爱的语言有哪些呢？相恋的人怎么才算是“合适”？

aidoushiduidema？congnanhaihenvhaixiangyudaotanlianaiqianqi，yinweiganqingdezhuangji，zaiganqingdecijixingxia，shuangfangfeichangshaosisuo“shibushishihe”zheigewenti，jinjinganjueliangrenenaile，jiaowangzhenxingfujiukeyile。danbansuizhetanlianaireqingdetundiao，lianggerenkenengfajueyuanxianganqingbukeyidanshijiezhuyu“reqing”，shijishanglianaizhongdenanhaihenvhaiyaoxiangzoudegengweizhangjiu，kaodehuanshishibushi“shihe”。neimeaideyonghengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyuyandewenzhangba。

那针对恋爱的人而言，怎么才算作“适合”?

 shijishang“shihe”dehanyifeichangjiandan，bianshilianggerencongxingqing、luojisiweiyishidaoqingkuangdouhenqiehe，jibian shaoyoubutongzhichu，xianghujianduoduoshaoshaodecunyouzhechabie，danzuishaoyaoquebaobumaodun。tashi“shihe”dehanyi，jiexiaqudajiazaijiangxiazairichangshenghuozhong，shuangfangzenmecaisuanzuo“shihe”ba!

第一点、既是情侣也是知心

xianghushihedeqiantitiaojian，shinengquebaonanhaihenvhailianggerenjishiqinglv，lingwaiyeshizhixin。wulundajiayinweinazhongyuanguerxianghuxiyinzhu，danjianxindajiazhongjiandeyouhuolihaowuyiwenbujinjinshitongxingxiangchineimejianyi，buranzaizheigeshijieshangzheimeduodeyixingpengyou，nizenmejiudanshimishangzheiyinanshengleni?

qishibushihennan，zaidajiazhongjianyongyou xianghudegerenaihao，huoshineixinyouzhehexianghuleisideyishi，aidoushiduidema？erzheizhonggengshicushidajiabianchengzhixinyoufazhanqushiweiqinglvdezuizhongyaoyuangule。yinci diyidianjiushizheiban。

第二点、沟通交流和睦，发言挑明

ninengxiangyixiang，tangruoyiduiqinglvlianqimadegoutongjiaoliuyemeiyou，jianghuayeyizhiduoduoshanshan，youshenmeshidoubuyuanyigongxiangjilingyifang，neinishuotamendejieguoshishenmeni?bidingshizhengtiandezhengzhi，zuihouganqingfensui!

yinci lianrenjiande“shihe”，qiantitiaojiankendingshiqimahemudegoutongjiaoliu，bingqiezaijiaowangzhangle，niyaohuifajueniyuzishendeqinglvyoushihouyagenwuxuyuyan，zhibixuyigemuguangjiufeichangrongyiyihuitadehanyi。

第三点、拥有 相互的核心理念，相仿的逻辑思维意识

shuangfangzaibuyiyangdeziranhuanjingxiazhangdale，chupengdequntibuyiyang，zaoshoudewenhuajiaoyuyebuyiyang，neihaowuyiwencunyouzhexuduodemaodun。danwojuededaibiaozhedajiadehexinlinian，kandaishenghuodetaidu，jiqiaiqingguannianjiazhiguanyongyou feichangdademaodun，huoxuyongyou xiweimojieshangdebuyiyang，danzheiburongyibianchengdajiabunengdiaohedefenqi。

yinci “shihe”deqinglvzhongjiandehexinlinianheluojisiweiquanshixiangfangde，jibian youbuyiyang，dajiayehuixianghukuanrong。

第四点、出現难题时的看待方法

aideyuyan,lianaiderenzhongjianhaowuyiwenhuichuxianfenqi，bushihedelianrenhuibaxiaowentinaizhiyidiandianmocakandefeichangzhong，dangranhuigangkaishiduixianghuzaochengyuanqi，yulaiyushenzuihourangganqingbuzaikaixinzhongqushi。

shihedelianrenni，zailianggerenchuxiannantishi，jibian youzhengzhidanburongyirangzhengchaoyuelaiyuejilie，zhishihuijianjiandiderangfenqipingfu，bingjijizhudonglumianduinanti，chulilianggerenzhongjiancunyoudejianyi，zhangjiuyiwanglianggerendeganqinghaowuyiwenhuiyulaiyutianmei。

第五点、宽容和接受

aideyuyan,zainideqinglvdeshenshang，shibushiyongyou nisuotaoyandexiaoquexianxiaowentini?wojuedehuidashihaowuyiwende，neizhenduizheizhongxiaoquexianniyouyongyou ruhedexintaini?

“shihe”delianrenhaowuyiwenburongyibiandazheizhongquexian，sheidoushiyouzishendequedian，tashirenmendeguanlianxing，yaoshibuweihaidajiadeganqing，xiangxinduinieryannihaowuyiwenxiangyaokuanrongzishendelianren，rutongtapingchanglixiangyaochongninidexiaopiqiyiyang。

diliudian、xianghujiezhudandanshifendeyikao

zuoweiqinglv，dajiahaowuyiwenjiezhuzhexianghu，pingchanglinihaowuyiwenxiangyouzhegentazaiyiqideyifenyimiao。dannishibushizongdianjizhezhanjutaquanbudeshijianni?

aideyongheng,tangruohuidashihaowuyiwende，neiwojuedenideaiqingyishihaixinzhibuchengshu。youyuzhenduishihedeaireneryan，jibian feichangailingyifang，danjinjinjiezhu，bingbingbushichedideyikao，youyudajiadoushiyouxianghudesuiyi，zhenzhengdeaiqingchuangjianzaisuiyishangcaikeyijiankangchengzhangde。