehunyinheaiqing。youdeshilianggerenbuduanmohe，yongbufangqidepeiban。zhiyoulianggerenchaozhetongyigefangxiangnuli，jishiguochengzhongyouqifu、zhengchaohebulijie。

 womenyeyaoxuehuijingxiaxinlaisikao，congduifangdejiaoduqusikao。yaozhidao，ruguohunyinchuxianliehen，yidingyaojishixiubu。suhuashuo:“hunyinjiuxiangyifu，xinsannian，jiusannian，fengbusannian。”。

zhiyouzheiyang，lianggerencainengcongqingsidaobaifa，xiangaixiangbanyisheng。

放弃对伴侣的指责

 zaixianshishenghuozhong，buzhidaodajiayoumeiyouzhuyidaoyouxieren，zhiyaoyouwenti，buxianxiangwentidegenyuan，ershicongbierenshenshangzhaochuyuanyin，bazijituideganganjingjing。

wulunshishenghuohaishigongzuo，zhiyaobukaixinjiushibaoyuan，yinweibierenmeiyoudadaoyuqideqiwang。ruhexuehuifangqiyiduanhunyin？

xinqingbuhaodeshihou，shuobanlvbudonglangman，qingshangbugao，zuoshiburangzijimanyi。

meiyouhaodexijie，meiyouzainizuixuyaodeshihoujishichuxian。

 suizheshijiandetuiyi，nihuigandaoshenxinpibeihetongku。zheixianranshinidecuo。nibixubazerentuijibieren，ranhoumomingqimiaodishengqi。nibunengtingqubierendejianyi，shiqujibendepanduannengli。nigengwuduan。

guyushuodehao，“renbushishengxian，sheinengwuguo”genghekuangzheishiyigeyousixiangdehuoshengshengderen。

yiduanmeimandehunyinhuoaiqing，youzennengshunxinni？zaixiangchudeguochengzhonghuiyudaoshenme，sheinengyuliaodaoni？

meigerendouyouqiqingliuyu，xiangyaobierenanzhaonidexiangfashenghuo，zennengsuiyi。

放弃高高在上的姿态

zairenjijiaowangdeguochengzhong，yidingyaoxuehuinaixin。yiduanlianghaodeguanxiqujueyulianggerenzhijiandetuoxie。

 danzaixianshideqingganzhong，henshaoyourenlijiezheigezhenli。yinci，youxierenrenwei，zaiqingganshijiezhong，zhiyaochengrenshibaijiushizongrongtarendesiyixingwei，tuoxiejiuyiweizhetamenshiqulezhudongxing，beizhuazhule。

zhiyaoduifangzuoleweibeizijiyiyuandeshiqing，jiuhuijuedeta(ta)tupolenizhiqiandeyuanzedixian，shiduiniquanweidetiaozhan。

benlaikeyihaohaoxieshangjiejuedewenti，yinweiyidianbutuoxie，jianchizijidexiangfa，bufangshou。

 yongyuanbuyaobazijideyingqiqiangjiajibieren，xuehuijiangdizijidezitai，zhaodaozijideweizhi，duojiaoliu，duogoutong，zheiyangcainengzhangjiu。

 ruhexuehuifangqiyiduanhunyin？suoyizhinengfangqibugaiyoudehuanxiang，fangqiwuduandezhize，fangqibuqieshijidetaidu。jieshoutadebuwanmeijiushiwanmei。