情侣吵架了该怎么和好？

 womenmeigerendoushidulidegeti，douyouzijidesiweifangshihezuoshitaidu，suoyiniqinglvzaiyiqijiulezhihounanmianhuiyoumoca，chaojiadoushizaisuonanmiande。danchaoguozhihouxinlihaiaizheduifang，qinglvchaojialegaizenmehehaoni？

qinglvchaojialegaizenmehehao？rangnimenyuechaoyueqinmidejiqiao

 womenmeigerendoushidulidegeti，douyouzijidesiweifangshihezuoshitaidu，suoyi，qinglvzaiyiqijiulezhihounanmianhuiyoumoca，chaojiashizaisuonanmiande。danchaoguozhihouxinlihaiaizheduifang，qinglvchaojiahouzenmehehaoni？

一、吵架前，定下规矩

 qinglvchaojiahouzenmehehao？fangfayijiushishuangfangkeyizaipingshijiubaguijudingxialai，chaojiashinaxieshibunengzuonaxiehuabunengshuo，birufenshou、rumajiaren、dazajiajudeng，zheiyangbuzhiyubashiqingnongdaobukeshoushidedibu，yejishuangfangliuyouhehaodeyudi。

 wozaiwangshangkanguoyiduiqinglvchulichaojiadefangfajiuhenhao：tamenmaihuilaiyigechucunguan，qumingwei“chaojiazhuanhuanji”，ruguolianggerenzhongyouyifangxiangchaojiale，jiuwanglimianfang100kuaiqian。birunvfangxiangchaojiale，jiufang100kuaiqian，haishihenxiangchao，jiuyaojixuqufang。

 “chaojiazhuanhuanji”lideqianyigeyueqingyici，zanduoletamenjiuliyongzhoumoquduantulvxing，zandeshaojiuqukanyichangdianyingchiyidunfan。zongeryanzhi，zheixieyuanbensazaiduifangshenshangdehuo，jingguo“chaojiazhuanhuanji”yizhuanhua，fanerrangtamenderizibiandegengjiahonghonghuohuole。

二、吵过之后，要解决问题

 meicizhengchaokendingshiyouyuanyinde，chaoguolehefaxieqingxuwanle，jiugaijiejuewentile。wulunganggangchaodeyouduoxiong，doushiyaolengjingxialai，yinweihaixiangyaozaiyiqi，kaowuliqunaoshibuxingde，bixuyaobadangqiandewentijiejuelecainengqianjin。jiaotandemudebushiyaofengesheiduisheicuo，shiyaorangduifangmingbainihaiaita，yuanyiyutayiqijiejuewenti。

三、是谁犯的错误就主动认错

 danglianggerenchaojiahou，shisheidecuowu，sheijiuzhudongrencuo。youqijiushinvsheng，bunengyinweizijishinvhaizi，meicichaojiabuguansanqiershiyidoudenanfangxianditou，yiciliangciouerdexiaorenxinghaihao，cishuyaoshiduole，nanpengyoushoubulenidebadao，tamenyeshihuilei，congerdaozhifenshoudehouguo。