遭遇老公出轨，老公出轨了妻子的聪明做法

 laogongchuguileqizidecongmingzuofa，meilideaiqinghexingfuzhangjiudehunyin，shimeigenvrenyishengdeqidai！danzaixianshishenghuozhong，youshishiyuyuanwei。

 suizheshehuiheshenghuodefazhan，womenmianlinzheyuelaiyueduodewaibuyouhuo。chuguihebeipanbuzaizhishitingshuoeryi。congyikaishidejiaoshuidaozuihoudebaitouxielao，zheigeguochengxuyaofuqishuangfanggongtongjingyingheceshi。raner，youxierenkenenghuibantuerfei，xiache。

 yigenvrendeshenghuo，ruguonixiangshuozuidadebianhua，kenenglaizitadeqingrendechugui。zheishihunyindepolie，huidaozhijiatingbuxing，jinvxingxinlidailaigengdadedaji。suoyi，dangwomenzaoshouzheizhongbeipanshi，congmingdeqiziyinggaixuehuizheiyangzuo！

一、调整好心态

 dangwomenzhidaowomendezhangfuzaichuguishi，kuqitongchangshiwanjiuzheiduanhunyinzuiyuchundefangshi，ercongmingdeqiziyongyuanbuhuizheiyangzuo。yinweizheizhihuizengjianizhangfuduinidejihua，zengjianidetongku。

 womendouzhidao，dangqizizaoshouzhangfuchuguizaochengdeyanzhongqingxusunhaishi，tahuiyougezhonggeyangdeshenxinfanying、fennu、shanghai、fennuheqitaqingxuchongmantadexin。

 zheiyishiqideqiziwangwangbuzhidaozijixiangyaoshenme，lihunhaishiwanjiuhunyin？yinci，womenxuyaojizijiyiduanshijianlaihuanchong，chuliwomendeshoushangfanying，dengdaowomendeqingxupingjingxialai，ranhoulixingdisikaohezuochujueding。

 xintaijuedingchengbai，ruguonihennandiaozhengxintai，baochilengjing，neimewomenjianyinikeyizhaoyigezhuanyedexinlizixunpingtailaizuoqingganzixun。

二、不借题发挥

 dangtamenfaxianzijidezhangfuzaichuguishi，xuduorenzongshiliyongzheigehuati，yinweitamendezhangfuweizijigandaonanguo，shiyongta，shenzhizemataduizijidebuzhong，zheiwangwanghuidaozhigengzaodehouguo。

 laogongchuguileqizidecongmingzuofa，zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，womenjianyibuyaojiyuchengfatahuoyutazhenglun，yinweiruguozhangfuchuguizhishiweilexunqiusuoweideciji，huozhetabeidisanfanghunxiaoleyiduanshijian，tameiyoulihundexiangfa，yidantadeqizizheiyangzuo，tahuigandaoyane，shenzhixuanzejixubeipan，yibaofu，suoyitaliniyuelaiyueyuan。

 yinci，liyongzheigehuatibushiyigemingzhidezuofa。shouxian，womenyinggaibawomendejiatingzhaogudejingjingyoutiao，haohaozhaoguwomendejiating，duoguanxinta，hetajiaotan，rangtajinkuaihuijia，rangtazhidaojialiyourenzaidengta。rangtaganshoudaojiadewennuan，taziranhuimingbai。

三、反省自己

 zhangfudechuguixingweiyeshihunyinwentideyizhongbiaoxian，hunyinwentideyuanyinwangwangshiduoyangde，womendouyouyidingdezeren。zaixianshishenghuozhong，xuduochuguizhangfudeqiziwangwangzhihuimangmudizhizedisanfanggouyinzhangfu，pohuaijiating。dangran，disanfangshikechide，danwomenyoumeiyouxiangguo，weishenmeyijingjiehundezhangfuhuixuanzemaoxianchugui？

 ruguoqizihezhangfuzhijiandeguanxizhenderuciwanmei，neimewuketiaoti，jishidisanfangdejingonghenjilie，womenyebunengcanyuwomendehunyinhejiating。yinci，congmingdeqizibingbuzongshirenweizijishishouhaizhe。

 zaizhangfuchuguihou，tamenhuifanshengziji。zhengshiyinweihunyinzhongqueshaoleshenme，zhangfucaihuixiangzaiwaimianxunqiuanwei。jingguofansi，tamenhaikeyizhaodaojiejuewentidefangfalaigaishanhunyinguanxi。

四、不要产生报复心理

 yidanrenmenyudaorangtamentongkudeshiqinghuoren，tamenwangwanghuiyoubaofuxinli。youqishichuguiduinvxingyouqiyouhai。youxieqizikenenghuishiqulizhi，yongyachibaofuzhangfu，rangtagandaotongkuheshanghai。

 ciwai，bulizhideqizijingchanghengchongzhizhuang，dadianhuajinggao，ruma，shenzhichandirendegenjudi，dadisanfang。womenyinggaizhidao，disanfangzhisuoyinenggouganyuwomendehunyin，wangwangshiyinweitanenggoumibuqizideyixiebuzu，biruwenroutitie。

 yinci，qizicongmingdezuofayinggaishizaizhangfuchuguihoubiaoxianchushoushang、yiyudengquedian，yinqizhangfudeneijiuhetongqing，erbushimangmusikaoruhebaofu。

五、重塑信任感

 dangchuguishijianfashengshi，qingbuyaomangmudizhuazhuzhangfudecuowu，gengbuyongshuowuruzhangfu、baoyuanheqitaxingweile。yinweishiqingyijingfazhandaozheiyidian，zheixiexingweishihaowuyiyide。womenyinggaishizhejiduifangyigejihuilaizhongsunimenzhijiandexinren。

 womenyinggaixiangxin，jishishishiquxinrendehunyin，yekenengyouyigexindexiufuri。jutizenmezuo？zheiqujueyunimengezidexingdong。

 laogongchuguileqizidecongmingzuofa，yinci，qingbuyaodanxinduifangzuoleshenmeduibuqizijideshi。yigecongmingdeqiziyinggaizhidaorenmenyinggaizoudegenggao，zheiyangcainengzhongxinjianlixinrengan，nidehunyinyongyuanbuhuilikai，yebuhuizoudegengyuan。