zaiganqingpoliedeshihou,henduorencaihuizhejidequwanhui。danshi,wanhuicaileiqudehua,bujinwanhuibulehaihuirangnimendeguanxigengzao。ganqingwanhuileiquyounaxieni? huazhenqinggandaoshi hedajiajieshaoyixiawanhuideleiqu。
一、盲目的自信
gumingsiyi,jiushizirenweizijihenhao,meiyoucuo,bingqiezixinderenweitayidinghuihuixinzhuanyi。dannibuzhidaodeshi,zaizuichufenshoushi,duifangyehuinaonu,houhui,danshifenshouyoushiniti,tabingbuzhidaonishizenmexiangde?raner,ruguonizheigeshihouhaiduitabuwenbuwen,shenzhibuqubiaotai。tadezizunhuirangtajuede,niyijingshimorenfenshoudele,yushitayebuzaiyuduozuojiuchan。suoyi,zaiwanhuideguochengzhong,womenqiejimangmuzixin,juededuifanghuishebudeziji,zhudonglaiqiuhe,erwomenshenmeyebuquzuo,neizheiyangjiuzhendezhishengxiafenshoule。suoyi,wanhuicaileiquzhihuirangnimenguanxigengzaogao。
二、寻找“战友”一起挽留
这种就是找对方的亲戚好友甚至爸妈都找一遍,目的就是通过对方的亲朋好友去给TA压力。这样的做法是很冒险的,因为有一些人,是非常讨厌说教的,更讨厌周围的朋友去干涉自己的感情生活。用这招之前,要先考虑一下对方的性格受得了这一套吗?因此,挽回的雷区千万不要踩。不要让 挽回 dekenengbianchengmeiyou,daoshihouzhinenghouhuimojile。
三、死缠烂打
chuleyitiandashijitongdianhua,huozhequduifanglouxiadurenzheixiejiduanshizhiwai,haiyouqitabiaoxianyeshishuyusichanlandade。butingdejieshidaoqian,qiuyuanliang,butingdishuo,wobaozhengxiaciyidingbuhuifanlezhurucileidehuo。butingdezhizeduifang,qiangdiaoshitadecuo,womeicuozheiyangdehua,qituyizheiyangdefangshilaigaibianfenshoudejumian。danshi,yibanqingkuangxia,zheizhongfangshidouhuiyinqiduifangdefangan。erqieyoushihouhaihuinongqiaochengzhuo,niyueshishuofuyueshijieshi,douyoukenengrangduifangjiandingxiangyaolikainidejuexin。nidesichanlanda,huirangduifangjuede:nixianzaidetuoxiezhishiyishide,zhibuguoshiweileyishidehehao,dengzhenhehaohou,niyidinghuibianbenjiali!zheijiushiweishenmezaifenshoudeshihou,niyueshuo“nitingwojieshi”,duifangjiuyuebuxiangtingnidejieshi,zheiyeshiganqingwanhuileiquzhiyi,qianwanyaozhuyile。
四、讨好是一种病
fenshouhounikenengduiyufenshouyuanyinbunengjieshou。“woyijingbashijianquanbujitale,weishenmehaishishuowobuzaihu”“tashiwozuiqinmiderenle,weishenmehaishuowobuaita”duiyubunengjieshoufenshoushishideren,zonghuizhaochunixianghelihuazijidexiangfa:womeiyoushenmebuhaoa,weishenmeyaolikaiwo?danshishiyijingzhengming,ruguonizhendeneimehao,xianzaixiangwanhuiderenyinggaishitaerbushini。dajiadouzhidao,nannvguanxidehexinshixiyin。suizhenidediweidechengduyuelaiyueyanzhong,jiuhuichanshengyigewenti:niduitadexiyinliyanzhongxiajiangle。 ruguonizaizheiduanlianqingzhongshihaohaoxiansheng,fenshouhoutaohaozhihuirangnimenxianruwufawanhuidedibu。
五、低位必甩
diweibishuaiyisishi,ruguonishiyigebijiaoyanzhongdediwei,neimeshijianzhangle,niyidinghuibeishuaidiao。liruyiduiqinglvzhongnanfangyizhiqianjiunvfang,buguannvfangtichurenheyaoqiudoumanzu,daozhidejieguoshinvfanghuijuedenanpengyoudeqianjiushiyinggaide,dangnanfangdixianyuelaiyuedi,tadexiyinliyesuizhijiangdi,zuizhongnvfangwuyiweidajiameiyouaierfenshou。yinweiniduitameiyouxiyinli,rangtajuedenimenzhijianyijingmeiyouaiqingle。
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