情感问答：男友超前消费，婚前该不该深入讨论钱的问题？

henanyoushixiangqinrenshide，nanyoujitafumudoubiaoxianchuhunhouyouwodangjiazuozhudetaidu。xianzaiyijingburuzhuangxiuhunfangdedibule，danwowuyizhongfaxiantazaiyongxinyongkachaoqianxiaofei，wotuisuole。womenlianaizhijinyizhimeiyoushenrutanqianzheigehuati，ruguowendehuayinggairuhebiaodani?

lianaidabannian，liangjiajiazhangxiangchurongqia。nanpengyouduiwoyoutengyouchong，womensuiranshixiangqinrenshi，danshiyizhixiangziyoulianaineiyangtian，nanpengyoujitafumudoubiaoxianchuhunhouyouwodangjiazuozhudetaidu。

花镇情感导师回复：

ruguonibufangxinnanyouyongxinyongkadeshiqing，keyiyongqingjiaodetaidu，cemiandatanyixiaqingkuang。birunikeyishuozijikannanyouyongxinyongkamanfangbian，zijiyexiangnongyige，danbutaidong，qingtajiaojiaoni。jiexialaitajiuhuiheniliaoxinyongkadehuati，nikeyichenjibasuoyouyiwendoujiangjita。

biruniwenta“ruguohaibushangkuanlezenmeban”，ruguotashuokeyichaijie，huozhezaibanyigekalaihuidaoqian，shenzhixiazaiyixiewangdaiapphaikuandengdeng，neinijiuyaokaishijingtiqilaile，zheibiaoshitahenyoukenengzhengzaizuohuozhezuoguozheiyangdeshiqing。tongchangqingkuangxia，yongxinyongkahuihuowudu、chaoqianxiaofeideren，doushicongchaijiekaishide。

lingwai，yigexurongwuzhi，huihuowududeren，yidinghuitixianzaishenghuodefangfangmianmian，bujinjinhuitixianzaixinyongkashang。ruguotapingshijiuduichaochuzijixiaofeinenglidexuanshiwuxianshichujigaodereqing，huozhetanlianduanqineidailaijudaqingxubodongdetoujixingwei，huozheyouyiduanshijianfeichangxiaochen，tongguowuxiandumaimaimailaihuodemanzugan，neimeniqueshiyaodaqijingshenlaiduofangmianguanchayixia。

nixianzaidezhuangtaiyouxiejinggongzhiniao，yexushiyinweinizhiqianduixinyongkadeyinxiangdoushifumiande，suoyiyouxieguoyujingti。danshishishangyouhenduorenbaxinyongkaliyongdehenhao，birukeyihaodaoyixieyangmao，lingdaoyixieyouhuiquandengdeng。suoyiniyebubitaiguodanxin，cemianshitanyixiataduixinyongkadetaidu，duojiaguanchatajike。

dangran，jibiannixianzaikaochaguolemeiyouwenti，yebudaibiaoyiqianhuozheyihoubuhuichuxianzheixieqingkuang。yinweirenshengshibodongde，danniyaoyonghelidexintaiqukandaizheixiefengxian。meiyourennengbaozhengnidehunyinwanwuyishi，zaimanzhangdeyishengzhong，yaoxuehuiyongjijidexintaiqumianduiyiqiewenti。

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zuihou，yaotixingnideshi，nixianzaikanqilaiyouyidianzhong，haiyoubijiaoyanzhongdeshuangxiaba，lianshangbutaiyou25suinvshenglianshangneizhongyingyoudejinzhigan，bufangjianjianfei，zhuyiyixiakangshuai。chaoqianxiaofeijianyiwenqingchu。nidenanyouzhangxiangzhouzhengyoujiajingyinshi，tengniyounenghenixiangchurongqia，haohaozhenxita，zhuhao。