坚决离婚我该怎么办，和老公离婚怎么沟通

 helaogonglihunzenmegoutong？rujin，fuqilihundeshuliangyuelaiyueduo。xuduohunyinhejiatingxuanzelihunshiyinweitamenyudaogezhongkunnan，wufaweichihunyin。woxiangxinmeigerendouxiwangyouyigexingfudehunyin。

 tamendouxiwangyouyigexianhuideqizilaibangzhutamenyouxudizhaogujiating，ranhoutamenkeyinuligongzuo，buyongdanxin！neime，dangwoqizijuedinglihunshi，wogairuhehuifuni？gaoqingshangdenanrenshiyongzheixiefangfa！

一、改变自己

 xuduonanrenmangyugongzuo，ranhoutamenhuihushizijidejiatingheqizi，henshaoyuqizijinxingshenrudegoutong。nvrenxuyaozhangfudeguanxinheai。ruguowoqizijianjuelihun，wozenmenengwanjiuta？

 ruguoniyinweigongzuoerhenshaoguanzhunideqizi，congzhangyuanlaikan，nideqiziziranhuiduizheiduanhunyingandaojusang，ziranhuijuededanshenderizibijiehunderizigengkuaile！yinci，jishinimangyugongzuo，yebuyaohushinideqizi！

二、多制造惊喜

 wogairuhewanjiuwoqizidelihun？nagenvhaibuxihuanjingxihelangman？shishishang，meiyigejingxihelangmandoushiweiletixingwomenaihebeiai。

 ruguowomenzairichangshenghuozhongzhuzhongyishigan，jiqizigengduodelangmanhejingxi，womendeqizihuijuedewomensuoyoudenulidoushizhidede，suizheshijiandetuiyi，nimenzhijiandeguanxihuiyuelaiyueshen！

三、不要经常联系对方

 dangwoqizijuedinglihunshi，wozenyangcainenghuifuni？gaoqingshangdenanrenshiyongzheixiefangfa！lihunshi，xuduonanrenchangchangrenweizijishiziyoude，meiyoujiatingdeyueshu，tamenhenxingfendihuifuziyou。helaogonglihunzenmegoutong？

 raner，suizhelihunshijianyuelaiyuezhang，tamenkaishimingbai，meiyoujiatingxingfushihennande。tamenmeiyouguishugan，zongshigandaofeichangkunhuohegudu，suoyitamenhouhuilihun。

 xiangjiutadeqianqi！yidanyixienanrenyoulekangfudexiangfa，tamenjiupobujidaidixiangmeitianlianxihejiuchanduifang，xiwangduifangnengyuzijizhongguiyuhao。zheishijishangshiyizhongcuowudezuofa。

 ruguotamenzhendexiangzhongguiyuhao，tamendeqianqizuizhongbuyinggaimaoranlianxiduifang，yebuyinggaijiuduifang，yaoqiuduifangyuzijifuhe，zheizhihuishiguanxiehua。

四、学会倾听

 wulunfashengshenme，qinggandoushijinji，huifuhunyinyeshiruci。ruguonixiangchenggongdihuifu，niyinggaixuehuilengjinghelixingdimianduishiqing。dangnigandaoweijishi，niyinggaizhuanzhuyugoutong。

 zaigoutongdeguochengzhong，niyinggaixuehuiqingting，naixindiqingtingduifangdexiangfa。chulerangduifangyuanyijixuyunishenrugoutongwai，nihaikeyilejieduifangdeneixinxiangfa，huanhefuqiguanxi，congerdadaochenggongwanjiuhunyindemude！

五、让对方看到自己的变化

 hunyinlihundeyuanyindaduoshinanrenhenvrenbunengjieshoudewenti。nikeyiqingchudikaolvyixia。zaizheiduanhunyinzhong，nishifouzuolehenduorangduifangshangxindeshiqing，nishifoubiaomingnideqizishuolehenduoguanyunizijidewenti，wogairuhewanjiuwodeqizijianjuelihun？

 helaogonglihunzenmegoutong？nimeiyoubatafangzaixinshang，hunrizima？ruguoshizheiyang，womenbixushouxiangaidiaowomendewenti，ranhourangduifangkandaowomendebianhua。womenchengnuoyihoubuhuifantongyangdecuowu！dangdaduoshunvxingkandaotamendezhangfuyuanyizhenchengdigaibianshi，tamenhuixuanzefuhe。