情感问答：和相亲男友交往一年半没见他父母，我们会长久吗？

henanyouxiangqinpingtairenshi，bangeyuefashengguanxi，4geyuedaiwocanjiaqinqijiadexiyan，liangrenyiqichushitafukuanjiaoduo，xianjibenaa。jiaowangyinianbantameizaitidaiwojianfumu，ruguowomenyizhiweichixianzhuang，shifouhuizhangjiu?

pingtairenshi，bangeyuefashengguanxi，4geyuedaiwocanjiaqinqijiadexiyan，tafumuyoushimeiqu，meijiandao。liangrenyiqichushitafukuanjiaoduo，xianjibenaa。quguowojialiangci，diyicidaishuiguo2xiang，diercishilvyoujingguo。kongshouqu。，zaiqingganjiangshudeguochengzhong，zhuanyedaoshipeiniyiqifenxiqingganwentidedaan，bangzhunishouhuoxingfuyongbaoai。

花镇情感导师回复：

nihenanyouzheiduanguanxibingbushizhangze，shiduanze，erqieshizhujiancongzhangzebianchengleduanze。

buxinnikeyifupanyixia，shibushicongnimenjiaowangyilai，nidedaiyudouzaixiajiang?

nimenzaiyiqi“chushitafukuanjiaoduo，xianjibenaa”;

taquguonijialiangci，“diyicidaishuiguo2xiang，diercishilvyoujingguo。kongshouqu”。

jiaowang4geyuedainicanjiaqinqijiadexiyan，yuanbenyoudainijianfumudeyiyuan，rujinyemeizaitiguodainijianfumu;

yuanbentashuoxianghenizaishenggeerzi，rujinyebuzaitijinyibuguanxile。

daozhizheiyiqiedegenbenyuanyin，shinimendeshuxingbingbushihe。nimenlianggerendebuxingdoubijiaozhong，taxiangyaodeshiyigexianhuigujiaxiangfujiaozidenvshitou，erniyeqiaqiaxuyaoyigenenggoukanniliansetingnizhihuidenanjianzi，nimenzhijianyouquanlihediweidezhengduo，suoyinicaihuishuo“nengmingxianganjuedaotaxiangyazhiwo”。

“yazhi”zheigecishizaibuhaoting，yinweitabeihouyinzangzhehenyanzhongdeeyichuaice。shishishang，nanbudouhuixiwangbanlvyizijiweizhongxin，tongshitayeyuanyijibanlvxianchuzerenganhejiatingdebihu，zheizainvshitoukanlaishiyijianfeichangxingfudeshiqing。ernideshuxingqiaqiayeshibu，niyexiangzuoneigeshuoyibuerdangjiazuozhuderen，suoyicaihuiqianyishilixianghetazhenggegaodi，juedenimenshi“yazhi”he“beiyazhi”deguanxi。

suirannihetameiyouchaoguojia，danhenmingxianniyizhizaiyayizijideqingxu。danshiyigerendebuxingtixianzaifangfangmianmian，napaniwuzhulezuiba，qiangshiyehuicongniyanjinglimaochulai。genghekuangnibingbunengmanzutafanyanhoudaidehexinxuqiu，neimetaduinideqinzhitouziyeziranhuiyidiandianjianshao。zaijiashangnimeiyoushenmeguanshangjiazhi，suoyitaziranmeiyoutaidadedongliheniweichinapazhangqideduanzeguanxi。xianzaitayijingzaimanmantuichuzheiduanguanxile。

congzhaopianlaikan，duifangdexuanzequangenggao，dannimenxianzaidejumianhegaopandeguanxibuda，jishinidexuanzequangenggao，nidezhangxiangbucuo，tayezhishihuiduochuyidianqianduinijinxingduanze，buhuiduinizhangze。

nidebuxingdaozhinihennandedaonanrendeqinzhitouzi。jugebutaiqiadangdelizi，jiusuanzaigongsigongzuo，yedoushitinghuadeyuangongnaxinshui，fahaoshilingdelaobanfuxinshui。ruguonibutinglingdaoshangsidehua，ziranzhuanbudaoqian，ruguonixiangrangbierentingnidehua，neijiudefaqianjibieren。

ernizaiganqingzhongxiangyaozuodejiushi“lingdao”deweizhi，duifangziranbuhuixiangyaojiniqinzhitouzi。bujinruci，ruguoduifangyexiangzuo“lingdao”，neimenimendeguanxijiuziranbuhuizhangjiu，guoyiduanshijianjiuhuiyipailiangsan。

buxiangjiaofuzhenxin，ziranmeifadedaobierendezhenxin。 henanyoujiaowangyinianbanmeijiantafumu，womenhuizhangjiuma？

zongshangsuoshu，jianyinihaishizoufupozheitiaodaolu，zijizhuanqianhuaba。niyouleqian，erzijianglaiyenengguodehaoyidian。bijingyinidegexing，weilaixiangbiyeshigenanxiangchudepopo，ruguoqianduoyidian，xingxuhainengyouerxifuyuanyijiadaonijia。

建议：专心搞钱吧。