恋爱初期需要天天联系吗，不要和男人天天保持联系

lianaichuqixuyaotiantianlianxima？nvxingtianshengquefaanquangan，zheibujinyunvxingzishendetedianyouguan，yelaiziyufuqinzaiyuanshijiatinghuanjingzhongdejiaose。

qingchunqi，renmenkaishiyoulewuzhideaiqingguannian，nvrenkaishiduinanrenyouyixiehaogan。

womenfaxian，zaizeoushi，daduoshunvxinggengqingxiangyuxunzhaoyigeyufuqinxinggexiangsidenanren，zheiyangtamencainenghuodeanquangan。

zaixingbieguanxizhong，nanrenqueshigengduli，yidannvrenzhuiruaihe，tamenhenrongyishoudaoqingganguanxideyingxiang。yinci，womenchangshuolianaizhongdenvrenshizuiyuchunde。

youyuyilaigandecunzai，nvxinggengxihuanmeitianlianxinanxing，yishiweilemanzuzijidekongzhiyu，ershiweilezaiduifangdehuiyingguochengzhonghuodeneixindemanzu。

danshiwomenfaxian，neixietiantianlianxinanrendenvren，bingbuhuiyinciergandaomanzu，fanerhuichanshengxinlishangdechajugan。

zailiangxingguanxizhong，qianwanbuyaotiantianbaochilianxi，nvxingxuyaojizhusangeqianguize。

一、走得太近，容易产生“刺猬效应”

01)，qinmiguanxizhijianyexuyaojuligan，danshihenduonvxingquehulvelezheiyidian。

xinlixuejiarenwei，renyurenzhijianxuyaobaochixiangyingdejuli，cainenggenghao、gengshushidixiangchu，qinmiguanxizhijianyeyouyidingchengdudebawo。

nvrenjingchanglianxinanren，zoudetaijin，henrongyichansheng“ciweixiaoying”。

“ciweixiaoying”,zhiciweizaihanlengdetianqili，bicikaojinqunuan，danbaochiyidingdejuli，yimianhuxiangcishang。

02)，nannvzhijianxuyaobaochiyidingdekongjianhejuli，zheiyangcaibuhuiqingyijiduifangdailaiyapogan。

yidanzaiyiduanguanxizhong，nvrenyunanrendejiechuguoyuqinmi，wuxingzhongdapolebicizhijiandebianjiegan。

nanrenbuhuiyinweinvrendepinfanjiechuergandaokuaile。xiangfan，tamenhuijuedetagansheletamendeziyou。gerenyouyidingdedulishuxing，nanrenbinvrengengkewangziyou。

xiangfan，yidanyigenanrenkaishipinfandiyuyigenanrenjiechu，bujitayidiankongjian，bujinhuirangzijimishiziwo，haihuishilianggerenzhijianchanshengmaodun。

二、“心理阈值”对情绪的影响

zaixinlixuezhong，youyigejiaozuoyuzhideyuzhi“xinliyuzhi”，shizhiyizhongxiaoyingyichanshengdezuidihuozuigaozhi。

ruguowomenbagangcainengyinqixinliganjuedezuixiaocijichengweiganjueyuzhixiaxian；nengchanshengzhengchangganjuedezuidacijichengweiganjueyuzhishangxian。

jiaruyikaishi，nvrenlianxinanrenshi，tahuigandaoxingfenhekuaile，neimesuihouzainvrenpinfanlianxinanrendeguochengzhong，zhihuirangnanrendexingfendianbiandi。

lianaichuqixuyaotiantianlianxima？zhengruxianshishenghuozhongsuofashengdeneiyang，lianaizhichu，nanrenzhuiqiunvren，nvrenyidianhuiying，nanrenjiuhuigandaoxingfu。

suizheliangrenguanxideshenru，nvrenzhujianjinanrengengduodeai，dancishinanrendefanyingquediyuyikaishi。

yuanyinhenjiandan。ruguoyikaishinvxingdefanyingshinanxingganjueyuzhidexiaxian，neimesuizhehouxudejiaoliu，nvxingdeguodujiechujiuxiangdangyuganjueyuzhideshangxian。

yinci，wulunnvrenzaizuoshenme，doubuhuirangnanrengandaoxingfen，ziran，takaishibulini，shenzhixiguanleduinimobuguanxin。

三、与满足感相比，男性更倾向于征服心理学

congyuanshishehuikaishi，nanrenjiuzhanjuleyidingdezhudaodiwei，tamenyouyidingdezhengfuyuwang，ernvrendangshizhishifushudiwei。

suizhewuzhiwenhuashuipingdetigao，nannvzhijiandediweiquyupingdeng，dannanxingzhengfudeyuwangyirangenshendigu。

nanrenzaishiyeshang，gengkewangjingzhengguanxi，tamenzaijingzhengzhong，zhengmingzijidejiazhi。

nanliangxingguanxizhong，nanxi“zhengfu”zaizheigeguochengzhong，xinlixuejiarenweizhengfugan，huirangnanrenjuedezijiyousuochengjiu，donglidequdongzuoyong，yehuirangnanrengengjiaguanzhuzheigenvren。

raner，dangjiaosehuhuanshi，nvrenkaishimeitianlianxinanren，neimezirannanrenjiuhuiquefayixiedongli，gengbuhuiqingyifuchu。

“lianggerenruoshizhangshijian，youbuzaichaoxi。”

nvrenyaomingbai，ruguoyigenanrenaini，takendinghuizhudongzhaoni，xiangfan，taduiniyuebuganxingqu，jiuyuebuhuiqingyilianxini。

liangxingguanxiyinggaichaozheshenmefangxiangfazhan，bingbuqujueyunimeitianlianxita，dingzhetakan，erqujueyunideqingganjichuhenizijidejiazhi。

lianaichuqixuyaotiantianlianxima？youshihou，yuqidanxinshifouyaolianxiduifang，buruhuadianshijianrangzijiduchu，yinweiduifangmeiyoujishihuifunidexiaoxi。