到底出现第三个人，男人变心怎么做

 zaiganqingli，wulunshinanshihuanshinvshi,jibenshangmeiyigerendoujienabushangganqingdepanbian。aishishenmeniganqinglingrenxingfukuaile,danbeipandeai,queshitongchude。nanrenbianxindangganqingzaoshoudisanzheyinggaizenmebanni?

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遭受第三者应该怎么办-应对第三者的方式

 keshouzishenzuoweizhengqideyouyiyingxiangli。hewaibiandedisanzheduibi，zishizhizhongyaoganjuezishenbuguancongganqing、shehuifazhanhuanshicongshijianluojixingshangmianzhanjinletianshidili。yibanzhuangkuangxia，yaoshinengjishizhuazhunyouyidimao，busuibianqichenggongji，ruoshiyishouweigongdehua，daduoshushinenggouchenggongde。pajiupazheixieqiankaolv，wangtuqidai“yiqingdongren”he“yiqipoyaren”deren，biaocengshanglaikannenggougaoshengrangyiliangju，zhaolaiyixierendekanrenao，huodejigerendelianminheshiyong，shijishangtaquesangshigengweiguanjiandeyigerenhegengweiguanjiandeyigeyingxiangli，zheigerenbianshinidelingyiban，zheiyiyingxianglibianshitazuoweizhengqidehaoranhebaorong。zheibanyinao，yanzhiyoulijiubianchenglebuli，zhengdangfangweijiubianchenglejingong，buliangyingxiangtongchangshirenweiyinsunanyicaozongde。

 zhangfuyoudisanzheyinggaizenmeban?jiaruniyaowanliunidezhangfu，yidingyaozhibizhijicaikeyibaizhanbaisheng。nideqingxinidedirenshinaxiede，ta/tayoushenmezhuanzhang，jinerjueceniruhequjiejue。xianeryijian，jiejuedeshizuiyouxiaodefangshibianshixuexipeixun。xiangyigeyinyouzishennanpengyou/nvpengyoudedisanzhequxuexi，huoxubiaocengshangkanlaishiyizhongcanren，shijishangqueshiyizhongconghuiheziwofansi。renwuwanrenjinwuzuchi?congguzhijinrenfeishengxian，yaoshishiduizishenyouxiaode，nengtishengzijide，shijishangxiangsuoyourenxuexipeixunyebuquru。

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