因为第三个人，男人变心怎么做的呢

 qianbujiuyoubuyouqihuodedianshiju《humamaoba》，budanbahaizijiaoyunantituishangqulelangjian，lingwaiyebadisanzhenantiyanyidehanchanglinli。dongjiebanyandedisanzhetanglin，nanrenbianxinkeweishiyiweishishizaizaidesichanlandadedisanzhe，aishishenmeniyingduizheibanqiangjingdedisanzhe，dajiagaizenyangyingduinanchulidedisanzheni?

zaiganleneimeduoqingganzixundejibenshang，jinriwohuizongyixiayingduidisanzhedesigeshifangfa。

1、要尽早刚开始行動

 yingduidisanzhe，xianglainanrenhemeinvxiangdequanshiwoyaoying，woyidingyaojibaidisanzhe，neimaruhezhengqueyingduidisanzhe?zaijutiquanguochengzhong，daliangdenanrenhemeinvdoushihuiqudanxin：woyingbuyinggaiqujibai，jishiwoyingle，danshiyoushangbazai，dajianeiyangxialaiqueshihuixingfukuailema?ruguowomendaizhuneiyangdegujiqugendisanzhedou，neidajiabishuwuyi。jiurubahebisai，lingyifangzaoyizaijiejinquanlidezaifuhelvle，erzishenbudanmeiyoufuhelv，rengzaixianzaizishendedanxinzhong，neiyanglingyifangzaoyihuosheng。

 lingyifangquanqiuchuxianledisanzhe，dajiahuimishi，huiwunai。nanrenbianxinjiurudajiabenmeiyoubixubaomingcanjiazheicifujiadebahebisai，queyeyouxiaohaonengliangquzhengdebenyingguishuyuzishendewupin，dajiaziranhuibugaoxing。keshibugaoxingguibugaoxing，womenqushouhaoguishuyuzishendewupincaishiyingdaoli。yinci qingshanggaodenvrenyingduidisanzhe，diyizhaoshijinzaoquzhengdelingyifang，erbushiqudanxin。

2、多给另一方太阳而不是雨打风吹

 xuduo nvxingfaxianzishendenanshengyoudisanzheyihou，jingchangyouerzhongtiaoxuan：diyilijiqumiediaodisanzhe，dierdaidongqinyoutuanqunuduilingyifang。dajianeiyanggenju“baolixingwei”quranglingyifanghehaoruchutongchangzuihoudouyibuchenggonggaochang。dagexingrong，rujinnidenanrenchuanshangledisanzhedewaiyi，niyaoshitatuoxia，danshitaleng，nishitatuotabianhuituoma?nanshengwangwanghuichuxiandisanzhe，doushiyouyutamenyixieyaoqiumeiyouhuodekaolv，tamencaihuiqubiedediquzhaoxun。jiurutaleng，tachuanshangtarenyifukuzile。

 nilijiquzhaodisanzherangtachechu，jiurunijiangtayifukuziqiangzhituodiao，tabudanburongyituodiao，huoxuweilegenghaodibaohuhaozijidewaitaofandaosunhaini。jiaruniqulaqinyoutuanqunuduilingyifang，jiurujitamendeyifushangsashui，qidailingyifangkanzaiyifukuzizaoyishitouledefenshang，suihoutuoxia。(fajuezhangfuchugui，qiewuyoukuyounao，neiyangzuo，7tianwanjiuhunyin，qiadangwanliufangshijiaganqingzixunguwenshoujiweixin：813656726)

 danshineiyangzongshiranglingyifanggengleng，gengburongyiqutuoxialingyigenvrendewaiyi。jiaruzheishihou，dajianengjilingyifangdequanqiuchanshengyixietaiyang，lingyifangwennuanle，shunlichengzhangbianhuijianjiandiqutuoxiatarendeyifukuzi。yinci zaiwomenfaxianlingyifangyoudisanzheshi，hebujingxiaxinlaixiangyixiang，lingyifangshenmedifang“lengle”，bixuzishenquwennuanle。

jibaidisanzhedesigejueji-yingduidisanzhedefangshi

3、不把自己另一半往外推

 yiqianyouyigehenwennuandegushi：yiweimeimaodenvshichuxianyiwaiyongyouhunhouchuguibeilaogongzhuagezhengzhe，huijialehouhenzizeneijiu，henqidailaogongnenggoukuanrongzishen，danfeichangdanxinzishendelaogongburongyikuanrongzishen。huijialehou，xifushuo：“xiwangninengqingyuanliangwo”。laogongshuo：“neimeniwubidezaoshouchufa”。xifushi：“naxiechufawohaixiangyaoshou”。laogongshuo：“woxiangchengfaniweiwozuoyibeizidefan。”

 suihoutamenxingfukuailedexiangyongzaiyiqile。youyixiangbaodaoxianshixinxi：diyiciyouhunhouchuguideren，87%derenzuichuquanshikuijiuyukuijiude，lingwaiyeqidaizaicifanhuizhiqiandejia，qidaihuodekuanrong。yinci zaiwomenfaxianlingyifangyoudisanzhehou，yikaishilingyifanghuanshihenqidaihuodekuanrong，zaicifanhuijiali。zheishihou，dajiabubiouqijiubalingyifangwangwaitui，aishishenmenilazhelazhejiuzaojiuledisanzhe。zheishihou，hebuxuehuifangxiaqingmian，xianjienalingyifang，dengguoqulezheiduanshijian，zaihelingyifanghaohaodidequhuifuzheiyiduanguanlian。