冷静期一旦同房就无法挽回吗

　　lengjingqiyidantongfangjiuwufawanhuima，ruguonizuishaohenidelingyibanfenkaiguoyici，buranniyongyuanbuhuigaoqingchuaideshenceng。jiarunihenideairenyiqianduanjuelaiwang，bingqiezhengzaisisuo“fenshouzhihouzenmewanhuiwodelaopo”，huoxunikenengmianlinyitiaomanzhanglumian。hunyinshenghuoliangdifenjushiyiduanfuzadeqingganlvtu，tashichanghuipeiniduiganqing、goutongyugerentishengyongyougengqingxiderenzhi。zheiyiduanditoudejieduannenggoubangzhunilejiehunyinshenghuoduinidehaochu。tahaiweinintigongleyigexindekaishi，bingshinizhongxinranqiheqizixieshougongduyushengdexiangwang。yiner，dajiaweinintigongyixiejianyi，shoubashoujiaonizailiangdifenjuyiduanshijianhouheqizihehao，bingbangzhuzijihetagengweiqinmi。

　　shenmeyuanyinzaochengfenlichulai?

　　ruguonigaoqingchuzaochengguanlianshuyuandeyixilieshijianzhihou，shuliheqizizhijiandewentihenyoukenengjiurongyiduole。yixiashuyuyixiechangjiandezaochengfufuguidinglinshiliangdifenjuhuofenjudezhuyaoyuanyin。

　　1.欠缺勤奋

　　hunyinshenghuoxuyaochixuchengnuo，rutongzheigefangzihuocheliangyiyang。jinliangzijintouruhuanweisikao，huayixieshijianpeibannidelingyiban，rangtamengandaozishenhenteshu，bingbiaodanideganshouhekanfa。buran，niyulingyibanzhijiandegehekenengyinfahulvehewufayanyudezenghen。zuihou，zheiyoukenengchengweifuqiganqingpoliedeyigebeihushidezhuyaoyuanyin。

　　2.缺少沟通

　　suoyouguanxideqiantiquanshigoutongjiaoliu。mangliuderichengfenpei、qianqueqingganbiaoxian、qianqueshangxi、qianqueyuairengongxiangrenshengqifu，douyoukenengdaozhijiedi。zheileijiedihuisuizheshijiandetuiyierkuozhang，zaochengwuhui，jinerdaozhifenkai。

　　3.凌虐或蒙骗

　　lengjingqiyidantongfangjiuwufawanhuima，chuguixingweiherenhefangshidelingnvetongchanghuidaozhiliyi。danmouxieqingkuangxia，airengenjumingquetichuliangdifenju，jizheiduanganqinghefancuowuyifangyigejihui。

　　4.贷币难题

　　qiancaiyoukenengshizaochengguanxiehuadezhongyaoyinsuzhiyi。zheikenengshiyouyuweibiaoshudeqidai、huijishoujinhuolingyibandexiaofeixiguansuozaochengde。zairenheqingkuangxiadoukenengchuxiancaishuiwenti——jishizhiyouyifangyoushouyi，huoshishuangfangdouzaigongzuozhong——yuangugezhonggeyang。gezhongwentitongchangshiyouyuzichanguanlibudanghequefacaiwuyucesuoyinqide。