爱的语言 今天你约了吗？

 aideyuyanshishenmeni？dajiacengjingshenaiguo，danta/tayouaishangletaren，huoshibianshibuainile。ta/tafangqini，jiaojiniwuqiongtongku。neimeaideyishuyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyonghengdewenzhangba。

 ninaozhongbuduandehuibodajiazaiyiqidejiemian，niyaolejienaerchucuole。youyubeizheigerenhuijue，niderengetezhihaoxiangdoufashenglezhuanbian。niyiqianshigehenquwei、henshanjierenyi、henyoumoderen，rujinnifangfoyuelaiyueyulaiyudichen、wuqu，youyusangshizheigeren，quanqiudoufaweile。

nicishiganjuezishenhaowuyongchu。chufeishi，nikeyizuoxienaxierangzheigerenhehaoruchu。

 ninaozhongchixuchuxiangezhonggeyangniantou，liru，woyedaizaizheier，dengwoaiderenhuijia;huoshi，aideyuyanshishenmeni？jitamen/tadaigedianhua，fatiaoduanxiaoxi;dajiagaitanyitan，wonengshuodongta/tahehaoruchu;budui!wogaizaiweixinpengyouquanfazhanxiangpian，shita/takankanmeiyoutawoyekeyifeichanghao!jiandaozheizhangxiangpianta/tahuixiangwodeba?woxianganshizheta/ta，woyutarenzaiyiqile;wanyita/tameijiandaogaizenmeban?wohaishifaxiaoxihaola，zhuangzuobujingyizhongchuanchuqude.......

nibushineiyang?zongxianggandianshenme，quwanliudianshenme。

ruguonishineiyangde，yexunigaikanyixiabenwen。

zaicizhengtiguihuanidegerenxingwei

 jiusuanrujinyouxierenduinishuo，suiyueranba。nikeyima?zhendehennan，nirujinduirichangshenghuodejuedeheyiqiandoubuyiyangle，nimeifajianxinzheigerenbuainile，quandoufashengbianhua。nihenxianggandianshenme，genggaizheileizhuangkuang。

danrujinnizuigaizuode，bianshiquandoubiezuo。baocunzishendezizun，quandoubiezuo。

 jinguan“quandoubiezuo”jiushinicishijiaonanbaozhengdeshier。zheiyihuanjie，quandoubukeyizuohuihaofeinixuduo huoli，keshi，jiuyaotahaofeinidehuoliba。

再次思考你的心态

 rujinzaishuojiejuexintai。ruguonijuedehentoule，hennaonu，youyizhongbeibierenpanbiandejuede，huoshibeiyiqi，meiyoushiyongjiazhi，quanshiyiqiezhengchangde。

 zheizhongxintaihuizaochengnixuduo niantou，liru，woxiangqingjingdian，shouyidian，huanleyidian;woxiangshaodianmaiyuan;woxiangchuanbuyiyangdeyifukuzi;woxiangmaidianershenme;woyaoqulvxing;woxiangzaodianshuijue，woxiangwanzhengye......yaoshizheigerennengzaizuowodexinniang，woyuanzuoyiqieshier。woyuanbianchengta/taqidaiwobianchengdeneiren。woxiangbianchengta/taaideneiren，yaoshita/tanengzaiduaishangwo，woyuanzuoyiqieshier。

停!

 jiutingzaineili!biedianjizheweilesheigenggai。biedianjizhegenggainiderichangshenghuo，zhiweilegenghaodinagebumingbaishangxi、buzhinizuiaideren，zaiciaishangleni。

meiduanguanlianquanshiyicixuexipeixundelijing。dajiagenjutanlianaixuexipeixunzenyangtishengziji。

再次思考这一段关联

 ninengxiangde，bianshiruguoninhaizaizheiyiduanguanlianzhong，nikeyizainajigefangmiangaijin?keshibubiyouyuzheigerenbuxihuannijiuyaogaibianxianzhuang。bubiweitarengenggai，zhijizijigenggai。ninengjienatarendetiyi，rangzishenbianweigengqiangderen，keshijiaruzheiyitiyibukeyijinibianweigengqiangderen，jiububijiena。

 aideyongheng,shijishang，neirenyibuaizheniwangwangduiniweihaineimeda，shiyouyuzheijianshiqingsunhailaidaonidezizunxin。neiyangdehuijuejinigangkaishitichuzhiyizishendeshiyongjiazhi。

再次审视自己

 zheishihounigaizhanchuqubaohuziji。nigaihuijuezheiyihuijuenideren，huijuetamendepingdingguifan。tashitamendenanti，bushinide。

 changshibuyaolianluozheigeren，gengbubiquantamenpeizainishenbian。biezaidianjizhe“deng”tamenhehaoruchu。niwubijizijishedingyitiaodaodedixian，huoxuniyiqiancongweishedingguo，congxianzaiqiba——zheixiebuyongnideren，niyebuyongqidaotamenxiangyaoni。

 jinguanjiangchuzheijuhuaninengtongxin，keshiaidebenzhibianshihuxiangde。enaideliangyouxiurencainengrangrichangshenghuobianxingfu，danfangdeaidoubukeyi。dajiabixudeairenshinengweidajiafentanyoulv，gongxiangziyuanyuyuederen。jiaruzheigerenbukeyizaidajiarichangshenghuochuxianzhongtedaqingkuangshibangshangdajia，weiheyeyaojixiwangyutazhihounengbangshangzishen?

 xiadingjuexinwanbizheiyiduanganqing，chenzheiyijiyusikao，zishengaizenyangrangzishenbianweigengqiangderen，nicaikeyipengdaogengqiangderen，zhenxideren。gaohaoniziji，wulunyoumuyouzheiyiduanguanlian。

 jiarurujinyouxierenzaisunhaini，niyaobuyaosunhaizishenle。buyaobazhuanzhulifangdaota/tadeshenshang，zhishifangdaonizijideshenshang。weizijihaowuyiwen。

 aideyishu,jiusuanniyaoshenaizhezheigeren，keshita/tabuainile，renkezheiyidian，suihouhaohaodeaiziji，jianxinyouyigerenhuiaishangleni。