不顾一切的爱有哪些？谁是你的老板

 bunengshuodeaiyoushenmeni？zhenduiwenjingnvshengeryan，yidanpengdaomouyixinaidenanren，tatongchanghuizaizishenshenghuozhongyixiexiangduixingzhucideshiershangzuochutuoxie。tahuizhongzhiyiguandepingshizhutihuodong：yibutanwangpenyou，yibubaomingcanjiayujiapeixunban，libaitianyeyibudayumaoqiu。tayibujiangshijianhuazaizishenhuanshigukulingdingshisuozuodezheixieshiershang。xiabianbianshitadehaobuzaiyi：neimebuguyiqiedeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbukesiyideaidewenzhangba。

·tachexiaojianfadeyuding——weilegenghaodiyutayouhui

·taxiabanleyihouyibuqujianshenhuisuo——suishisuiditiqianzhunbeijianta

·tayibubaomingcanjiapengyoujucan——weilegenghaodituxiantayouduomedebutongxunchang，tayibuchupengbiedenanren

·tachexiaofanganyiyiyouyutayoukenengshoudaotadedianhua

·tayibuquanshenguanzhuyukeye——youyutachixuchaxunshibushiyoutafaguolaidexinxi

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·tasheqizishendegongzuo——weilegenghaodishiyongta，shitadegongzuogengshangyicenglou

 ·tabaqidaijiyuzailianggerenzhongjiandeguanlianshang，yibuyoubiedexiangfa——bunengshuodeaiyoushenmeni？youyutaweiyidelixiangjiushita

 “huai”nvxingzeburongyibaituozishendejiben，yinertaburongyixiangwenjingnvshengneibansheqizishendepingshifenpei，shizishendeshenghuoshidiao。

风采规律43

 jiarunideshenghuoguilvxingbeibaituo，neimanimianbulehuizaochengshiluogan。niyejiuhuigangkaishixiwangbingguidingnideairentourudaliang，yimibunisheqideshineikongjian。

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 zheihaoxiangyekeyi，shiba?shijishangquebingbushizheiyang。zheiyiwenjingnvshengzaisheqitaxiaideshier，ertasheqizheizhongzhutihuodongcongmouzhongyiyishangyebiaomingletadexinxinshuiping。tatongchangshiyouyudanxinlingyifangtaoyanzishenrujindemoyang，yinci caisheqiyixiewupin。

 chucizhiwai，bansuizhesheqidezhutihuodongmanmanzengjia，zuihouyezaocheng letadezhongtedazhuanbian。dangnanrenzaimouyishikezhuyidaozheiyidian，tabianhuiduitasangshixingquaihao，youyutabitagengzaodiyishidao，tazaoyiqueshilezishendezijuexing。

 neimataqueshizijuexingyihouhuizaochengnaxiedejieguoni?shiwomentaolunyixiafangqilewudaoheyumaoqiudepileisishadeganqingdiguo。tashuo：“dajiajibenshangyiqiduguoyizhouzhongdemeiyigeyeli，bingqiejibenshangshilikejiushenxianzheileiqingkuangde。tabingmeiyougenwoshuozheizhenduitaeryan‘taiduole’。tajinjinbutaixiao，kanshangqufangfobugaoxingdemoyang。woyulaiyujuedezaodongbuan，yincigengweiqijingdizhuyaobiaoxianwoduiwoduinideai。wozhiqidaitanengfanhuizuichudeyangzi，

风采规律44

dabufennvxingqipanhuodenanrenbixujiaojitamenzijidewupin。

 zaiwenjingnvshenglaikan，tasheqimouleiwupinshiweilegenghaodihuodegengqiangdeshouyi，yiner，tafangqileduizishenshenghuodejuecequan。shubuzhi，dangtaqidaihuodeshouyideshikelailinzhiji，quetongchangyixinhanerjieshu。zheishitabujinyipinruxi，bingqiezaoyishenxinpibei。

 nanrenfeichangshaoyishidaowenjingnvshengdaodiweitafangqileshiduoshao。taburongyiyouyuwenjingnvshengyiqianweilegenghaodihetazaiyiqidiaojieletadeshenghuoguilvxing，jiuzuochuyiyangdefangqi。dangwenjingnvshengfangqilezishenshenghuodesuoyoushi，tabianhuiguidingnanrenyezuochuyiyangdetuoxie。taqidaitayibuqutanwangqinrenhepenyou，qidaitahetahuanduquanbuxiuxianshiguang。jiarutaqujianshenhuisuo，tahuiguidingyitongqianqu。

 er“huai”nvxingburongyirangnanrenjuedezheileigongzuoyali，bukesiyideai,yinertahuiqidaizishenpeizaitashenpangdeshijiannengduoyidian，erbushishaoyidian。tazhongshita，youyutakanshangquyou“zishendeshenghuo”。tangruoyigehundanbeinvpengyougaozhi，tayeliyouyuyaoqubaomingcanjiameizhouyicidetaoyipeixunbanerbukeyiyutayouhui，tayidinghuinaozhetoufaxiang：“nandaoshuotaningyuanqugudaozheixielanniba，yebukenhewozaiyiqi?”zheibujinzaochengtadexingquaihao，bingqiehuishitajijingyayoujidong。

在男人的眼里，出自于对生活的如愿以偿而不容易摆脱自身路轨的女性，看上去要更有归属感。

 jiaruninengbaozhengbuguanshibushihetazaiyiqidouhenxiaishenghuodehua，buguyiqiedeai,tacaihuijieshoubingaixineiyangdeyigeni。