相亲时怎么做是不好的，男人的这几种行为最令女人反感？

xiangqinshizenmezuoshibuhaode？chunjieyoukuaidaole，duiyuhenduorenlaishuo，xianzaidechunjieyijingbianchengle“chunjie”，zuirangtamenkongjudebushifahongbaozouqinqi，ershihuijiahouyaomianduisanguliupo，jiefanglingjudelunfanhongzha，youduixiangdejiucuizheshashihoujiehuna，meiyouduixiangdejiukaishizhangluozhexiangqin。danshiqishixiangqinbingbushishuohenkepa，youxierenhaiyinweixiangqinjieyuande。ruguoduixiangqinduixiangganjuebuhaode，xiangqinduixiangzuirangrenfangandexingweiyounaxieni？

danshishenbiandenanxingpengyouyoudejiubaoyuanshuo：“xianzaidenvshengyanguangtaigaole，meiyouyigeqiaodeshangwodeshenmede。”qishiyebushinvshengyanguangtaigao，ershinanshengmenzishenyecunzaizheyixiewenti，nvshengbudebusiliangde。

xiangqinyibanyejiuyidunfan，huoshiyichangyingpiandeshijian，2gejihuchedishengshuderenxiangzaiduanqineijiuquedinglingyifangshifouzishenxiangzhaodeneiren，bushishijide。

zaizhuanshunjishidejiaowangzhong，dajiaxianghuzhijianmeifadadaohenshendezhangwo，zheigeshihoudiyiyinxiangbianshizuizhongyaode。

neimazaixiangqinshi，nanshengdeshenmeqingxinghuirangnvxingganjueyouqidichu，jinerburongyigenninyouxiayibufazhanqushideni？

1.晚到

dengdaishijianshizuiyouzhangde，meirenhuixiaibushijianguannianderen。wulunnimenshiduohaoxiedehaopengyou，huoshixiangchulexujiudeqinglv，jiarulingyifangyizhishinidengta，kenengniyehuifanuba。

shijianguannianshiduitarendeyizhongjibenshangdezhongshi，youqishiliangrendiyicijianmiandeqingkuangxia。jiaruxiangqindeqingkuangxianichidaole，neimalingyifangduinideyinxiangkendingshishoudaofeichangdayingxiang。

jiarunidequeshiyoushierdanwule，huoshishizouzailushangyongdule，yidingyaotizaogenbierenshuo。

xiangqinduixiangzuirangrenfangandexingweiyounaxie？wuyuanwugurangnvshengdengnihenjiu，wulunnidebiaozhunyouduomehao，tahenyoukenenglianjiandoubuyuanjianni，lijizourenle。

2.左右扫视另一方

liangrendiyicijianmiandeqingkuangxia，dajiatongchangdoushihuixunsudijianglingyifangquanshenshangxiakanyibian，laidagaizhangwolingyifangdeshenxingjiqichuanzhedaban。zheiyeshidajiadebennengfanying，shiyizhonghenchangguidefanying。

keshijiaruniyizhidingzhurenjiakan，neitexingjiubuyiyangle。

youdenanshengzaipengdaonvshengdeguochengzhonghuiyanjingdiliuliudibalingyifangquanshenshangxiasaoshishanghenduobian，henyoukenengnizijiganjuezheizhongzuomeiyoushenmebudangzhichu，keshizhenduinvshengeryanzheiyeshishifenbuzhongshirendexingwei。

jishinishiduitayouhaogan，nishihuaizheyizhongshangxidexintai，danneizhishirangtaganjuehenxinlibushufu，naizhihuirenweinishiyigehenweixiederen。

3.看手机

rujinjuedaduoshuderenquanshishoujizu，lianxingzou、yongcan，shuangyanyeyikedoulibuleshoujishang。

qianduanshijianwangshangjiandaoyiduanduanshipin：yiduiqinglvzaichimalatang，nanshengquanguochengzaikanshouji，duishenpangdenvyoumobuguanxin，zuizhongjidenvshengbatadeshoujishangdiurulehuoguodianli，suihoutoudoubuhuidilikai。

zheiyinvshengdezuofashiyoudianpianjile，danbudebuchengrendequezuiyouyingde。

liangrenzaiyiqideqingkuangxia，jiarulingyifangzhituzhekanshouji，erjiangnidangqiti，buzhisheiburongyiqifenni？zheiyeshichuncuidehulve。

lianaihenjiudelianrendouchengshoubushangzheileixingwei，genghekuangnimenshidiyicijianmianni？

xiangqindeqingkuangxia，jiaruniyizhidixiatouwanshouji，nvshenghuiganjuenizheigerenyouqimeijiaoyang，naizhihuiganjuenishiduitayoujianyi，caihuiguyiduitaailibuli。

4.不容易积极找话题聊天

woshenpangyouhenduonvxingdichuxiangqindeyinsubianshi，danyoulingyifangshiyigelianhuadouburongyishuode“lengchangwang”。

yigenvshengjishitadexingqingzaixinggekailang，yidaoxiangqinneileichangsuo，tongchangdoushihuiyuelaiyuehenhaixiu。

nvshengdouxiaiyoumogaoxiaodenansheng，jishinidexingqingbingbushishifenyoumode，niyebingbushineimadenengyanshanbian，danzuishaonibunengbazhaohuatiliaotianzheileishiqingdiujinvsheng。

bulunshishenmeyuanyin，nanshengdouyinggaishijijideneiyifang。

jiarunizaixiangqindeqingkuangxia，burongyijijigennvshengxianliao，fanershirenjianvshengwenyijunidayiju，nvshengbuhangsheng，niyejiuyizhichenmowuyan，wojianxintahaowuyiwenlianyimiaozhongdoubuyuangenniduodai。

5.探听女生的收益和花销

nanshengkeyibuyoumogaoxiao，keshiniyidingyaolejiexiangqindeqingkuangxiashenmewentikeyiwen，naxiewentijinliangbuyaowen。

youyixiewenti，henyoukenengnizijiganjuemeiyoushenme，jinjinxiangzhangwolejiebale，danquehuiranglingyifanghendichu。

yeyourenshuo，xiangqingenchuduixiangbuyiyang，xiangqinbianshizhaoyigeshihederenguorizi，yincizhangwolingyifangdezijinzhuangkuangshilisuoyingdangde。

nvshengdeshouyihehuaxiaobushibunengwen，ninengweiwande、genjulejielingyifangdegongzuoqingkuanglaidagaizhangwo，zheiyeshikeyide。danshizuihaoshiyeshidengnimenzaoyijianguojihuimian，xianghuzhijianjiaoweilejieyidianyihouzaiwen。

jiarunimenshidiyicijianmian，niyejiulijidiwentadeshouyihehuaxiaoduoshaoqian，lingyifanghuiganjueniguoduyongsu、shiji。

6.对女生毛手毛脚

xiangqinshizenmezuoshibuhaode？youyixienanshenghenxihuangenyixingpengyouyoushentishangdechupeng，lirumonvshengdexiufa、painvshengdejiantou、lounvshengdeyao。

chufeishinimenshiyingxiangshifenqinmiwujiandehaopengyou，yaoburandabufendenvshengdoushihuiduinidezheizhongxingweihendichu，zheizhendebingbushichuantongbubaoshoudewenti。

xiangqindeqingkuangxia，bicibicizhijianhaibuzhangwo，genlurenmeiyoushenmeliangzhong，zheiyangdeshiqingxianiyejiuduinvshengmaoshoumaojiaode，jiusuanshimoyixiaxiaoshouxiaojiao，yehuirangtaganjuenizheigerenhenzhanhuarecao，henqingtiao，naizhihuiganjuenishizaishuawulai。

7.过度显摆自身

zainanshengzuirangnvshengfangandeshouduanzhong，jiaoaozidakendingshangbangle。

youdenanshenggerenganjuetaiguoyouliang，zaijiaoliudelichengzhongyizhigaotankuolun，buduanxianbaizishendegongzuo、jiashi，naizhishilianaishi。

tongchangzheileinanshengbingbushiguoduziyiweishi，bianshiguodubuzixin，yincicaibixukaoxuanyaozijilaizhegaimouyifangmiandebugou。

xiangqindeqingkuangxia，nanshengliaozishendegongzuo、jiashishikeyide，danruguonishiyiyizhongzhigaoqiangdezhuangtai、yuqilaigennvshengshuozheizhongshier，huiranglingyifangganjuenishiqiaobuqita，huozheganjuenirenweitashiyigezhizhuzhongwuzhidenvxing。

xiangqinduixiangzuirangrenfangandexingweixianzaiyousuolejieleba。xiangqin，benjiushilianggebutonggetiderenburenshiderenzaijiyuanqiaohezhixiadejianmianxiangshi，wulunzhihoushifoukeyichengjiuzheiduanjiayuan，jianmiandeshihouhaishiyinggaizhuyixiayixieyanxingjuzhi，haikeyiliuxiayigehaodeyinxiang，jishibunengxianglianxiangai，huoxuhainengchengweipengyouni？