爱是什么?男人在什么情况下会迫切想挽回一个女人？

 youyiweinvhaizaifabiaopinglunshuodao：henanpengyougaoxiaowaidi，jinyouzhangyidiandeshujiacaikeyijianshangyimian，juededajiayulaiyubulejiexianghu。neimeaishizenmeyihuishini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishishenmenidewenzhangba。

dangwomenshangxinnanguodeqingkuangxiatayezongmeiyoushenpang，wowoyebuzhidaozishenhainengjianchibuxieduozhangshijian……

yiguolianyinweishouhouhecanyuxingdejiangdi，huijianshaoxianghudeguishugan，qingganshihenrongyishoudaosunshangde。

 jinguansuhuashuodehao：“liangqingruoshizhangjiushi，youqizaiyuanjunanhao”，keshishijishanglijingwaidimoliandeganqingkanqilaifenwaibaogui。

 yiguolianzhongcunyousangeyuedehuaiyunweixianqihesigeguanjianhuanjie，shaobuliushenqingganhenyoukenengjiuyiquehandejieguoluoxiaweimule。neimadajiazenmecainengxinranduguoyiguoliandezheiyiduansuiyueni?

 zuixiandajiaxianlailiaoyiliaoyiguoliansangeyuedehuaiyunweixianqi，dajiayingdangzenyanglaijiejue。zheizhongchangjianwentiganwanyaodazheshierfendejingshenshizhi。

第一、千万别根据电話发火。

nanhaizixiaozhaohuixinsangqidexunzhaodajia：wohenvyounaobaile。shijishangshiyouqixiaodeyijianshi。

 danshiwomenlianghanzhedianhuayuechaoyueqiangda，tayitiguoquwoyegengshengqile，yiqizhixiaguadiaodianhua，zaidahuilai，tajiangwojiaruheimingdanle。

chuduixiangliangrenyoudianermocahenyiqiezhengchang，zhengchaodouzuinanyibimian。

 keshiyiguolianbixufenwaishenzhongle，bubiyouyufenqi，lengyanlengyu，youyushuozhewuyiwenzhebujingyi，nihenyoukenengbuganjueyounaxie，keshilingyifangzaoyibeisunhaile。

yuanbenjiangelianggedifang，liangrendeqingganjiujiaoweibijiaominganmingan，yixieshangxindehuahuiyuelaiyuegengweilingrenshangxin。

youhuiyouxierenwenle：bukeyizhengchao，nandaoshuowoxiangbaquanbudeshiqingbiezaixinlima?

ziranbushizheiyang，younaxiebuyukuaihebumanyidediquyidingshuoqichuqu，danyaoxuehaoqiadangdegoutongfangshi。

第二、日常生活重心点不必全紧紧围绕着另一方。

 feifeidenanyouyingongzuozhongbixuyaozaiyididaishang2nian。feifeizishenzaizhengfujiguanbutaihaocizhisuitong，yincilianggerenkaishileyouzhangdeyiguolian。

feifeishigejiaoweinianrendenvsheng，bananpengyouzuoweizishendequanqiu，yiguolianrangtashifenbushihe。

 nanpengyouneilidexinxiangmugangqidong，shierbijiaoduo，youshihouhuijiebushangfeifeidianhua。changchangshiyichangdahuichulai，weijielaidianyidui，nanpengyouhuidianhuabiaoshushifeifeimanhengwuli，minganduoyi。

zongsuannanpengyoushoubule：“dajiahaishifenkaiyiduanshijianba。”

yaolejiechukaiganqingyeyourichangshenghuohegongzuozhongdeng，lingyifangbutaikenengsuishidaiming。

 aishizenmeyihuishi?bubibaganqingzuoweiweiyi，zhizhiliyulingyifang，huirangzishenyuelaiyueminganduoyi，minganbijiaomingan，yehuiranglingyifangjuedehenyougongzuoyali，juedepijuan。

 shizhefengfuduocaizishenderichangshenghuoba，rangbicidoushiyouyiduanxiangduixingsuiyideshineikongjian，qinggannenggoudedaochuanqi，niyenenggoudailailingyifangdaliangshenmigan。

第三、坚定不移走下来的自信心，多给另一方一些信任感。

zezedeqingganchuleyixienanti：wozhuanrenlaidaobeijingshizheili，meiribianshigongzuozhongjiaojiliangdianyixian。

 wochengrenhetagoutongjiaoliushaoledian，danshitawuyuanwugujiunazheguangxuexianweijingkanzhewoweixinpengyouquan，suihoujiangwozhiyideyilianmeng，biaoshuhaibuting，wojiushizhendehennan。

 youyunishouhoutadeshijianyuelaiyueshaole，zheihuijuedezishenyuniderichangshenghuomanmancuowei，tahuiganjuemeiyouanquangan，yidiandianxiaoshijiuchongzutaxinfanyiluandabantian。

gengshiyouyuzheiban，dajiagengbixujiandingbuyizaiyiqidexinxin，duojilingyifangyixiexinrengan。

 caiyidezhongziyidanzhongxia，bianhuifengkuangdekuosan，guanxinzeluan，yuefacaiyiyuefabulizhi，neimabulizhixiafeichangrongyizuoyixielingrenhouhuimojideshiqing。

 neiyiguoliannayigehuanjiejiaoweifengxianni?shijishangzhenzhengdeaiqingliudongxingde，meiyoukendinganquanxingdehuanjie，yiyangdoumeiyoukendingfengxiandehuanjie。

 guanjiandeshi，renzhenjinshendekandaimeiyigehuanjie，jinyouneiyang，pengdaoweijibuhaipa，meipengdaoweiji，yeshiyouyingduihejiejuedeweijidegongzuonengli。

 aishishenmeni?xiangaibuyi，yiguoliangengbuyi，duojixianghuyixiexinrenganhelejie，bawodaliangdetanlianaijiqiao，neijianxinjianjujiubingbushidajiadenanti。