爱护自己的婚姻：如何挽回感情？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?jiarunianqingfufudehunhoushenghuoshibicidoujuedexingfukuailede，yongyouxingfukuailedefuchi，neimafufuguanzhujianxindinghuizhangqideweichixiaqu。youyulianggerendouganshoudaohunyinsuochanshenghaodeyibian，jiusuanyoufannao、youshangxin、youzaodongbuan，yekeyigenjuyulianrenxieshougongjintaguokunnan，jiangdixiaojiqingxudezaocheng，gengweipingdingxianghuweixinliyuanyideneiren。jiranzheiyang，ruheweihunyinchanshengxingfukuailedetihuini，xuduorenjianghuihuiduikeyiyouzheneiyangdeguanlianyouzhongxingfudeqidai，keshimeiyouzhuodaobaochiguanliandejingcui。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、维护保养长期性关联：真正的爱情衣食住行想要你的了解和宽容

 youneiyangdeyiduanhua，“hunyinshiganqinglidemuzang”，zaizuikaishi，hunyinshishizaitaidezuirangrenchongjing，buzhiweishenmedaozuizhongdajiahuichuanchuneiyangdegantan，shenpangbuwuhuiyouliyidepenyou，tingjiantamenshushuodezaihunyinzhongdexinsuanshi，bumianyouxielianminhewukenaihe，buzhiweishenmehaohaodideliangren，huirangxianghuzoudeyuezouyueyuan，nandaoshuoganqing，queshizaoyibeishenghuoqijuzhongdeyouyanjiangcu，azidezaoyimeilexingfukuailehetianmeideweier?

 dabufenrendaolianqingshi，chengxianjilingyifangdequanshizuixingfudezuichusedeyibian，kezuohunhou，ganjuewuxuzaiyanzangle，yinciquanbudequexiandoupululechuqu，hunqianhunhoudouxiangfashengbianhuaderenyiyang，liangrenyaoxiangmeihaodeshenghuoyiqi，youyurichangshenghuojiazhangliduandeshi，fenqiduole，zhengzhiduole，dangjiadeshihezhengduobianchenghunyindeshufu，ganqingjiuhuizaoyubenkui，jiazhongyeshijianghuifenlie，youshiduoshaojiazhongdelikai，bingbushiyouyurichangshenghuodesuosui，jileiguoduofenqi，zuihoumeitianbaofaerwufamibu。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?yeyoudejiushishuoshijianzhangle，yibuyouzhengzhi，bingbushibuchao，zhishibuxiangquchao，yincixuehaolelengbaoli，buxiangyaozaiqugoutongjiaoliu，buxiangyaozuowuweidebiaoshu，yinciyihuohenduo，yayigandehenduo，duilianrenyulaiyulengdan，jianjiandiqueshibianchenglezuishuxidemoshengren。yincizaihunyinliyaoxuehaodeshiquyunyingnidehunyin，erbingbushizongrongnidehunyin。

 bubinazishendeguidingqiangjiayudaolingyifangshoushang。zailianqingdeneishihoudouhuiduiqingganchongmanqidai，laoxiangbazishenshideyibianzhuyaobiaoxianjilingyifang，keshisuizhishijiandebianhualiangrenyulaiyulejieyulaiyuzhangwo，zaitaruhunyindeneishihoulianggerenzaoyifeichangzhangwo，keshirenmenhuanshiduihunyintianmanzhehuanxiangshijie，zongdianjizhelingyifangnenggoubazishendangzuotaderenhe，naxieshierdousuizishendehanyi，danshidangyiciyouyicidejieguodoudabushangzishenlixianghuadeqingkuangshi，nijianjiandideyongyoumaiyuan，ruguonidemaiyuanyulaiyuduodeneishihoubudebuchengrenniganjuelingyifangzuodeyiqiebuzhengquede，ninengchixudezailingyifangshoushangtiaomaobing，neimaneiyangdajiazhongjiandefenqijiuhuihenduo。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zaihunyinlinikeyilejiedeshi，2gexingqing，xiguanxing，fengsuxiguan，quandoubuyiyangderendaoyikuaier，tamenzishen jiushishuo2gebuyiyangdegeren，ruguonichixudequguidingyizhaonideniantouquzuodeneishihou，bujinjiushinishiquxintaizhuangtaishangdekaolv，lingyifangyehuiyoutingdadegongzuoyali，danglianggerendeqinggandoucunyouyayigandeneishihou，buzhiyouruhemaihuixingfukuaileni?yincizaihunyinli，bubiyizhidianjizhequcaozonglingyifang，zhishiyaoxuehaolizailingyifangdeshijiaoqusisuo。duoyifenlejie，jiuhuiduizheifenxingfukuaile。

 lijidehelingyifanggoutongjiaoliu。xuduorendaoyingduizishendehunyinyizhiyi“couhe”dexintaizhuangtailaiyingdui，zaifajuelianggerenchuxianlefenqideneishihou，zaitantaoweiguodeneishihouyizhitiaoxuanjianmo，yizhiyizheizhongcouhecouhezhejiuyiguodexintaizhuangtai。danshiyishengneimazhang，couhenixingfuma?zhangqixinghuozijiangjiudehunyinlininengxingfukuailema，zheijiushiniyuanyideyishizhuxingma?wojuedecouhecouhezhewoyehuileizhe，ruguonidehunyinyuelaiyuejijingdeneishihou，niyeyouzixinxinquweihubaoyanghezaicinidehunyinma?

 yincizaihunyinlilianggerendegoutongjiaoliushishifenguanjiande，bixuyaozhangwozhulianggerendegoutongdejiqiaozaichuxiannantideneishihoububixianbubian，bubikanbushanglingyifanglaotao，pengdao1genantijiujiangyigejiejuewenti，bubiyizhituozherangqicidisigenantichansheng，zainantiyulaiyuduodeneishihou，niyaoquchulile，danshifajuezaoyinanyijiejuedeneishihouneimarenhedouwanhou，neimanidehunyinjiuchuxianweijile。couhe，jianmoshizuibukeyijiejuekunnande，zongshirangdajiazhongjiandegongtonghuatiyuelaiyuedi，zongshirangdajiazhongjiandewujiehenduo。goutongjiaoliunenggourangliangrenjijiangdaolai，haikeyichixudecujinliangrenqinggandefazhanqushi。

二、维护保养长期性关联，在婚姻中怎样保持小甜蜜的情况

 xuduorenduguomeiduanrelianqiyihou，jiuhuitarumoheqihefaweiqi。hunyinyeshizheiban，taguoxinhunyaner，jiujinlaihunyinmoheqi，zhizhiquxiangfawei。jiarujiejuebutaihaomohehefaweiqi，jiuhuichuxiangezhonggeyangnanti。turanmouyitianfajue，xianghuzaoyimeiyouhuatitaolunkeliaole，juedegenlingyifangyiqiyishizhuxingmeiyouzhiqianneimagaoxingle。youyanjiangcuchongpeishichanglebicideyishizhuxing，yidianershenghuolequyemeiyoule。youderenhuitiaoxuanwanbizheixiehunyin，youderenzezaizheiyixiannilizhengtuobukanrumu。jiaruyuanyibazheixieguanlianbaochihao，jiubixumingbaizaihunyinzhongzenmerangxianghudeguanlianweichixiaotianmi，weichiyuanxiandeshenmigan。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?fufubiciyaomingbaixianghuchengcai，nenggouzhangwolingyifang。zaimeiduanhunyinlibianliangrenhuanshiyouzhezhebuyiyangdejingcai，liangrendegongzuozhong，penyou，jiazhiquxiangdoujianghuicunyouchabie。bicichupengdaodeshiqingshibutongde，jiarurenhedouyizhaozishendehanyilai，buzhangwolingyifangxinlizhenshideniantou，neidajialiangrenshimeibanfakaizhangoutongjiaoliude，youyudajiabuguanzenmeshuohua，lingyifangdoumeifalejie。zhangciyiwang，biciyebuxiangyaogongxiangzishendeshier。zhangqixialai，zuihoudejieguozongshishiyuelaiyuehaoxiangshenli。zheijiushishuomeiyouxianghuchengcaidebuliangyingxiang。zhinengdangdajiaxianghuchengcai，nenggouzhangwolingyifangdeyaoqiu，mingbailingyifangdeniantou，neiyangdejiaowangjiuhuigengweishushi。jiaruniyaoshengchanzhizaomouxiexiaotianmi，neimawoyedexianlejielingyifangyuanyide，nenggouliuxupaima。

 youzhezishenjingcaideyishizhuxing，weichizishendeyouhuoli。xuduorenjiehunle，qidaibazishenjiejinquanlizijintourudaozheixiehunyinzhong。neiyangxiangshiduilede，youyutanchengxiangdaiyincixiangmeishimeikedouhuiyikuaier。keshineiyangzuodefengxianzhishudoushihengaode，youyumeilezishendeyishizhuxing，henyoukezhizishendeyouhuolijiangdi。huoxucuowuzishenzijintouru，duibenshendejibenjianshebuzijintouru，neimayouhuolijiangdishibidingdeshier。youzhezishenjingcaideyishizhuxing，rangzishenmeiridouhengaoxing。jiurushenzhenshipojingzhongyuangongsizhuguankangnachangshuo：“renmenyuanyi1genengdailairenmengaoxing、xingfudenvren”。ruguonikeyiweichizishendeyouhuoli，neimanizaishenghuozhongzuomouxiezhiqianmeizuoguodeshier，neimalingyifangjiuhuiganjuexingfukuailegaoxing。shenzhenshipojingzhongyuangongsikangnayecengjingshuoguo：“youhuolijiaruchongzuqiangdehua，neimazuoyiqieshidoushibeijiena”weichiyouhuolideyuangudoushizheiyidadaoli。

三、下班了的時间决策了你婚姻的品质

 nianqingfufuhunyinpinzhishigaoshidi，kantamenxiabanledeshijianjiulejie。zijifanmanglemeitiandegongzuozhongyihou，xiuxishijianyizhixiangganmouxienenggourangzishenganjueshufudefangfa，laihuanjiezishendegongzuoyali。youxierentiaoxuanhepenyouchulaidayudarou，youxierenhuiyizhexifubukanbushangdiquxiaoshoushichangmaishiwuhuijialehelianrengonggongjinwucan。meirigongzuozhonglaidao3fenyixiazi，rushuilaidao3fenyideshijian，shengyudeshijianlibianyoushiduoshaoshigaopinzhipeidajiaguanjianderen，jiujuecelenihunyindepinzhi。

 dipinzhishouhoufeichangrongyifashengzhengzhi。rujindejiatinghunyinlibian，xiabanlejingchangchuxianbutaihaodezhuangkuangyou：lingyifanghuijialejiuwanyouxi、changchanghepenyouchulaiyongcan、zaijialidaizhekanshoujikandianshiyemeihuazheixie。zheizhongshouhouquanshishifendipinzhide，zaochengleduifanghuichuxianmaiyuan、manbujiangli、jianniyimianganjuehaofan。zheizhongdipinzhidepeibanshifeichangrongyifashengzhengzhide，yiqiliangrenzhongjiandeganqingyezaimanmandihaofeizhe，zhangciyiwangjiuhuiganjuedajiabenzhibuzhangwolingyifang，butaiailingyifang，chedimeiyougongtongyuyanhetongbutigao。zijixiabanledeshijian，nitiaoxuanzenyangdeshenghuofangfajiujiujuecelenihunyindepinzhi，nimeiyoushiduoshaoshijianqupeizhenizuiaideren，yejiumeiyouhuoliquyunyingnidehunyin。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?gaopinzhideshouhoushihunyingengxingfukuaile。jihumeiyoumeiduanhunyinshifenxingfuhexingfukuaile，shibuyongshijianquyunyingde。nishouhoulingyifangdeshijianyueda，pinzhiyuegao，nidehunyinjiuyueyouquebao。dangdajiaxiabanleliangrenchangchangyiqiyongcan、kanxiayingpian、guangyixiaxiadaxingshangchang、changchangquwajuemouxiexinshiwudeneishihou，dajiadeqinmiwujianshuipinghuihengao。renherenzhijianzuiguanjiandeshigoutongjiaoliu，zaigaopinzhideshouhouxiabuqianquegoutongjiaoliu。dajiazhongjiandebingjihuihenduo，juedaduoshunanwangdehuiyidouhelingyifangxiangguan，zaishouhouquanguochengzhongbuduanzaojiuxindegerenaihao，hebuduanshengchanzhizaochushenmiganlaibaochiguanlian。neiyangdegaopinzhishouhoudehunyin，jiushishuojueceyunixiabanledeshijianyoushiduoshaoshishouhoulingyifang，pinzhidegaoaijuecelenihunyindexingfukuaileshuiping。

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