男人不主动联系你未必是不爱了，如果男朋友不主动联系你怎么办

 yongyouaibingbuyiweizhezheizhongaihuiyizhibansuizheni。yudaoainidenanrenbingbuyiweizhetahuiyizhiaini。renshishanbiande。womenyaozuodeshibuyaowangjiguanchaaiqingzaiaiqingzhongdebianhua。ruguonanpengyoubuzhudonglianxinizenmeban？

zhengruyourensuoshuo：“aiqingjiuxiangcaifu，kaomingyunzhilun，tazongshizaijuliedeshangxiadianbozhong。”

ruguonirenweinidedaoleai，nikeyiyilaoyongyidixiangshouaiqingdetianmihexingfu，zuizhongdejieguohuirangnishiwanghenanguo。

 zainvrendexinzhong，tamenzongshiqidaizheyongyouyiduanlingrenxianmudeaiqing，yongyuanbeinanrensuoaihechonghuai。jishinizailushangyudaolehenduofenqihemaodun，niyekeyijiandingdibaochizheifenai。

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 qishinvrenyeyaozhidao，nanrenbuzhudonglianxini，buyidingshiyinweibuaini，danyidingshiyanjuanlezheizhongganjue，suoyimeiyouyiqianneimereqing。

爱情过了新鲜期，男人的热情自然会消退

 womenjingchangtingdaoyixienvrenshuo：“nanrenzhendehenshanbian。dangtamenzhuiruaiheshi，tamenhuizaigegefangmianfucongheniaini。jiehunhou，tamenbuzaixiangyiqianneiyangxixinle，yebuhuihuataiduoxinsi”。

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爱情需要共同管理，而不是一个人的努力

yourenshuo：“aiqingshilianggerenzhijiangongtongdejingli。”

jinguanzaiaiqingzhong，nvrenhuixiwangnanrenyongyuanshizhudongdeyifang。nengzhudonglianxita，zhudongweitafuchu，zhudongguanlizheifenaiqing。

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 yourenyeshuo：“aiqinghehuoyanyiyang，meiyoubuduandeyundongjiubunengjixucunzai，yidantatingzhilexiwanghekongju，tadeshengmingjiuhuitingzhi。”

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aiqing，xuyaodeshiyizhibaochiheguanli，ruguozhangqihushita，aiqingyehuifamei，hennanyizhibaochinixinzhongdeyangzi。

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 ruguonanpengyoubuzhudonglianxinizenmeban？zaiaiqingzhong，nvrenyinggaimingbai，ruguoyigenanrenbuzhudonglianxini，takenengbuhuiaini，dantayidinghuiyanjuan。ruguonvxingrangzheizhongzhuangtaijixufazhan，jiuhennanbaochiaiqing。