自己说分手还想挽回可以吗

　　aiqingshishenghuozhongyijianmeihaodeshiqing，danyoushiaiqingdehuoyanhuimanmanximie，lianggerenzhijiandeguanxihuibiandelengmowuqing。dangshidereqingxiaoshile，tianmideaiqingbianchenglekusedehuiyi。dangniyishidaonizhengzaishiqunisuoaiderenshi，nihuigandaofeichangjusanghetongku。neime，ruhewanjiuyiduanguanxini？zhuanyerenshirenweizheibushiyijianrongyideshiqing，zijishuofenshouhaixiangwanhuixuyaoduofangmiankaolv。zaizheipianwenzhangzhong，wojiangcongduogejiaodufenxiruhewanjiuaiqing。

　   1、了解婚姻破裂的原因

　　zaihuifuganqingzhiqian，nibixushouxianlejiehunyinpoliedezhuyaoyuanyin。shiyinweinideyanxingbudang，haishiyinweiqitayuanyin？nenggoutanchengdiyuduifanggoutong，lejieduifangdeneixinganshou，zhaochuwenti。zhiyoulejiewentideyuanyin，cainengyouzhenduixingdicaiquyouzhenduixingdecuoshi。

　　ruguoshinideyanxingbudangzaochengde，nixuyaoxiangduifangdaoqian，bingchengnuoyihoubuyaozaifantongyangdecuowu。danshi，buyaozaifancuowule，fouzenidehuifugongzuohuigengjiakunnan。

　　2、通过发送信息来恢复感情

　　fasongxinxishiyizhongfeichangfangbiandegoutongfangshi，takeyirangnibaochilianxi，biaodanideqingganhejingli，danyexuyaozhuyifasongfangfaheneirong。

　　duiyupoliedeaiqing，nikeyitongguofasongyitiaojianduandexinxilaibiaodaniduibicidesinianheganqing。zheitiaoxinxiyinggaijizhongzaiduifangdezhongyaoxingshang，bingchengnuoyuanyinuligongzuo。raner，ruguonizongshifasonghenzhangdexinxilaibiaodaniduibicidehaoganhexiangnian，duifangkenenghuigandaodanxin，likaini。

　　zijishuofenshouhaixiangwanhuiciwai，nihaikeyitongguofasongtupianhuoyinpinxinxilaibiaodanideguandianheqinggan。dangran，zaifasongxinxizhiqian，yidingyaozixikaolv，buyaorangzheixiexinxijiduifangdailaibubiyaodefudan。