异地恋分手想挽回该怎么做，解决异地恋最好的方法

jiejueyidilianzuihaodefangfayounaxie？shishishang，zaiyidilianzhongfenshoubingbuxiangnixiangxiangdeneimenan。zixixiangxiang。shishishang，dangnidedifangxiangchushi，nibushihentianmi。nimenhuikaolvbicideweilaima？qidaizhemeiyicihuiyi。weishenmeyihouhuifenkai？

zheizhendeshiyinweinizaibutongdedifang。ruguonishuodeshizhende，shishishang，zaixiangchudeguochengzhong，youxiewentiwufajiejue，nimeiyouxinxinqujiejue，suoyinihuijixubeixiaojiduidai。xiaojiduidaihuichanshenggengduodewenti。zheiyang，exingxunhuanzuizhonghuidaozhifenshou。

dangduifangmeiyoujishihuifunidexinxishi，nizixihuiyi，ranhounikaishidiyicibukaixin。dangninanguodeshihou，duifangbunenghenizaiyiqi。nikaishicibaoyuan。

congneishiqi，nihuifaxianzijiyuelaiyuemeiyouanquangan，suoyinisuonengzuodejiushiyuelaiyuejinmidizhuazhuta，yinweiyijianxiaoshihuikuodazhengchao，manmandi，nidexiangchuqifenhuibiandeyuelaiyuebutianmi，danhuigandaojusang，juededuifangbuaini。

lingyifangmian，lingyifangmian，ruguotamenjuedetamenbunengyunixiangchu，kandaoweilai，tamendeziranganjuehuiyuelaiyueruo。shishishang，fuhedeguanjiandianbushijieshubutongdedifang。

weishenmewocongbujianyizaifenshouhouquduifangdechengshidengdaiduifang，wenduifangweishenme，yinweizaimuqiandezhuangtaixia，zheizhishinidelingyizhongsaoraoxingshi。zheizhendeyouxiaoma？

fuhedeguanjiandianyinggaishizengjiaduifangduiniyougenghaojieguodexinxin，zengjiayunixiangchudeshushihewuyalideganjue。zuihou，zaijiashangyidianxinxiangan，zhiyaoninengzuodaozheiyidian，nijiugengyoukenenghehao。neime，niruhezuodaoyishangjidianni？

先要了解什么

1.shifangzheizhongguanxihuiyouhaojieguodexinhao

zheishiweilezengjianiduihaojieguodexinxin。jianyanzhi，jiushihuadangao。nijiangjiehunbingjieshubutongdedifang。zheibuhuirangnilijitounaofare，zhijiecizhi，qubicidechengshifazhan。nizhidaozheishishenmema？

zheishiyigeaidedanao。nirenweinixihuanneixiebukaolvchongdonghouguoderenma？woxiangxinnibuhuixihuande，yinweizheiyiweizhebuchengshuhemafan，neimeduifangzenmenengbanifangzaiyigegaozhiliangdehunyinduixiangzhongni？

yinci，zhengquedefangfashizhidingyigezhunque、kexing、fuheshijiqingkuangdejihua。liru，ruguonifaxianduifangdechengshishijishanggengyouliyunidefazhan，huozhenikeyijileiziben，ranhouchuangye，nibixukaolvshijiqingkuang。

bingrenweigaibianchengshiduinilaishuobushiyijianhuaishi。dangninengchengshouzheigejieguoshi，dangnikenengyiqigongzuoyichanshenggenghaodejieguoshi，nideqianrenziranhuiduinijieshubutongdifangdeganqingchongmanxinxin。

2.调整相处模式

 weilerangduifangzaimeiyouyalideqingkuangxiayunixiangchurongqia，zhijieledangdishuo，nikeyihuxianglijie，buhuijiduifangzengjiayali。niyinggaiyishidaomeigerendouhuiyouzijidegongzuoheshenghuo。

nibunengquanxinquanyidizhaoguni，bunengzaijimiaozhongneihuifunidexinxi，yebunengzainixuyaodeshihouyizhipeibanni。zheishinichengshuhelixingdexiangzheng。

shishishang，ruguoduifangbunengzhaoguni，duifangkenenghuigandaoneijiuhedaoqian，danruguonibaoyuanhezhize，zheizhihuixiaochutaduinideneijiuhemaodun。

yinci，womenyinggaishaobaoyuan，duojiaoliu，meitianjiaoliudehuati，gengduodegengxin，gengduodeyangguang，gengjijidenengliang，genghaodezhuangtai，ranhouyongzheiyangyizhongjijidefenweilaituidongbici，nixiangchu，huigengrongyi。

3.如何增加新鲜度

nimeiyouzhuyidaoxinxianganma？zainimenfenkaizhiqian，nimenyijingdaolewuhuakeshuodejieduan。zaihuifudeguochengzhong，liaotianhuatizhishichifanma？nishuijuelema？neimeduifangzenmehuiduiniganxingquni？huangejiaoduxiangxiang。

nihuiwennishifoumeitiandouchihaishishuijue？nixihuanwananma？nizhihuirenweitazaizuozheigechengxu。suoyi，nixuyaozengjiayixiexinxiangan，bingqiezheiyangzuo？

 ranhounibixuxianxuexihejiechuxinshiwu。zhiyouzheiyang，dangniqudejinbushi，nidexinxiangancaihuihuilai，duifangcaihuizhenzhengyuanyizaicitansuonidexinshiwu。

ranhou，zaizheixiefangmian，niyoulexindehuati，xinxianganyouhuilaile，ranhouduifangkandaolexindexiwang，duiweilaidehaojieguoyoulexinxin，zheiyangnijiukeyigongzuole。

dangyidilianchuxianwentishi，womenruhechangshihuifu？

怎样才能挽回

一.不要做傻事

dangyixierenzaiyidilianzhongfenshoushi，tamendediyifanyingkenengshi：woxiangjiantamenta！woyaogaosutawoyouduoshebude，woyouduoaita。

raner，zheiqiaqiazaiyidiliandehuifuguochengzhongqueshicunzai“sixue”。

yidiliandepengyoumenqingjizhuyijianshi：jianmian，yongyuanshiyidilianwanhuidezuihougongzuo，bunengzuoweiyizhongwanhui。

shouxian，yidilianfenshouhuifuzhongzuizhongyaodeyidianjiushihuifubicizhijianxianghuyilaideganjue。

zhengruwozhiqiansuoshuode，tongguozhongxinjianlilianjiedian，zhaodaoduifangyijingxiguanbingqiebuxiangfangqideganjue。

tongguozheixiexiweidelianjiexian，womenkeyizaibicidexinzhongjianliyigelianghaodeganjuetiyan。

zheizhongfangshibizaiduifangjiamenkoudahandajiaoyaohao“woaini”bihenduobeiqiang。

yinciyidiliandewanhuishizuihouyibu。

jianmiandejihuijinxianyuniheduifangdewentihemaodunyijingchubujiejue，duifangyouhuidaonishenbiandexiangfa。

cishizaijianmian，jiushiwanhuideshouweigongzuo，yekeyilijieweiwanhuichenggongdeshike。

jiarunimenyaoheduifangzaiyiqi“dangmianduizhi”，duifangkendinghuijuedenishisichanlanda，woxiangbuchuduifanghaihuiyoushenmefanying，chulehaipahechediduanjueguanxi。

zaihuifuguochengzhong，youhenduozheiyangdewujieheleiqu。nikeyiguanzhuzihaodehunyinqinggan。wohuibushigengxincuowuhexiangchujiqiao~

二.如何正确道歉

ruguozaiyidilianzhongshejidaodaoqian，neimeqingyidingyaozuozheijijianshi：

nizhidaoduifangdeshijixuqiuma？zhidaohouruhezuzhiyuyan？zhidaozheiyidianhou，ruheweikaichangdaoqiandaoqian。

xiangxinhenduorenduidaoqiandelijiehenjiandan，zhishiyijudandandehua：duibuqi。nikeyiyuanliangwo。

wocuole:wentishininalicuole？nizhishishuonicuole，danzongzhi，niduiwobuhao，neimenizhidaowozhenzhengxuyaodeshishenmema？

yuanliangwo：yuanliangyehenjiandana，yijuhuayemeiguanxi。danshixianzaiwoyouneimeduodeqingxu，niyaowozenmeyuanliangni？zongxuyaoyigeliyouba？

yinci，zhenzhengdaoqiandefangshiyinggaishi：+neixindefansheng+ninachudebuchangcuoshi。

jutichengyigewanzhengdejuzikeyicankao：

duibuqi，wozuodebuhao。zheimejiudeqingkuangshi...erqiewodeqingkuangshi...xianzaicaiyishidaochengle...weiciwoxiang...zheiyangjiejuezheixieshiqing。jiejueyidilianzuihaodefangfayounaxie？

zheishiyigejutidemiaoshu，erbushiyigekansisongsandecidezuhe。

san.yidingyaodiaozhenghaoxintai

xintaishangniyaomingbaizheishinizaijiuduifang，nimeiyouzigehetiaojianheduifangtantiaojian。

suoyishenmeshishenme，zijidexianshishishenme，neijiushishenme。

bujinjinshiweilejiejuexianzai“fenshou”yaokuadaqici，buduanduiduifangzuochuyixiebubiyaodechengnuo。

shenzhiyoujianmianshishenzhihuizheiyangxiang：wojiushizheiyangzuode，niweishenmehaibuyuanliangwoni？

kangfushinidexuanze，dangnizaikangfudeguochengzhong，xintaiyidingyaoyouyigehaodeguiwei。

erdaolezheigejieduan，nidexintaihaishidiaozhengbuhao，benlaijiushiyiduanhenxinkudeaiqing！

zaijiashangcikexintaidebupingheng，henduorenzaijiaotandeshihoudouhuihuidaoyuduifangtaojiahaijiadezhuangtai。shishishang，zainifuqianzhiqian，duifangyezaifuqian。

四.建立有效的交集

zaihuanheshangmiandeguanxizhong，cishijianlijiaojishifeichangyouyongde：huafenlianggerenzhuanshudegonggongquyu。

biruwoyexihuantongleixingdeaihao，biruyouxi，huozhedianshijudeng。，ranhouliyongzheixiegongtongdedongxi，zaizhongxinlianjiehefuhedezaoqijieduanchuangzaolianghaodeduihuatiaojianhefenwei。

henduoyidilianfenshoudegenbenyuanyinwomenhuifaxiannimendouyouhenbuhaodegoutongfangshi!

womenmeigerendouzhidaoyidilian，jiuxianggezhepingmulianaiyiyang，cishizhunquezhunquedebiaodajiuxiandefeichangzhongyao。

raner，xuduorenduizheifangmiandechulifeichangyouzhi：dangtamenkandaoduifangmeiyouhuiyinghuohuiyingbuhaoshi，tamenbuzhidaoruheshuohua。xiangfan，tamenbadabufenjinglifangzaiduifangdexiangfashang，erbushiyindaoduifangbiaoda。

zhenzhengdejiaoliubujiushirushimiaoshuzijineixindexiangfama？

zaiwanchengleshangmiantidaodejigebuzhouzhihou，zaizheigejieduan，niyijingnenggouqingchudiganshoudaoduifangdeneixinxuqiu，yijinimuqiansuoquefade。

wulunshihuifuhaishizuoshi，womendouyinggaimingbai，faxianwentishizhongshijiejuewentideqianti，suoyizaizheigejieduan，huifujiangjinruxiayibu：niyoushenmejihua，yijinixiangruhemibuyiqiandecuowu。

zuizhongyaodeshi，womenyinggaizhidao，yidilianfenshoudezhuyaoyuanyinhuoquefazhichidianshijishangshiqinggandeweilai，suoyiduiyu“jianglai”niyoushenmedasuan，weicinixiangzuoxieshenmelaizhengming？

jiejueyidilianzuihaodefangfayounaxie？yaohuifuyidilian，shouxianyaojizhuyijianshi：juliyongyuanbunengzuoweirenheyidilianfenshoudegenbenyuanyin。ruguonirenweizheizhishiyicijiandandehuimian.jiejuejuliwentikeyidadaowanhui，shidacuotecuo！