怎么才算对男人好？ 是我不可爱吗？

 shiwobukeaima？zhenduichuguinanren，dajiayouyizhongguangfandebawaiyuyuanguguinaweilanqingdequxiang。juedechuguinanrenbianshiyouyulanqing，suihouyongdaodebiaozhunchizechuguinanren，shubuzhi，waiyuzhuangkuangbingmeiyoushoulianxingfandaoyouyuelaiyuejiliezhishi。yaohaoxianggenggaizheileijushi，huanshiyaoxunzhaozhijieyuanyin，duizhengzhiliaocaikeyiwanhuihunyin。genjuduichuguidenanrendeyanjiufaxian，chuguinanrenshijishangbingbingbushiyouyulanqingzheimejiandan，shenhouyeyouxuduo yuangu。yiqilaikanyixia。neimerenrendoushuowoainiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshijiehewoaizhenixinlixuedewenzhangba。

一、不被理解和关爱

 nanshengkubakubabingbushizui，nanshengmeiyouxiangxiangzhongdeneimawanqiang，tayeshiyoumingandeyifangmian，jiaruniwangjiletaxinlidemingan，wangjileshouhouheguanzhuta，neimatabianhuichulaiwaibianxunzhaozheizhongwupin，youyuyexuqitanvxingnenggoujidaotayaoxiangdeneileiguanaiheguanhuai。

二、工作中压力大

 xiandaishehuizizhanglehenduode“dangdaibing”，gongzuoyalitaida，shenghuodejiezoujiaolvbuan。shiwobukeaima？nanshengfeichangrongyibazijidegongzuozhongxintaidaihuidaojiazhongqu，jieguodaotuojuedeqingkuangxiarengzaidianjizhegongzuozhongdeshi，dangrantibuqilaijingshenshizhi，gengbuyaoshuonengshuihaojuele。erxiandainvxingdaduoshuyeyibushijiatingfunv，youyuyongyou zishendegongzuo，zizun、xinxinyebeigongzuozhongbilaidaowanmei。tamenyejingchangyaozheyagongzuozhong，fanhuijiazhongyeshishenxinpibei。erzaizheigeshihou，shuangfangzuifeichangrongyifashengzhengzhi，xintaiyehuibipingshikuangzao。fuqishenghuo，youshibianchenghuanjieyalidelingdanmiaoyao，henduonvxingquewufafeichanghaodeyunyong。

三、证实自身风采依然

 shijiehewoaizheni,youdenanshengyushengjulaibianshikushuaifengliuyunshi，jiusuanshihunhouhuanshixiaidezuinianqingdenvhai，tamenyoushimudibingbingbushiweilegenghaodiyaowaiyuhuoshiruhe，jinjinxiangzhengshizishenyeyoufengcaisuoshu，jinjinyaoxiangxunzhaoneileijuede。zheijiushiwomenchangshuodetianyalangzi，tamentongchanggerenganjuehenhao，zhenduihunyinshenghuohelaopohuanshihenzaiyide，keshiyidanlaopomeiyoushenpang，tamenbianhuimingmuzhangdanle。

四、对衰退的抵触

 dangnanrenchaochusishisuihou，tahuiganjuerichangshenghuohuanshimeiyouduoshaodereqing，zishenpinbolebanbeizi，rujinzaoyiyaojianjiandidebiannianjidale，zishenxinliyizhizaidichuzheileishuaituidejiezougan，tamengangkaishitichuzhiyirichangshenghuohexingming，tamenganjuezishencuoguolexuduo nianqingshimeibaozhengdeshier，yinci jiandaonianqingdenvhaizi，xinlibianhuizaicidianranmeili，yaoxiangzhongxinzailaiyici。zheijiushishuobailederenshengdigule，zheiyijieduandechuguinanrendegailvshifenda，youyutamenneixiangzhedeshiruguobubawozhushixiadeshijian，neimajiuhenyoukenengcuoguoledaliang。

 zongjie：renrendoushuowoaini,chuguinanrenyuanguyouhenduo，bubizhikanbiaoceng。ruguonishibeiwaiyudeyifang，tebieshizaibixuduidajiadefuqiguanxikaizhanshencengcidepouxi。