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1.不要拖延

ruguogandaohunyinlicunzaidewenti,neiyanglijizheshouchulishifeichangzhongyaode。nibuyuanyizhidaonimenzhijiandeguanxifashengguoduonanti,yizhiyuguanlifangfayiqieyuelaiyuetaikunjingshicaixiashou。tuichierbushiquqingkuangchuxianshimashangchulihuidaozhiyixiebuhaodeqingxu,zheikenenghuishisuoyouxiangguangongzuorenyuanjuedeshouzuwucuo。
2.明确难题与目标
ruguonifaxianyigewentishi,zuizhongyaodeshikeyitaoluntabingshedingmubiaolaihuanjieyoulv。youshihouyigetaiduwentiduilingyigereneryanbushishi,danzhongyaodeshiyaobalingyibandenantishizuoquanbuguanliandejiaolv。zuoweiairen,zoudaoyiqi,liejuxitongloudong,bingmingquemubiao,yizhidingzenyangraokaizheizhongloudongdeluxianditu。
3.专注于更改
yaozhengjiuyiduanganqing,nixuyaozhenzhenzhengzhengzhuanzhuyubianhuadeyuangu。zheixieyinsuwubizuonijianchibuxiedeguannian,burangenggaijiangshiyishide。aiqingxuyaomeirichengnuo,bansuizhefuqiganqingdefazhan,aiqingdeyaoqiuyehuifashengbianhua。ruguonizhengzaibangzhujiejueaiqingzhongdemougeshijiwenti,meirifuwuchengnuogaijinniyubanlvhetongyuedingdefangfa,suizheshijiantuiyi,xiaoguoyedabuyiyang。
4.采用积极
ruguonijuedexiangyaojiejuemoushi,buyaodengdainidelingyibanzhichulai。niyunidelingyibanyiyangduizheiduanganqingdechengjiuchengdan,yincibaozhengnizijishuochuqubingzhidingliuchengshifeichangzhongyaode,yinweizheigehaikeyibangzhunidelingyibangandaoanquan,keyitichutamenyexiangjiejuewenti。
5.tantaoliyishusongshishizhongbaochiyouhao
shanhundehunyinzenmewanhuiruguoniaiyigerenbingzhiliyurangnimenzhijiandeguanxijianchixiaqushi,zaichulitantaochongtushishizhongbaochiyouhao,bingqiezaichanshengfenqishidongdepingdengdizhengzhi。dabufenshihou,nantigengduodeyutiwenwentidexingshi、beijingbeihoudehanyixiangguan。

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