挽回就要暴露需求感是不对的

 youhenduorenshuowanhuijiuyaobaoluxuqiugan，yeyourenshuowanhuibuyaobaoluxuqiugan。neimejiujingnageshiduideni？ huazhenqinggandaoshi juede，ruguowanhuidehuabaoluxuqiuganhuozheshiwanhuijianmianbaoluxuqiugan，zheixiedouzhihuijiwanhuizengjianandu。

一、 挽回 的话暴露需求感

 yidingyaozhangwoxuqiugandebaoluchengdu，youxieren，zaifenshouzhihoubuduanaiqiuqianrenbuyaolikaiziji，yigezhongfangshijiuchan，huozhezaiyuqianrenfulianzhihouguozaotichufuhedeqingqiu，wanhuidehuabaoluxuqiugan？meicuo，jiuliruzheixiedoushiguodubaoluxuqiugandebiaoxian，nidesuoyouyanxingdouhuichengyijuhua--womeinibuxing。zheishiwanhuidehuabaoluxuqiugandedianxinganli，zheijiuxiangdangyujishishangdezuihouyiduiguozi，zaibuchushoujiulandiaole，jiageyahendihaibeirenxianqi。wanhuidezhulijunshidazaogaojiazhihexiyinli，guodubaoluxuqiuganhuishinixianrujiqibeidongdejumian。

 eryouxieren，tingshuobukeyibaoluxuqiugan，jiujiaowangguozhengle，kaishigenqianrenzhuanggaoleng，zheihuijiqianrenzaochengyizhongganjue，“tazhendebuxuyaowole，neiwoyekaishixinshenghuoba”。jugelizinijiugengmingbaile，niqufuzhuangchengtaoyifu，kanjianyijianwaitaotingxihuan，dianzhuyikanniyouxuqiu，baolegegaojia，zheishiniruoxiangyaoyinixinmuzhongdejiaweimaidaozheijianyifu，nikendingbunengbiaoxianchutaixihuanzheijianyifu。kenibiaoxianchuwanquanbuxihuanyeshibuxingde，yinweidangdianzhurenweinigenbenbuhuimaishi，fanerbuhuibaodijialiuni。qianrenyeyiyang，nijitayizhongniwanquanbuxuyaotadeganjue，tayebuhuizaixinlijiniliuweizhi。

 dangqianjihusuoyouguanyuruhewanhuiqianrendegonglvedouzaigaosudajia“yinzangzijidexuqiugan”，womenduicichibaoliuyijian。wanhuiqianrenshiyixiliefuzaqiejingmidebuzhou，jiunaxuqiuganzheiyifangmianlaishuo，bingbushijinliangbuxiangduifangbaoluxuqiuganjiuwanshidaji，nixuyaozuode，shizhangworuheshidubaoluxuqiugan。

 bimianxuqiugandefumianchengxianfangshi，wanhuijianmianbaoluxuqiuganshihenzhimingde，xuqiugandechengxianfangshiyouhenduozhong，bingbuzhishijiandande“woxiangyaohenizaiyiqi”。biru，nixuyaoyigerenqingtingnidexinsheng，yunixuyaoyigerenchongdangnidefumianqingxulajitong，zheidoushiyizhongxuqiu，erhouzhe，xianeryijianshifumiande。zheiyangdelizijubushengju，zheiliwomenjiubuzhuishule，nixuyaojuyifansan。

 womenshangmiangangjiangleyaoshidubaoluxuqiugan，zheiliwomenyaojiangdeshi，nibaoludeneiyibufen，qianwanbunengshifumiande，nixuyaojiagongzijidemeiyizhongganshou，shitamenzaichuandidaoqianrenneilishi，shiwennuaneryoujijide。

 birudangqianrenzhichu“nipiqihenjue，henixiangchuhenlei”shi，nikaishiweizijibianjie，zheishinibuxiangshiqutadebiaoxian，ranerzheizhongxuqiugandebaoluqiaqiahuishiqianrenduinigengjiafangan；erruguonishuo“yaobushini，wohaifaxianbulezijidezheigemaobing，haizhendegaigai，nilaijianduwo”，tongyangshibiaoshibuxiangshiquta，erzheizhongbaoluchengdujiubuhuixiandenihennankan。