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 bunengshuodeaiyoushenmeni？buguanzaishenmeshihou，yigenvrenguoduqingxubuwendinghuominganduoyi，bianhuirangnanrenwufarenshou，youqishiduibushihenlejiedenvxing。nvxingyuefadulaiduwang，nanrenjiuyuehuiganjuefeichangrongyijiaowang。zheileizhuangkuangleisinanrenzhongjianyikouqiyulaiyuqiangshidejiaotan。neimebuguyiqiedeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbukesiyideaidewenzhangba。

 yiweinanxingjuleyigefeichanghaodeshili，shuomingnanrenshizenyangbeiminganduoyi、qingxubuwendingdetanxintanhuaneironghedejinghuangshicuode，youqishizaiguanlianyikaishidehuanjie，gengfeichangrongyizheiban。tashuodao，zaijiedaoyiweiganglejiemeiduojiudenvxingfaguolaideduozhanglingrengandongdeshengrikayihou，taliuzhidaji。

 lingyigeshilishi，youyiweinanxingyizhipobudeyitingyigeganglejiedenvxingweitabeishi。tashuodao：“zheixieshihaoxiangyizhituodeneimazhang，yeshiyouyixieduandequekuzaowuwei，keshitamendoushiyouyigexiangtongdian，neibianshidoudaiyouquyuedeyuyi，biru‘aizhenigengjiashenru’，huoshi‘aizaiwoxinzhongfangun，pengzhuangwodexiongkou’deng。bingqietameiyicizaixuedeqingkuangxiadoushihuidadongdebaotoutongku，yinciwogangkaishijinkenengtaobitadedianhuale。”

yeyouweinanxingxushuleyuyigeganglejie3zhoudenvxingyouhuidelijing。tashuodao：

 “nanrenbuyongtingyigenvrenmeiguosanshimiaozhongbianshuoyicitaaita，erzheiyinvxingquefanlaifanqudizhishuozheijuhua。woganjuezishenjiuhaoxiangzaiheyizhibuduandishuo‘aizheni——aizheni——aizheni——aizheni——aizheni’dexiaoyingwuyouhui!”

 nanrenmenyehuirenzhenguanchashibushinizaiguoduqinfendizijintouruyifenqinggan。bunengshuodeaiyoushenmeni？nidexianmokafeizhuozishifoufangzhe12benmiaohuimianchandeaiqingxiaogushidexiaoshu?shibushinizaiwangzhidejiaopengyoupindaoshangfabiaoguanggaoxuanchuan，xunzhaoyidilian?shibushiniyouyigeyouyureqingguoduerchushounidenvpengyou?

 dulaiduwangdaibiaozhenikendingbuhuibazijigaodejingpilijie。dangyigenanrenjuedeniyizhizaiguoduzijintouruzheiyifenqinggandeqingkuangxia，duitalaijiangtiaozhanzijiriqiwanbi。yidannibujingyizhongshenxianlezheileiqingkuang，yaoxiangshitahehaoruchu，jiuwubixiangtashuomingnikendingbuhuiyiweididenghou。jinizishendeshenghuo，jinibiedebixuyouxianxuanzekaolvdaodeshier，zaiqizhongyixieshiernaizhibitagengguanjian。

每每你一再告白你已经献上自身的所有时，你就是在“跳铁圈”。

 ·zaidajiadiyiciyuehuiyiqian，buyaozaidianhuazhongyiliaobianshihenduozhongtou。ninengsuiyikaiyiliangjuwanxiaohua，zhuyaobiaoxianchudulaiduwangdegongzuozuofeng，zhidingdajiapengmianshidefanganhefenpei，suihou，wenminglimaodiwanbijiaotan。

 ·zaidajiaxiangchuqianqibubitaoluntaikegumingxindenanti。bubiyingyongrangrenmengbidexinlizhiliaofangfayuhui，birufaxiezhiliaofa、quanguochengzhiliaofa、ganshouzhiliaofa、renzhiliaofadeng，bubipengdiaolizhijitang，buyaoduitashuo：“xiwangdajiadeshengmingkeyijiehezaiyiqi。”

 ·jiusuannijianxinzhanxingshu，yebuyaogaosuta：jinyoushuixingraozheyueerqiaoqiaodenuodong，raozhemuxingnixiangxingshi3zhoushi，dajiacainenggouxiangshouzaiyiqi(zaitidaomingwangxingshi，yaohuranmanxialaiyinyongkafei)。

 ·buyaogaosutaniyizhizai“yiwangshenghuo”zhongdezhuyaobiaoxian，huoshinifanganzaixiayiciaiqingshiciqingbuyi，zheihuishitajuedeyanjuan。

·zaixiangchuqianqi，fangzhilianxuhaoduogeyelidoujianta，meixingqiyouyilianggeyelikandaotajiukeyile。

 ·jiarutameiyoutongdianhua，bubizhouzhemeitouhuoshuapiqi。niyinggaishitashikecaixiangbuhetazaiyiqideqingkuangxianizaizuoshenme。jiarunidiaojiepengmianderichenganpai，bianhuishitagengqipanjianniyimian，zheihuitishengtadereqing。

 ·jiarutapeiniquyijiagaoduancanyindian，bubidianbiaocengmanshiyouheliaozhidedouyacaitiao，jiezhexiangfengniaoyiyangbatadecaipanyeyisaoerguang。danyewuxujiaolvbuanhuodanyouzishendejiucanliyijitamenliuyoubutaihaodeyinxiang，yaoyouyifenxiangyoushenghuodereqing。

·buyaozaidiyiciyongcanshi，jiuhaowubaoliudechuanjijiamengshangniziertongshiqideyiqiewushangguangronglishishijian。

 ·bubichangshijiuzhengtadequexian。wolejiedeyigenvhaiweiyigenanrenmailaiben《xiangyuexingqier》(tuesdayswithmorrie)。tajuedezheibenshunenggouxiezhutabaituochenmigongzuozhongdexinlizhuangtai。danzheibenshuyouguoduodexingweixinlixue，yinermianbulejirenguoduminganduoyideyinxiang

·dangtachulaibaomingcanjiapengyoujucanshi，nibuyaoyitongqianqu，youyunibingbuyuanbianchengzheizhongnanhaierzhongdeyiyuan。

·bubiguanzhedadeng，qiaoqiaodebachediaodaotamenjiamenkouchaxuntashibushizaijiali，yebubiyouyixunsushilaitadamenkou。

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 ·bubiyuranshangleyiqiebuliangxiguanderenyouhui，yebubizhiwangpeitabaomingcanjiajijiujigoulaixiezhuta，.shitazishenchulizishendeshierba。jiarutabukeyihaohaoaiziji，yeshizhongburongyizunzhongni。

 ·jibian shitadedianhuayouyuzhongzhongyuanyinbukeyiguadiaole，yebubilianxudahaoduogedianhuayiwang。nideshoujiliuyanbukeguodutuotarongzhangheshangganchiqing，yidingyaoyoushan、yanjianyigaiherangrenkaixin。

 ·bubilianxutuisongjifengdianziyoujian，yebubituisongpianshuguozhangdedianziyouxiangtantaoqinggan、zhengyijiqinibunengkaolvdeyaoqiudengnanti。ruguoshitajijirangnifaguolaidianziyouxiang，yewuxumeiyifengdouhuisanshimiaoneihuiying„

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·fangzhiyouyunixiangtajiubutingdiyouhui。

 ·bubijinmenchuyihouxianchaxunliuyanbanliuyan，suihoulikejitamenhuidianhua。niliyingxianwendingchulai，paogezaohuoshichonggelinyujian，chidunfan，rangzishenfangsongyixia。yizhaonizijidejiezouganfenpeishenghuo，yihouzaijitamenhuidianhua。nixuyaoshitalejiejinizishendeshenghuo，bingqiemeiridouzheiban。

 ·jiaruzaidajiayuyintonghuadeqingkuangxiayouyoudianhuadajinqu，nibuyaoshuo：“bieguadiao!wulunshei，wodoushihuixunsubatadafadiao!”ruguonifanhuiwangshangdeqingkuangxia，bubiyizhipobujidaidibaogaobodianhuazhedezhenshishenfen：“shichongwuyisheng。”

 ·bubiyouyuniyousheyouertayouzishendejusuo，jiuchangchangzouzailushangxiaohao40fenzhongqukankanta，kanjiandixingtutishizishen：congtadezhusuodaonidezhusuo，yucongnidezhusuodaotadezhusuodejianjushichedixiangtongde。yiner，bubiyouyushitalainidezhusuoerjuedeguoyibuqu。

 ·bubixiangtakenqiuqinggan。jiarutaduinibushiyiwangqingshen，bubifengshangnideqingshen。jiarutabuzaiyini，bubigengweiqinfendizhuiqiuwanmei：“qinaidede，wonengbangnituinabeibuma?”

 ·bubibianchengdianhuadenupu，bukesiyideai,bubixiangnidenvpengyoubofangshipintadeyuyinliuyanerqiepouxizaiqizhongdemeiyigeguanjiandian。niyinggaiguanxindajuyishi：tashibushijiejinquanlidizijintourunideshenghuo?zidatachuxianzainideshenghuozhong，nishibushiganjuelianghao?(yaobushineiyang，xian“kuaifang”liuyanbanliuyan，suihouan“shandiao”jian。)

·buyaozaiyouhuidediyizhoujiujilaotadelianxidianhua，erqieyizhibotadedianhua，suihouguadiao。tahuicaizhongjiushini。

·jiarutaxinqingyumen，zhaoyigetuociquzuozhenshidezijideshier。

 ·zuizhongyaodeshi，nixuyaojiejinsuonenglaizhongdianguanzhunizijideshenghuo。jinyouneiyang，zaitalaikannicaisuanshizhenshidedulaiduwang。

niwubibimian zishenxianruliusha。jiarunibukeyicaozonghaozishen，buguyiqiedeai,dajiadeguanlianjiuzhongjiumeiyoujieguo。