自己说分手了如何挽回最佳

　　zaishenghuozhong，aishimeigerendouhuijinglideyiduanguanxi。danzaizheiduanguanxizhong，womenbukebimiandihuiyudaocuozhehetongku。dangyigenvrenjianjuelikainishi，nikenenghuigandaohenbushufu，zijishuofenshouleruhewanhui？danniyeyinggailengjingdijieshouxianshi，shituzhengjiutadexin。

　　1.找出问题所在

　　shouxian，nixuyaozhaodaoyigenvrenlikainideyuanyin。nishibushitaizhiliyugongzuoerhushiletadeganshou？haishinideyanxingrangtagandaoshangxinheshiwang？zhiyouzhaodaowentidegenyuan，cainengyouzhenduixingdijiejuewenti。

　　2.诚实地反思

　　jiexialai，nixuyaochengshidifansinideyanxing，kankannishifouxuyaogaijin。nikeyixiangnidepengyouhuojiarenxunqiubangzhu，tingqutamendeyijianhejianyi，yibiangenghaodilejieziji。

　　3.表现出改变

　　yidannifaxianlewenti，nixuyaojijidicaiquxingdong，biaomingniyijingzuochulegaibian。nikeyitongguogaibiantamendexingwei，rangnvrenkandaonidezhenchenghenuli。zijishuofenshouleruhewanhuiliru，nikeyihuagengduodeshijianhetazaiyiqi，jitagengduodeguanxinhezhichi。

　　4.沟通是关键

　　zaizhengjiunvxingdeguochengzhong，goutongshiyigefeichangzhongyaodebuzhou。nixuyaochengshidihetajiaotan，biaodanideganshouhexiangfa，bingqingtingtadeshengyin。zhiyoutongguogoutong，nicainenggenghaodilijietadexuqiuhexiangfa，yibiangenghaodijiejuezheigewenti。

　　5.给她时间和空间

　　zuihou，nixuyaojinvrenshijianhekongjianlailengjingsikao。youshihou，nvrenxuyaoyiduanshijianlaichulizijideqingxu，yexuyaoyixiekongjianlaisikaozijideweilai。nixuyaozunzhongtadejueding，jitazugoudeshijianhekongjianlaizuochuzijidejueding。