真的是有必要挽回爱情吗？

 yongqiannengwanhuiaiqingma？youxierenzongshihuiyongcuowudefangshiquwanhuiyiduanganqing，ranercuowudefangfazhihuirangshuangbianbicideganjueshiqudegengjiakuai。wanhuiaiqinghuigenghaoma、youbiyaowanhuiaiqingma？ruhezuodaowanhuiduifangbukukuaiqiucongergaibianziwozhongxinxiyinduifangni？

一、端正自己的心态，找出问题的根源

 ganqingzhongchuxianwentizaibaofadeshihouqianwanbunengshiyongyuyandebaoli，bawentiquanbutuidaoqitarendeshenshang，fenshouchaojiazhongweilerangduifangbulikaiziji，jiukaishijinxingrenshengongji，yonglianggerendeshiqingweixieduifang，rangduifangduizijifuruan。henduoshihouweixieduifangbuyidingshinazhedaozhizhejiusuanshiweixie，youdeshihouyuyanshangdeweixielibishijixingdongdeweixieligengjiajuda，suoyiyuyanbaoliyesuanshiyizhongqiangyoulideweixie。yongqiannengwanhuiaiqingma，zaimianduiwentideshihoujidebuyaowangjiduandefangxiangqusikao，ershiyaowangjijidefangxiangqukaolvwenti，bushisuoyouwentidoushiyifabukeshoushide，yudaowentiyaoxuyaomanmanquyindaozijizouchukunjing，erbushibazijibidaofengkoulangjian。dangwentifashenghouzijianjingdexiangxiang，shuliyixiawentideqianyinhouguozhaochuzishendewenti。xiangyixiangwanhuiaiqinghuigenghaoma？

二、该如何改变自我，重新吸引对方

 youbiyaowanhuiaiqingma，dangnikoukoushengshengcankuishuozijiyijinggaibianshi，congshinizishendeyanshena、yuyina、zhitiyuyanadengdengzaidaoneirong，douhuihaobuliuqingdechuochuanni。zaifashengmaodunhoubujinyaozhidaozijidewenti，haiyaodongdequgaibianziwo。yaozhidaoshuangfangfenshoujiushiyinweibicizhijiandehuaixingxiangcongerdaozhifenkai，neimezaifenshouhoujiudeyaozhidaoqugaibianziji，congyizhefaxingdaoyanxingjuzhidengdeng，rangduifangkandaozijiquanxindeyimian，zhongxinquxiangxinzijihuibiandegenghao，gennizaiyiqihuibizijiyigerenyaoguodekaixin，yezhiyouzheiyangduifangcaihuigengjiayouxinxinyunizhongxinkaishi。

 xiangyaochuangzaoyiduanhexiedeguanxijiuyaobuduandefansizishendewenti，buyaodengdaowentidebaofacaishouzuwucuodeyonggezhongfangfalaiqiangpo、weixieduifang，zheiyangzhihuirangaiqingliniyuelaiyueyuan，yinggaixuehuikongzhizijideqingxubayiqiehuidaozhiwanhuishibaideyinsueshazaiyaolanli。