婚姻咨询：女朋友说分手怎么挽回让她感动

　　nvpengyoushuofenshouzenmewanhuirangtagandong，hunyinshenghuoshirenshengdezhongyaodeyibufen，danshihenduorenzaihunyinshenghuozhonghuipengdaozheiyangneiyangdewenti。dangganqingchuxianwentishi，xuduofuqibuzhidaoruhexiubu。xiamianwomenjiuweinintigong7gewanhuihunyindebanfa，rangnimendehunyinzhongfantianmei。

　　一、再次审视自我

　　dangganqingchuxianwentishi，shouxianyaozhongxinshenshizijitaiduhegerenxingwei。nandaoshiyinweizijidexinqinghuoxingweidaozhilingyifangbumanyi?shifouzijidejiazhiyumubiaoheduifangbuyizhi?zhongxinshenshiziji，zhaodaoshuyuzijidenantibingzhudongjiuzheng，shixiufuhunyindezhongyaoyibu。

　　二、聆听另一方

　　zaihunyinshenghuozhong，lingtinglingyifangshihenzhongyaode。ruguoduifangyoubumanyihuoyihuoshi，bixulingtingtadexiangfaheganshou。jinyoulejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou，cainenggenghaodechuliwenti。yucitongshi，lingtingduifangkeyirangduifangkanjiannideguanxinzhichi。

　　三、树立良好的沟通的方式

　　youxiaodegoutongshihunyinchenggongdejishi。zairichangrichangshenghuo，bixushulilianghaodegoutongdefangshi。biciyaojingchanggoutongjiaoliubicizhijiandexiangfaheganshou，gongxiangbicideshenghuoyuqinggan。weiyoutongguoyouxiaodegoutong，cainenggenghaodelejieduifangdexuqiuheqiwang，congerjiangdimaodunhefenqi。

　　四、认错并道歉

　　dangganqingchuxianwentishi，daduoshiyinweishuangfangdoushiyixiecuowuhuochucuo。chengrenzijidecuowubingdaoqianshixiufuhunyindezhongyaoyibu。zhiqianbujinjinshiyizhongfangshi，gengshiyizhongtaidu。genjuzhiqian，keyirangduifangkanjiannidechengxinheyongqi，congertishengbicizhijianderenkeyuqinggan。

　　五、制订共同的目标

　　zhidinggongtongdemubiaoshiweixihunyinshenghuodezhongyaofangshizhiyi。shuangfangkeyiyiqizhidingyixiegongtongmubiao，lirulvyouluxianguihua、jiatingjihuadeng。zheizhonggongtongdemubiaonengrangbicigengjiatuanjie，tigaolianggerendeganqing。yucitongshi，haikeyirangbicigengjiadeyoudongliqumianduishenghuozhongdetiaozhanjiannan。

　　六、维持美好和亲密无间

　　nvpengyoushuofenshouzenmewanhuirangtagandong，weichimeihaoheqinmiwujianshiweixihunyinshenghuodezhongyaofangshizhiyi。zairichangrichangshenghuo，keyitongguoyixiexiaofangshilaitishengbicizhijiandeqinmiganyulangmangan。lirusongxianhua、songli、biaobaiqingshudeng。neixiexiaofangshinengrangbicigengweitihuidaobicizhijiandeqingyiheguanai，congertishenglianggerendeganqing。

　　七、寻求专业协助

　　ruguoyishangfangshiwufawanjiunimendehunyinnanti，neiyangjiukeyikaolvxunqiuzhuanyexiezhu。hunyinzixunshihuoxinlizixunshinenggoubangzhunisikaowentibingtichujianyi。tamennenggoubangzhunigenghaodilejiezijideqingxuhexingweifangshi，bingqieyenenggoubangzhunigenghaodelejieduifangdexuqiuheqiwang。genjutamendebangzhu，nikeyizhaodaogenghaodejiejuefangshilaixiubunimendehunyinnanti。