爱是什么?学会这样和男人聊天

 zilianggerenfenliyihou，zhengtianmomoliulei，danniyiranqidailianggerennengzhongxinzailai。neimeaishizenmeyihuishini?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishishenmenidewenzhangba。

nishizhelexuduo ：zhiqian、fuwuchengnuo，xunzhaoqinpenghaoyoudexiezhu，naizhidijiandebiaomingzijizuoshenmedou……

danshi，huanshimeishenmejindu。

 ziran，nizongsuanyishidao，wanliushibixufangfa，bukeyineiyangzhijieshuofuhexing，neigangkaishilinshirangdajiadeguanlianhuanjiechulai，qingjingdedenghou，shizhezhezaicihetachupeng，zongsuantayibuneimapaichinini。

zheijishiqudechenggonglemeiyou?

自然并不是!

nijinjinmaikailediyibu，jibian tayuanyibudanxiufulianluo，dandoubuyiweizhezhegennixiufuguanlian。

ruozaicike，niyihuibuduitadehanyi，jibukenaidemingquetichuwanliu，fandaohuirangdajiadeguanlianzaiyicixiufubingdu。

 rujindajiajinjinmaikailediyibu，ziranzheiyeshiyouweizhongyaodeyibu，zaicixiufulianluo，jiukeyizaiyicichuangjianyouhaodu，rangdajiazhongjianzaiduyouzhezhongxinzailaidejiyu，ziranzheiyiqiehaibixukaonizijizhangwo。

zaixiufulianluohou，zenyanghetaxianliaogoutongjiaoliuni?

1.话题讨论

yikaishibubitanqifuhexing，yebubiguoshaodetanjiqinggan，danzheibujiuyiweizhedajiazhongjianmeiyouhuatikeliao。

 xianzaideni，daliangsisuodeyinggaishibicizhijiandejingzhundingwei，dajiazaoyiyibushilianren，danyiqianjingliqinggan，ruoniduixianghudejingzhundingweishiqianren，zongshizaochengtadepaichi。

zuishidangdejingzhundingweiyinggaishi：penyou。

 dajialejiexianghu，qingxilingyifangdexingqingheaihao，jinjinlinshibingbushihunyinguanxibale，wojuedebianshipenyoudezhenshishenfenma?

xiangyixiang，niyupengyoushiruheliaotiandeni?

 zhibuguoshiyixiepingshidehuatitaolun，jinguankanshangquyixiepingpingdandan，keyidandajialiaodeshencengci，bansuizhehuatitaolundechixuzhuanbian，bianhuiyuelaiyuequwei。

 buyaodanxinliaozheizhonghuatitaolunburongyijinideqinggancengdi，fandaogentaliaozheizhonghuatitaolun，nengshitajiaoda shuipingdejiangdiduinidepaichixinlizhuangtai，bingqiefeichangrongyibeizheileixintaisuoweihai。

2.气氛

lianggerenxianliao，xianbubisuzaonuanweideqifen，zhishiyaojinkenengranglianggerenzhongjiandeqifenqingqingsongsongyixie。

 xiangweichiqingsongzizaideqifen，jiububijiushizhongti，yifangrangxianghuyebukaixin。zhongjiuruguonihetagangkaishijiuguoqudeshigoutongjiaoliushi，mianbulebianhuizhenggesheiduidaodishisheidecuo，douhuirangxianghujuedeshenxinpibeide。

 xiangbawozhuyouliangdeqifen，jiuxuyaoqingqingsongsongyixie，shuoyixieqingqingsongsongdehuatitaolun，jiangyixiaxianghudouhenganxingqudeshi，jiaruniqueshizhaobuzhehuatitaolun，nenggouyingyongxunqiubangzhushikaiju，tiaoxuantashanyudexingye，xunqiubangzhutayixienanti。

 aishizenmeyihuishi?zhenduizishenshanyudexingye，yiqienanshidoushiyouliaobuwandehuatitaolun。zheiyangyilai，youjiletaqingmian，dajiadehuatitaolunyedakaile。

3.话题讨论拓宽

 chupengyiduanshijianyihou，dengtayibuneimapaichini，bingqiezaoyixiguangennichupeng，zaicixiguanyunijiaowang，haikeyishidudebahuatitaoluntuokuandaoqingganshangqu。

ziran，zheigeshihouyebushitanfuhexingdeshike，zhishishuoxieqingganyouguandehuatitaolun。

 liru，niduizhiqianqinggandesikao，ganjuezishenguoquyixiediquzuodedequebuzuhao，yeyou，jinkenengzhanxianzishendegenggai，shitayishidaoniyijingchaozhehaodefangweizhuanbian，yijingchaozhetaqidaidemoyangergenggai。

 ziranhaikeyishidudejiangyijiangduijianglaideguandian，danzuizhongyaodeshibuyaoshuohetafuhexingzheijianshiqing，bubijijitanji，chufeishitajiji。

 aishishenmeni?dengdajiazaicijindaoaimeiqi，jiuxuyaoshidudehuyuanhujin，shitazhuabushangdanao，husiluanxiangzhongjian，tayehuiyishidaonizhenduitadebiyaoxing，dajiadefuhexingdangranyejiutishangrichengle。