矛盾争吵分手，怎样挽留前任？

maodunzhengchaofenshou，zenyangwanliuqianren？jibianshizuiqinmidefufu，yishengshangdouhuichuxian200cizhishangliyidexiangfahe50cizhishanglesibierendeniantou。yincibizhaoqilai，lianaizhongzhengchao，fenqishengjinaofenkai，queshizhiyousuandeshangerke，zhixubawoleduidefangfadedaoxingfukuaileyebuhuizaishinanti。neimaqinglvchaojiachanshengmaodunfenshouyaozenyangwanhuini?

1.真心实意承认错误，不必争论

zaiwomendewuyishilidoushiyouyizhongfanpanhepabeifourendexinlizhuangtai。tebieshizainaofenshoudeshihou，yingduilingyifangweizijizhichudebuzhengque，huihenkendingdizhaoxiebianbodeyuanyin，helixingzishendegerenxingwei，zheileifangshizaiwanhuiquanguochengzhongshizuiyumei，yeshizuicuode。jiaruoniailingyifang，xiangyaoquaixiwanhuinimenzheiyifenganqing，jiuyingdanglizhidimianduilingyifangzhichudequexian，wulunsheiduidaodishisheidecuo，douxuyaoxianrencuo，dengbicizhijianjingxialaile，zaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，zheicaisuanshichuliwentidehaofangfa。

2.减少自身的需求感

ruhewanliuqianren？ruguoniyigerenjuedingyaoyunifenshoudeshihoujiuduinizaochenglefourenxinlizhuangtaile，cikenizuorenhedeyijianshiquanshiyichangde，nizuodezaihao，zaitarenlaikanquanshiniyigetuocixuqingjiayieryi，nizuodeyuedalingyifangjiuyuefanganni，bianhuiliniyuezouyueyuan，jinyoujianshaolezigedexuqiuganrangbierenrenweinishiqueshifangxiale，duinidiaodiledangxindeqingxingxia，zaiquwanhuilingyifang，tacaiburongyifangan。

3.更进一步的知道另一方

zenyangwanliuqianren？heshijizhongdejunduizhandouyiyang，zailianaidezhanzhengzhong，dajiayiyangbixuzhibizhiji。zaijinyibudezhidaolingyifangyihou，caihuidongdezaiqingganzhong，lingyifangsuoyaoqiude，neiyangdajiajiunengzaiciduiqinggankaizhanjinyibudejieding。zheiyidianlaishuojianyi，zuoqilaiquebuyi，buranjiubukenengyouneimeduoqinglvyouyuhuxiangmeifalejieerfenlile。