婚姻咨询：老公出轨要离婚怎么挽回

　　laogongchuguiyaolihunzenmewanhui，hunyinshenghuo，zuoweiyizhongshehuixingtai，beichengzuorenshengdangzhongguanjianchengnuoheyiwu。danshi，xianshishenghuozhong，henduohunyinshenghuodouhuimianlinpingjingwenti，rugoutongjiaoliu、jiawuhuofenpai、jingjiyuguanlidenggezhongwenti。gezhongwentiwufadedaojishichuli，biranhuidaozhifuqiganqingpolie。xiamianwomenjiutantaoruhetongguoyixiliedebuzhouhefangshilaixiufuhunyin，xiezhufufucongliekaimaixiangquanyu。

　　一、思考问题并找出根本原因

　　zuixian，yaoxiubuyiduanshibaidehunyin，bixufuqishuangfanggongtongqinfenzhaodaowentidebenzhi。zheikenengshejidaogoutongjiaoliu、sanguanbuhe、qianquexianghuzhichidengduogefangmian。genjuxiangxifenxigezhongwenti，doukeyizhaodaozaochenghunyinshenghuobuhemudezhongyaoyinsu。zaizheiguochengzhong，fuqiliangrenyaobaochikaifangfuzerendexintai，yonggandequmianduinanti，yibianweichuliwentidaxiajichu。

　　二、采用沟通交流方法

　　hezuoshichulihunyinshenghuowentidehexin。fuqijiankeyijianliyouxiaodegoutongfangfa，bianyugaoxiaodibiaodaguandianhetihui，yucitongshilingtinglingyifangdejianyiyuxuqiu。youxiaogoutongxuyaoshuangfanggongtongfendou，birufangzhipipinghejingong，ershiyonglejiehejiejuewentiweizhuyaomubiao。chucizhiwai，fufunenggoutongguodingqideyouhui、jiatinghuodongdengfangshilaitigaohudonggoutongjiaoliu，yizengjinxianghuzhijiandezhangwoyuqinggan。

　　三、懂得彼此理解和尊重

　　lijiejiushifuqijianxianghulijiedeqianti。zaihunyinli，fuqijianyaobicilijiehezunzhongbicizhijiandeniantou、tihuiheyaoqiu。genjulejieduifangdeyoudianhequedian，keyigenghaodejieshoulingyifang，bingzaizheiguochengzhongmanmangoujianqishencengciderentonghelejie。yucitongshi，fufuyeyingdangzunzhongduifangsirenkongjianhegerenyinsi，jiduifangyidingdeziyouzijuexing。

　　四、共同商定自我规划

　　fuqijianbixugongtongshangdingziwoguihua，quelibicizhijiandeqidaihenulimubiao。zheizhongziwoguihuakeyibaokuorichangshenghuo、gongzuofazhan、haizijiaoyudengduogefangmian。genjugongtongshangdingziwoguihua，fuqijiankeyigenghaodexieshoutongxing，yitongzhuixunxingfu。yucitongshi，fuqijianyexuyaoduizheixiejihuajinxingdingqidepingdingheyouhua，yibaozhengtamenshizhongyubicideyaoqiuheqidaibaochiyizhi。

　　五、寻求专业协助

　　mouxieqingkuangxia，fufukenengbunengzixingchuliquanbudehunlianwenti。zaizheiyangdeqingkuangxia，xunqiuzhuanyexiezhushiyizhongzhengquedexuanze。hunyinzixunshihuoxinlixuezhuanjianenggoutigongyouhaochudetiyiyuzhichi，xiezhufufuzhanshengkunnan，chuliwenti。jinguanjishuzhuanyexiezhubingbushiwubi，danshiyoushihoutakeyiweifufutigongzhongyaodezhidaohezhichi，bangzhuqibaituokunjing。

　　六、维持对感情的承诺和资金投入

　　zuizhong，xiufuhunyinbixufuqiliangrenweichiduiganqingdechengnuohezijintouru。zheijiuyiweizhebicibixuduiyuhunyinchixutourushijianjingli，buduannuliweichizheiduanganqing。yucitongshi，fufuyeyaobicizhijiandefuwuchengnuoweichizhongchenghezhongshi，shizhonglaojihunyinshenghuodezhongyaoyiyishiyongjiazhi。weiyoutongguoweichiduiganqingdechengnuohezijintouru，fufucaikeyiyitongmaijingengjiameihao、shushideshenghuo。

　　laogongchuguiyaolihunzenmewanhui，zongeryanzhi，xiufuhunyinjuefeiyishi，bixufuqishuangfanggongtongnuliyuyunying。tongguoduibinantibingzhaochugenbenyuanyin、caiyonggoutongjiaoliufangfa、dongdebicilijiehezunzhong、gongtongshangdingziwoguihuajiqixunqiuzhuanyexiezhudengfangshi，fufunenggouyouxiaodijiejuehunyinshenghuocunzaidewenti，houzhongxingoujianqirentonghelejie。zaizheiguochengzhong，fuqiliangrenyaobaochiduiwaikaifang、fuzerendexintai，yonggandequmianduinanti，yibianweihunyinshenghuodejiankanghexingfukuailedaxiajichu。