nanrenhuiguijiatingxiaosanruhewanhui,zaizheigechongmanyinyouyujianyandeshiqi,hunyinshenghuozheichuaideguchengbaoyoushihouyehuizaoshoufengchuiyudaqinxi。dangyigenanrenbuxiaoxinbaituohunyinshenghuodejiexian,budanshanghaidaozhiaidelaopo,yeqinzizaitamenzhijianzhuqileyidukanbudaodeqiang——xinlaidetanta。danshi,renshengzongshituilu,zhongdianzaiyuniyuanbuyuanyifuzhunuliquxiufuneiyifensunhuaideqingxu。jinri,neijiurangwomenyizixinwenmeitiqinggandashidejiaodu,jineixiegaiguozixindenanrenmenzhidianyier,gongxiangzhongjianxinren、wanhuiqizixinwubuduice。bingbujinjinshiyichangwanliuduijue,gengshiyicixinlingshenchudezhongshengzhilv!
一、真心实意悔改:破冰之旅的第一步

wanquanchengrencuowu,buzhaojiekou
xiangwanhuixifudeneixin,shouxianxuyaochengrenzijidecuowu,erqieshizhenxinshiyihuigai。buyaoqingyiyongrenhejiekoulaiweizijidechuguibianjie,liru“yishichongdong”、“sajiufeng”deng。jilao,tuocihuirangnicuowuxiandegengbukeraoshu。zhenxinchengyijienazijideguoshi,shizhongjianxinrendediyibu。
renzhenfansi,zhaodaogenbenyuanyin
zairencuodeqiantixia,womenxuyaorenzhenfansizishenchuguideyuanyin。shiyouyuhunyinlidemouxiewentimeiyoudedaojiejue?yeshiyinweibenrenneixinshenchudekumenhebuman?zhaodaowentidebenzhi,bujinnengbangzhunigenghaodelejieziji,yekeyiweihouxudegoutongyugenggaidiandingjichu。
积极沟通,表示歉意
xuanzeyigeheshidejihui,heqizijinxingshenrudegoutongjiaoliu。bubibitamashangjieshounizhiqian,fanershiyaojitachongzukongjianheshijianquxiaohuaqingxu。zaijiaoliuzhong,yaozhenxinchengyibiaodazijiqianjiuhekuijiu,rangtaganshoudaonidechengyiheyongqi。
二、全透明行为:重建信任的重要前提
quanfangweitiaoming,meiliumanbao
xuyaozhongjianxinren,jiuyidingyaozuodaoquanfangweitiaoming。buyaoqingyimanbaorenhexijie,napashinijuedemiaoxiaode。jilao,xinlaidoushijiyuyichengxiangdaidejichuzhishang。dangnizhenzhengxiangyaobayiqiedoutanzaitaiyangdixia,laopocainengzhujianxuehuifangxiaxinlidegulv。

jijishangbao,chuangjianxinrenjizhi
zairichangrichangshenghuo,jijixiangqizishangbaozishenxingchenghefazhanqushi。liru,daonaqu、jianshei、ganshenmedeng。zheibujinnengrangtaganshoudaonidechengyi,yekeyimanmangoujianqiyizhongxinrenjizhi。yongzheizhongfangshi,ninengxiangqidaibiaoniyijinggaibianle,bingyuanyiweilenengzhongjianxinrenerfuzhunuli。
zunzhongyinsi,jiyushineikongjian
jinguanquantoumingxingweizhiguanzhongyao,danshiyeyaozhongshilaopodeyinsihesirenkongjian。buyaoguofenganyutadeshenghuohegongzuo,jitachongzudesuiyiyukongjianqujiejuezijidexinqingheshiwuguanli。jilao,xinlaishishuangxiangde,dangnizhenzhengxiangyaoxinrentashi,tacaikeyigengxiangyaorenkeni。
三、改变自己:从内到外的成长
提升自己,提高风采
waiyudaduoshiyinweibenrenneixinshenchudekumenhebumandaozhide。yiner,xiangwanhuixifudeneixin,jiubixucongtigaozijizhujian。bulunshixuexixinjineng、peiyuxinxingquaihao,huoshidiaozhengzijidewaizaixingxiang,douhuirangnibiandeyuelaiyueyouqizhi。zheizhonggaibianbudanshiwanhuita,yeshiweilechengweiyigezuihaodeziji。
克服缺点,提升关联

zaifansihuanjiezhong,nikenengyijingfaxianlezijideyixiequedianyubuzu。neiyang,xianzaishijiuzhengtamendeshihoule。bulunshixinggefangmiankuangzao、lansan,haishishenghuozhongshangdehuaixiguan,douxuyaonulidequjiuzheng。tongguodiaozhengzishen,nihainengrangfuqiguanxiyuelaiyuegenghexie。
倾听,了解要求
zaihunyinshenghuozhong,lingtingyulijieshihenzhongyaode。xiangwanhuixifudeneixin,neijiuxuyaoqingtingtadeganshouyuxuqiu,bingbuduanqudongta。dangnizhenzhengshenrulejietadeneixinshijieshi,cainenggenghaodedadaotajingshenxuqiu,jinerrangqizaiciduiniyourentongheyikao。
四、情感投入:用实际行动证实情意
制造浪漫,追忆烂漫
xiangwanhuixifudeneixin,neijiuxuyaozaijingshenshangduofuchuyixie。liru,jitazhizaoyixiexiaolangman、xiaojingxi,rangtaganshoudaonideqingyiheguanai。zheizhongyiwaijingxinengshiyishuxianhua、yifenliwu、yiciliangrenyuehuideng。zhongyaodeshiyaorangtaganshoudaonideyongxinhezhencheng。
共同活动,促进感情
duocanyuyixieyitonghuodong,liruyiqilvxing、yiqikandianying、yiqizuofandeng。zheizhonghuodongbujinnengzengjinnimendeganqing,hainengrangnimenzhongshicongqiandepeihemoqihehuanle。zaigongtongguochengzhong,nikeyigenghaodelejietadexihaoyaoqiu,yekeyirangtaganshoudaonidepeibanheguanai。
zhichiheguli,yiqichengzhang
nanrenhuiguijiatingxiaosanruhewanhui,zaihunyinshenghuozhong,bicilijiehezhichishihenzhongyaode。xiangwanhuixifudeneixin,jiuxuyaozaitaxuyaoshidaijitachongzudelijiehezhichi。bulunshitadeshiyehuoshigerentishengcengmian,douxuyaochengweitajianqiangdehoudun。genjuyitongjinbuyuchengzhang,nimenzhijiandeganqingyehuibiandegengjiajiangu。
五、长久细心:重建信任的艰难之旅
duoyidiannaixin,bujiaobuzao
zhongjianxinrenshiyigemanzhangjiannandeguocheng,xiangyaoniyouzugoudenaixinhehengxin。buyaoqidaimashanghuodelaopodekuanrongherenke,fanershiyaojitachongzukongjianheshijianquxiaohuaqingxu、manmanjieshounigenggai。zaizheiguochengzhong,nixuyaobaochilixinghelixing,bieyinyishidecuobaierfangqile。
不断努力,不断发展
zhongjianxinrenbushiyicuerjiudeshier,fanershixiangyaonichixudiqinfen。bulunshitishengziji、kefuquedian,huoshiqinggantouru、zhizaolangman,douxuyaochizhiyihengdijixuxiaqu。dangnizhenzhengtouruchongzudenulihehanyeshi,cainenghuodeneiyifennannengkeguiderentongheganqing。
珍惜机会,不再犯
zuizhong,yaohaohaozhenxiciciwanliudejiyu。jilao,chuguishiduihunyinheaiqingdejudaweihai,shiduizijiyutarenbufuzerendetaidu。ruguonizhendexiangyaowanhuiqizideneixin,jiuxuyaoaixizheigejihui,qinfenjiuzhengzijidewenti,erqiebuzaifan。weiyouruci,nicainengzuodaozhenzhenghuodetarentonghezhongshi。
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