男人就该在二十多岁，一事无成的时候结婚吗？

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1.适当规定

shijieshangmeiyoujizhiderenge，jiarunixunzhaoneiyangdecunyou，zhongjiunimeiyicidoushihuixinhan。xingqing、waimao、jiazhong、wenhuayishudengzhuduoyinsu，tabuyidingdouhehunideguiding，erbiaocengchengxiandeyebuyidingshizhenzhengde。yinertaiguodeguidingbibushangtishengziji，zaierrumuranzhonggenggaibieren。

2.诚信友善

youliangdeshejiaoguanxicongchengxinzhujian，nixuyaotanchenghezhenxinchengyizhangwonixihuanshenme。jiaruninjinjinzaizhaoxunkuaile，qingcongkaishijiuchengxin。zheijiangshinimenshuangfangdouburongyilangfeishijian，cuoguolianghaodejihuie!，bingzuidaxiandudijiangdiganqingshangdefujiaweihai。

3.自我反思

fanshengshiyichangdandurengedejingshenshizhishenghui，shiyiciyusuiyuefengyudedanduhuihua，zheixianranshiyigerenjingshendulidezhanshichu。jifengdeshi，zaimangmangliuliudexiandaishehui，feichangshaorenzhenzhenzhengzhengdikaizhanziwofansi。ruguonimingqueyaofazhanzheiyiduanguanxishi，huashijianjizhongjingli，xiangyixiangninaerzuodehao，nalizuodebutaihao，zhihougaizenmezuo，zenmerangnimendeguanxinenggougenghaodifazhan。

4.灵敏的心

meigerendoushuonvhaishiyinqingbudingdegeren，yaoburan。yinweishenglixue、xinlizhuangtaishangdegongzuoyali，nvshixiangduixingyunanshijiaoyulixing，erzhedulisikaodeshijiao、shencengbuyiyang。yineryingduizheigewenti，nanhaizibixuminruidiguancha，nvshengxiangyaobiaodashenme，yaoxiangzuoshenme，dangbicizhijianchongzuzhangwoshi，bicigongchuhuigengfeichangrongyi。

5.尊重感情

zuizhongyaodeshi，wulunguanxidegaofenghediguqi，douxuyaobianchengyigeshanliangderen。danghebanlvganqingpingwenshi，huoxuyiqiedouhenkaixin，keshidangganqinglumianqiqubupingerqienijuedebushangqingyishi，yeqingyaoweichiyouhao，zheiyeshiyiqieguanxifazhandejiben。