被第三者怎么办

 disanzhe shishenmeyisi，“disanzhe”zheilianggeziqishiyouruguojielaoshu，renrenhanda。xianshishenghuozhongzhiyaoyigenvrenbeiguanshang“disanzhe”demaozi，neimecishengjiuhuibeifuzheyongyuanyexibuqingdezuiniele。yinci，dangfaxianzijibeidisanzhele，yinggaizenmezuoduizijicaishideni？

一、第三者是什么意思

 disanzhe，shitongguohulianwangerliuxingqilaideyigeci，shiduidisanzhedemiecheng。disanzhezaizhongguofalvshangdehanyishizhineixiebeiqidaodesanguan，jinpingzijidegerenxihao，siyichazutarende qinggan shenghuo，pohuaiyuanyoufuqijiatingguanxideren。

二、被第三者怎么办

1、果断分手

 ruguobuxiaoxinfaxianlenanyoude“mimi”，guoduanfenshouwuyishinidiyishijianyaozuodezhengquexuanze。youdenvhaihuiyouyouyuyu，zaifaxianbeidisanzhehou，kutianhandi，beitianminren，ranhouzainanrendeyanleihe“huihen”zhongtuoxie，chengweixinganqingyuandedisanzhe，danzuihoudejiejuquecanburendu。

2、做回真正的自己

 aiqingbushibeiweide， aiqing yinggaishiguangmingzhengdade，buyaorangzijizaiqingganliduoluo。zhideaiderenwomenkeyiquai，buzhideaiderenjiuyinggaiguoduandefangqi，buyaozongrongzijideganqing，rufeiepuhuobanbuguyiqiedequaiyigenibunengaideren，yinweidaozuihoubiantilinshangdezhishiniziji。

3、把握自己

 henduonvhaiyinweishoubuleshiliandetong，beidisanzhedehen。yincikenengjingshenshoudaociji，biandeshichang。zaizheilixiaobianquanjiemeiyiweinvhai，peiyangzixin，bawoziji，rangzijiyouyigehualidezhuanshen，zhiyaoyongxin，shenghuolidaochudouchongmanlequ，shenghuoyebingbushiyinweiyoumeiguicaihuimeili。

4、fangqiheqieduanyiqiehetayouguanliandeshiwuhuoguanxi

 fenshoujiuyaochedi，bujizijihetarenliunianxiang。suiranzhidaozijibeidisanzhele，danyebuyaoyouzijishoupianshangdangle，yaobaofudengdengdexiangfa。bijingaishilianggerendeshi，taxihuanni，niyexihuanguota，zhishishijiancuoleeryi。neimejiucidazhu，jijijiankangdixunzhaoxiayiduanzhengquedelianaihuigenghao。