爱的语言有哪些呢？拒绝追求者时应该注意什么?

aidoushiduidema？dabufenzhuangkuangxia，womendoushiyaohuijueyixingpengyouzhuiqiuwanmeide。youyudajiajuedaduoshuren，zaitongyishijianduan，zhiyoutiaoxuanyigezhenshiaiderenyouhuihetanlianai。yinci ，gaoqingchuzenyanggengshidangdihuijuebierendezhiai，yurenjijiaowangshiguanjiande。neimeaideyonghengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyuyandewenzhangba。

huijueyixingpengyoushi，zuiguanjiandeshijishangshikoufeng。

nvhaierchangchangnanyiyizhizheixiexiaoxiaoxurongba，zhiyaoshiyouxierenzhuiqiuwanmei，bianjinbuzhuyaojiangjixuduorenting。ziran，gongxiangshinvxingdexiguanxing，erwomenjianyishi，kuaquangongxiang——tongxuemenzhuinidehua，qinggongxiangjipengyoupenyou;pengyouzhuinidehua，yekeyigongxiangjitongxuemenpenyou……zongeryanzhi，wuxuxuanchuancehuayuniliangdexianghushejiaoquanzi。erzheiyuniyuta，douyouyiwuhai。

最先，你顾全了他的面部。

chucizhiwaiyebiewangle，changhaizhenguiliwu，eryouqirenzhenxiedebiaobaixin，yingdangyezaizheililieba。jianxinyiweixiangyounanzihanqigaidenanxing，huiweizheiyidianxincunganen;

次之，在平时相处中，你无须难堪路面对周边人的尤其注意。

zheixiewuyuanwugudemuguangyudaqu，zongyouyitianhuikunhuoni——niyinggaiyongnazhongfengge、nazhongxiaobiaoqingtongtajianghua，caikeyishifenweishufuni?nizijidouzhaobuzhebei;

第三，给自己的别的很有可能考虑。

aideyuyan,jiaruoyouyigenanhai，jiushinihenyoukenenghuixiaide，taquehaipalaizhuini……yuanguzhiqujueyu，aidoushiduidema？tazhidaotaxiongdibujiugenzhuini，danshibaile，talinshixiangkaolvdaotaxiongdidetihui，neimenihuiquehanma?ziranninengshuo，neiyangdenanshengtairuanruo，nimeixiqi。kexiangxindabufenrendaotiqianzhunbeihuoyikaishizhuiqiuwanmeiyixingpengyoushi，neixinyingdangzhishishihaogandu，bingmeiyougengjiashenrudeganqing。ganqingshiduoshaoyaozaiyihoudexiangshihuojiaowangzhongzaocheng。yiner，yishizaochengbushangbaituozuaidedongneng，shijishangshinenggoulejiede;

第四，防止另一方为了更好地情面不断追求你。

zhoubianrenherendoulejietashilianhou，shihenganga。yincitajuedezongzhiqingmianyediule，bibushangbeishuiyizhan，yaojinyazaicisikeni。suihou，nihuanshiyaohuijueta，yizhihuijue。yidancongshebudewangjifazhanqushizhibijiaoyanzhongyuanhen，bingbushisongrentingwen，youshihouzhenhuimeifazhengli;

第五，你确实想和他做一般朋友吗?

wobuhuitiyi2gebenlaisuanbushangshipenyouderen，zhiyuanyutazhuiqiuwanmeiguoni，dannijujueleta，jiuhetazuo“yibanpengyou”。youyu，bingbushipenyou——yibanpengyou，guigenjiedizheiguanlianshiyoujindude，neimenishizhenhuijuehuanshijiahuijueni?jiaruonizhenxinshiyiganjuetadeshenshangyouhenduofeichangzhidexiaofangdediqu，texiangbianchengpenyou，haiyaozaijinqilakaijuli。erqiantitiaojianrengshi——aideyongheng,nixubaomixing。buran，xuduorenyanzhong，nirengshixiangfazhanqushichubei，tarengshixiangchuqibuyixingdong，dajiayagennanyifazhanqushichunyouyi;